Men are prudes

[policywank]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Prudes

Hopefully I am an exception to your statement. I am a bi male and truly love both men and women.

I also have many other bad habits if you care to find out.

 

[RedAllan]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.


You've just destroyed my ego. I am now sobbing in the corner.

Nah fuckit I'm out for a beer. That always restores my self-esteem.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

You've just destroyed my ego, I am now sobbing in the corner.

Nah fuck it I'm out for a beer, that alaways picks my self esteem up.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

Its funny because its true.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Prudes

I'll buy the first one and we can cuss everyone we know and don't know.

 

[justherhusband]

How in the world do you walk around all day with such an enormous chip on your shoulder?

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

 

[stickygirl]

How in the world do you walk around all day with such an enormous chip on your shoulder?

She has every right to dare to mention the chip all women carry around. So she should shut up and know her place? pfft

As for the original list by PW

well in other news: Water still flows downhill and the moon remains in orbit...

 

[liv2srv]

Well said

And too true.

To a point...

Speaking for myself, and a few of the men I've interacted with on here, I think you might be pleasantly surprised how many of us don't fall into those stereotypes you listed. And in most cases embody the opposite!

Here's a link to a thread I've started that simply catalogs some of my favorite stories on LIT.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=999299

The first 'critique' involves a bit of a rant of mine that addresses many of the double standards you're referring to here.

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Prudes

CALM DOWN ALL! Everyone is entitled to their thoughts. Wrong as they are, just kidding! Let's have a great weekend!

 

[liv2srv]

CALM DOWN ALL! Everyone is entitled to their thoughts. Wrong as they are, just kidding! Let's have a great weekend!

Look, if I wanted level-headed reasoning and logic, I wouldn't be posting comments online ;P

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Prudes

Look, if I wanted level-headed reasoning and logic, I wouldn't be posting comments online ;P

I understand. I am bored and don't want to do my chores. This is a time killer.

Trying to save my energy for tonight and hopefully get lucky.

 

[RedAllan]

Look, if I wanted level-headed reasoning and logic, I wouldn't be posting comments online ;P

Level headed reasoning and logic, never thought I'd see those words together on a lit thread.
Or find any of them inaction.

 

[TheLM]

Lol@ this topic.

 

[drinkz]

Query Wins. When you win the internetz, all it says is that you're a sad, pathetic, man in real life.

 

[Rigger287]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

Taking your comments in order may I respectfully reply.

1 true
2 true
3 want my wife to a slut for everybody
4 love licking a woman to orgasm
5 Would love to be pegged here by a woman with a trap on
6 Doesn't bother me naked men
7 dream threesome is MMF - pity wife is a prude

Looking forward to your reply

 

[BlueyeGuy51]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups. -- Let's just see about that.[/I]

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity. -- I would only play with others if she wanted to.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.-- I can stay downtown all night long, and then some. I love it.
They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.-- You can do anything with my backside you want. It's just physical pleasure.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.--It's hot to be in the same room with other naked people, male or female, assuming they were invited.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.-- Have thoroughly enjoyed mfm and mmfm.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

-- And we appreciate that!:devil:

 

[WiredGuy]

As a married guy, I can say that all of the original comments may have been true at one time. But the older I get, and the more experiences I have experienced, my outlook on sex has definitely changed.....and for the better, I hope.

- wife can be a slut for me, and whoever she chooses.
- love going down on her
- having done both, I prefer MMF over MFF
- not 100% comfortable with anal, so I don't plunder the nether regions (unless requested to do so).
- much more open now than I was then

 

[twister947]

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit.

Do tell.

 

[callmeismael]

For me the only problem is if one partner is expecting a certain degree of openness from their partners but is unwilling to be equally open. Must people, when really pushed on it, have some sexual hangups, some insecurities, some secrets and fetishes. If a partner, male or female, can say, "Look, I have some insecurities about this," then that should be seen as a good thing, because it's open communication. I'd far prefer a partner express what these things are then conform to my or anyone-else's expectations for them.

