men and nipple stimulation

[FieldofGoldfem]

so I'm curious...

While my boyfriend and I were intimate, I glanced up and saw him stimulating his nipples. I was a bit surprised at first, since it seemed unusual, and I'd never thought of males wanting nipple stimulation before. I think he noticed my "surprise" and later mentioned that men can also derive great pleasure from nipple manipulation.

I don't know why, but it is still kind of odd to me...

can I get some reassurance that I'm not the only gal with a guy who digs this?

 

[coconut_sweets]

i promise you are not alone

 

[FieldofGoldfem]

I suppose it always just seemed a very "female" thing. Like...I know I sure enjoy it...*wink* But I had never encountered a man who enjoyed it....

took me very off guard.

 

[alonelygal]

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[FieldofGoldfem]

*smiles* LOVE when he moans when I touch him there....

 

[lovelylisa]

well nipples are fun little things, why shouldn't he like it?

 

[It'sasecret]

My husband HATES when I touch his. I have no idea why but I always want to play with them, but he won't let me.

 

[ChromeCollar]

What is wrong with you! FEEL LUCKY woman! I'd kill for a guy who got off on nipple stimulation. Mine says it doesnt do much for him at all, even though they get hard when I lick and bite them. Just enjoy the hell out of that.

 

[alonelygal]

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[curiouswtchr]

mine loves it the more intense the better, especially when i am sucking on his nipples and using the flat part of my tounge to massage.............drives him over the edge!
fun times

 

[dtinferno]

I love having my nipples stimulated. Its the best when solo or when having sex. I love having them rubbed or licked or bitten. I've been trying for a long time to be able to orgasm from just nipple stimulation but I can never get it to get me over the edge.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Nipples are an often overlooked part of a man's body. Sometimes they don't like their touched, sometimes they do. I do, I just wish a woman would give mine more the attention that I do hers.

 

[Taten]

One ex really liked his nips stimulated as well and told me as much. It was a surprise to me. I guess because we don't think of those bits as being sensual for a man. Must say from his response he really got into it and so did I.

 

[BirdsWife]

Count your blessings. I'd love it if my man liked having his nipples played with, but he says it doesn't do much for him.

 

[DirkPryde]

I find it odd, while I am not opposed to my wife rubbing / sucking or kissing my nipples, it is not something I go out of my way for.

As we all know, sex and pleasure is a very much "each to thier own" kind of situation. What works for some dosn't for others.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

Count your blessings. I'd love it if my man liked having his nipples played with, but he says it doesn't do much for him.

You never know till you try. I would never have guessed it did anything for me until a lover started working them while blowing me. Very intense!!

 

[versatile1]

I love nipple stimulation. It is a big part of foreplay when my wife and I are getting intimate. I love having them stroked and sucked. It gives me an instant erection. It is always part of my masturbation.

It wasn't always this way. Years ago, I read a book on sex that suggested exploring these areas while masturbating. Over time it became a greater and greater source of pleasure. Perhaps it can be learned--but I am positive that I was "predisposed."

I cannot quite cum with nipple stimulation alone--but i get pretty worked up.

It also figures into my fantasies. Would love to have both sucked at once. Let's see--being tied up unable to touch myself while having both nipples sucked on for a prolonged period of time until I beg for release. Or how about having both sucked and giving and/or receiving oral. Oh, the possiblities are endless!

 

[phoenix1224]

Any body part that men and women have in common can be quite senual if stimulated correctly...

I like to have mine played with... You just have to be a little rough with the play... Pinch them roughly... Nibble on them a bit... Pull on them with your teeth... Tongue use is also appreciated...

 

[mystic_maiden32]

my hubby loves it when I lick them, suck on them, nibble. He told me once it was like a direct link to his cock.

 

[melancholygirl]

my hubby loves it when I lick them, suck on them, nibble. He told me once it was like a direct link to his cock.

My bf said that too! His nipples got more erect than mine when stimulated!!

 

[Jezebelle1458]

not all men like it.but for those that do,it can send them right over the edge.

 

[phoenix1224]

not all men like it.but for those that do,it can send them right over the edge.

Bring it on...

 

[boston_bbw]

Well my SO dosn't tell me no but I don't think it does a lot for him either. I know he is a bit annoyed mine being stimulated dosn't do much for me either. Just not that sensitive I guess.

 

[Spenser41]

You know

It is intersting about the nipple. For some women it is a direct line to their clit. Some can climax just from sucking or playing with them. Some it is nice but... get to the clit! And some it is irritating. Yes you heard me right. I have been with 2 women that they really did not like their nipples to be played with or sucked on at all. And I am talking about women not men.

I know for me it really doesn't do anything for me. We are not wired like women are. But I will say this, after I have climaxed if you touch suck on them they are tender... now go figure that one.
So... I guess it comes down to this...

EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND WHAT TURNS ON ONE, DOES NOT TURN ON THE OTHER.

So learn your partner and what THEY like and what turns THEM on and enjoy. What worked for one, does not always work for the other.

But have fun learning!
WHO said education is a waste of time??????

 

[Jezebelle1458]

bring it on...or get it off??