Melbourne man searching for trophy girlfriend

[mfinger]

Hello

I'm seeking a girlfriend to fulfil my sexual desires. I'm married to a great woman with a sex drive much less than mine and I intend to make her a cuckquean. If you're not sure what it means please search it out.

As I have a high sex drive, you should have a high drive too. I'm not intending to embarrass or humiliate my wife. The relationship I want with you should be mutually respectful among the three of us. I will be telling my wife all about what you and I get up to.

I'm an easy going guy in general, though in the bedroom a Dominant man who enjoys behaviour modification. Although I'm Dominant, you don't need to be submissive.

These are some of my fetishes and kinks. They are not mandatory elements of our relationship, though would be good to have some of these in common:

Giving orgasm control and edging.
Selecting a girls lingerie, even outer clothing if it's realistic.
I love a girl in high heels and love a girl who loves wearing high heels
Mentoring or guiding a girl in Bimbofication.
Giving sexual behaviour modification.
Inducing lactation.
Fake tits.

If you're looking for a safe relationship with regular sexcapades with a respected boyfriend who has a wife, please message me.

 

[RacyWilde]

Hello

I'm seeking a girlfriend to fulfil my sexual desires. I'm married to a great woman with a sex drive much less than mine and I intend to make her a cuckquean. If you're not sure what it means please search it out.

As I have a high sex drive, you should have a high drive too. I'm not intending to embarrass or humiliate my wife. The relationship I want with you should be mutually respectful among the three of us. I will be telling my wife all about what you and I get up to.

I'm just curious...

This basically means your wife will ultimately be in control of your relationship with your girlfriend. If your wife gets jealous or decides she doesn't like your girlfriend anymore, what guarantee does the girlfriend have that you won't dump her on your wife's command? What security can you give your girlfriend?

I'm just curious about how you will value your girlfriend and your built relationship with her. To me, allowing someone else to control your relationship relinquishes value. Or are you really just looking for a fuck buddy with no strings, (as a 'girlfriend' generally implies an emotional relationship, even if she is a "trophy")?

I seriously want to understand how this type of situation works benefiting all without a tragic ending.

 

[mfinger]

Hi RacyWilde

There can be no guarantee. Such is life! Nobody can guarantee the future because people change as they and their relationships evolve.

Why do you think my wife would be in control? I'm trying unsuccessfully to read between my own lines to understand how I may have given that impression.

I would value my girlfriend like any other person in my life, value built on the relationship's merits.

 

[RacyWilde]

Hi RacyWilde

There can be no guarantee. Such is life! Nobody can guarantee the future because people change as they and their relationships evolve.

I think you miss the point about the guarantee. There SHOULD be a guarantee that your wife has no power over your relationship with you and your girlfriend, especially if your wife is to be a cuckquean. There is nothing worse than having an amazing and intimate relationship with a man and then all of a sudden a third party (his wife) decides to pull the plug. There is one thing to end a relationship because it is not working, quite another when it is perfect.

So... there should be a contract. A guarantee that the wife cannot control or ask for your relationship to end with your girlfriend. That will automatically value your girlfriend.

Why do you think my wife would be in control? I'm trying unsuccessfully to read between my own lines to understand how I may have given that impression.

You said:

I'm not intending to embarrass or humiliate my wife. The relationship I want with you should be mutually respectful among the three of us. I will be telling my wife all about what you and I get up to.​

Usually cuckhold and cuckquean relationships are about humiliation - it definitely puts them in a submissive position. But you plan to tell your wife everything about your girlfriend's relationship with you. Does the girlfriend get that same privilege? Will she get to know all the problems in your marriage and how you have sex with your wife and your feelings about that? If not... she will never be "mutually respect[ed] among the three of [you]". Your wife will be in control because she will likely decide if she wants you to continue your relationship with your girlfriend based on the information you tell her - your wife is empowered.

How do you plan on empowering your girlfriend?

 

[mfinger]

Does the girlfriend get that same privilege? Will she get to know all the problems in your marriage and how you have sex with your wife and your feelings about that? If not... she will never be "mutually respect[ed] among the three of [you]". Your wife will be in control because she will likely decide if she wants you to continue your relationship with your girlfriend based on the information you tell her - your wife is empowered.

How do you plan on empowering your girlfriend?

Of course she gets the same privilege... and its entirely up to her. This involves 3 humans who can choose what they want to talk about.

If she wants to hear my problems or fun times, as a friend would, of course I'd discuss it. Its a part of friendship that naturally happens.