Men (and women): how do you feel about dating a woman with breast implants?

[lilminx]

Would you date someone who already had them?

Would it bother you? Would you like it?

What if you were dating her and she decided to get them while you were dating? Would it change your view of her?

Do tell, please. I'm curious.

 

[Guest]

I'm not a big fan of the implant.

 

[glamorilla]

me neither.

 

[Lancecastor]

I wonder about the self esteem of women who have had them, so it would raise a caution flag with me to do some reading and talking with her about it.

As far as it relates to her breasts, their size, shape...I could care less.

Lance

 

[Saint Peter]

Whatever makes her happy. If that is big boobs then so be it. My prefrence would be the way nature set them up.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Depends. The implant can be hot if done right, or it could be gnarly.

Better thing: "I don't like your tits, here's 10,000$, get new ones".

Now THAT is hott.

 

[QuickDuck]

I am not a fan of implants at all, but to be honest, it would not matter since it is the person i would be interested in... not the wrapping.

*shrug* i just don;t like the look of them much.

 

[Vilac]

I'm not a huge fan of them. In fact...in most cases I find it difficult to understand why a woman would want them at all, except for the simple fact that she desires and craves attention.

I voted on "if I liked her it wouldn't matter"...but I do agree with Lance (suprisingly enough) in regards to being curious about the woman's self esteem issues and wondering if there was anything else going on up there.

<shrug>

V~

 

[lilminx]

I never liked the look of them either, but I am used to seeing fake pornstar boobies.

I looked up some plastic surgeon sites and saw very natural-looking ones.

My boobs have shrunk since I've lost some weight and they look totally out of proportion to the rest of my body- I can't stand it.

 

[Scabbers]

I'm not really a 'breast' man.

But if it made her feel better about herself, then what the fuck--go for it.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

I hate to say this...cause it sounds kinda pervy. But implants can look natural. It all depends on the type of implant you get, and how often you massage them.

 

[Vilac]

I hate to say this...cause it sounds kinda pervy. But implants can look natural. It all depends on the type of implant you get, and how often you massage them.

heh.

I'd massage your implants, Morgy....even if they were on your back.



V~

 

[zipman]

I am not a fan of implants at all, but to be honest, it would not matter since it is the person i would be interested in... not the wrapping.

*shrug* i just don;t like the look of them much.

I agree with you here, except for me, I hate the way they feel. They are harder than regular breasts, and I would definitely prefer her to have her natural breasts, even if they are small.

Truth be told, I have dated plenty of small breasted women whose breasts I have loved. I have always thought nice, hard, sensitive nipples were way more important to me.

However, if I loved her, I would hope that it would not be that much of an issue that I couldn't overlook it.

 

[lilminx]

I hate to say this...cause it sounds kinda pervy. But implants can look natural. It all depends on the type of implant you get, and how often you massage them.

Exactly- if I ever got them, I wouldn't get hte cantoloupe ones that porn stars get. I would get ones that looked natural, and only one cup size bigger.

Why is that pervy, Morgy?

 

[Romial]

I don't mind them one way or another. It's her body and if she wants to do it to make herself happy, then more power to her. I won't stand in her way. But if she's doing it for other reason's besides herself, that's when I would step up and say something.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Some implants can feel natural, if they are taken care of properly.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Exactly- if I ever got them, I wouldn't get hte cantoloupe ones that porn stars get. I would get ones that looked natural, and only one cup size bigger.

Why is that pervy, Morgy?

hehe...

I have a friend.

That i use to work with. She lost her breasts after giving birth.

Then she went from a A-cup to a D-cup. But it fit her body. She massaged those babies like clock work. I've felt them ...they were as natural as mine are.

 

[FallenSeraph]

Personally don't prefer them, but it doesn't bother me all that badly so long as those aren't her best qualities.

 

[Thin Man]

I would like to feel a pair

Then I could give an opinion. Any offers?

 

[P. B. Walker]

I don't like 'em. But I believe there are situations where they make sense. Ultimately it's her decision.

Course, the only women I've seen or heard about with them are strippers. I know one women that has them that isn't... but she's soooo into her looks. She's also had work done on her lips, hips, tummy, nose, etc., etc.,etc. That's all a turn off to me.

Anyhoo

PBW "It'd be funny if they had penile implants"

 

[Bushido71XS]

Would you date someone who already had them?

Would it bother you? Would you like it?

What if you were dating her and she decided to get them while you were dating? Would it change your view of her?

Do tell, please. I'm curious.

(1) Well, I definately wouldn't bother me providing they're done correctly.

(2)Yes, I would providing they weren't freakishly out of proportion to her body.

(3) Hmm, well seeing as to how a good self-image is part of anyone's well-being. I'd want her to be sure that she wasn't doing it because she thought I or anyone else thinks she should get them.
And no, it wouldn't change my view of her in the least. You fall in love with the person you connect with irregardless of how they feel about themselves.

~Bush

 

[lilminx]

hehe...

I have a friend.

That i use to work with. She lost her breasts after giving birth.

Then she went from a A-cup to a D-cup. But it fit her body. She massaged those babies like clock work. I've felt them ...they were as natural as mine are.

You perv!

It's good to know they felt natural. I've heard that if you get them under the muscle they feel more natural and you don't lose sensitivity in your nipple. That's what I would be really afraid of because my nipples are really sensitive and get very hard.

 

[glamorilla]

i don't know about natural feeling~i've worked with models with both natural breasts and implants and the implants rarely move.

 

[modest mouse]

Strongly against implants.

 

[Cheyenne]

I voted other. I don't want to date any woman much less one with implants.

Actually, I think women who get them are vain. Very vain. Good looks will not last as age will win out eventually. If a woman's sense of selfworth is built solidly on her vanity, she is in deep trouble.