If a person is unwilling to confront their own insecurities while forcing their partner to push through theirs, then sure, that's hypocritical. While I would say that overall, gender-stereotyping is a bad idea. However, I do think there may be societal factors that make some men less willing to address what their sexual hangups and insecurities are. Female sexuality is often portrayed as somehow more malleable and fluid (in everything from popular culture to porn), and as a result some men interpret this that women will conform to their own fantasies, while these men refuse to adapt to their partner's fantasies.

Personally, I'm turned on by thoughts of lesbian sex, while gay male sex does nothing for me. If my partner is turned on by gay sex but not by lesbian sex, that's cool too. I'd be happy to explore her fantasies with her, even if they're not my own fantasies. As long as we can respect one another's sexuality, then our individual fantasies and fetishes and hangups and insecurities are all part of the exploration.

 

[lovecraft68]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

wow did you hit this on the head.

I have noticed most men(and I am one so trust me I hear an endless amount of sex trash talk) will sit and talk about wanting a freak and "oh if I got ahold of her...:"

Fact is they cannot back their smack, not at all and are intimidated by a strong sexually charged woman.

My wife made some extra money during college by being a phone sex operator. after that she would do it on personal lines for fun sometimes.

She said the average encounter was her going into great detail and great length and their response was usually "uh, huh, uh, um.....suck my cock?"

Sums it up on average.

Now on lit it could vary. Could be a lot of guys in this type of environment that can hold their own in dirty talk and role plays and might be able to handle some serious r/l fun....

But for the most part dudsville.

I was brought into the lifestyle at a young age by a much older woman. In the 28 years since many women owe her a big thanks for training me to know what to do with a woman.

Which leads to point out a problem many women have come across and that is if the guy is not making them happy, heaven forbid they say anything or make a suggestion! Then the guy is all hurt and upset, how dare she question that ultimate lover she is lucky enough to be in bed with!

If a guy is willing to listen to "no, can you do it like this" then that's a good guy and he'll get rewarded for that give and take. The stubborn ones?

Like Pink says, just u and ur hand tonight!

 

[CetaceanIntelligence]

RIGHT.

The same guys who beg to fuck a woman in the ass gets a stick up there's if the woman wants to wear a strap-on and bend them over the couch. I honestly think it's a question of power. Men (some men) are terrified of even the illusion that they're submissive or wielding to the power of someone else, be it a woman or another man. Having something put into their body as opposed to putting their dick into someone else's is giving up that power.

It's a shame, sacrificing great sex for the illusion of control.

 

[ntp]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

Those things are all true individually about someone, and probably there's someone about whom they're all true Not anyone I want to know, though.

 

[greystardust]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

...a little out of touch,
either the world - society, is changing...and men are less prudish than you conclude, or
you have, through your social caste, mixed with mostly only a section of the curve, whilst all the 'openness' is on the other side,
either way, I can relate

...but since you've found your niche (evident from your profile), why the bubbling anger?

 

[amofiga]

withdrawn....

 

[amofiga]

Oh sure men are more open about pursuing sex than most women.

However, when it comes down to the sex act they have a remarkable number of hang-ups.

They want us to be sluts but only for them. Meanwhile we are expected to accept their promiscuity.

We are expected to suck cock and swallow, but some guys won't even go down on a girl.

They want us to do anal, but many are frightened they'll turn gay instantly if anyone gets near their ass.

They think it is hot to see two girls kissing but are afraid to be in the room with another naked man.

For most the definition of a threesome if FFM even though most can barely satisfy one woman.

That is all a bit simplistic of course. I am just trying to stir up shit. However, any sexually active woman will tell you that male egos are very fragile and there is a certain amount of regular lying that is required to keep them from becoming insecure babies.

I think you've been dealing with the wrong men. In my experience years back, it was the women who often talked big but then backed off when push came to shove.