Meeting someone new for the first time.........

[Angelofsex]

Why do we get so nervous?????? I know we want everything to go right, since it is not for coffee. I am meeting someone new today and talking about nerves.


THe question is does everyone get this way? Do you feel like almost saying sorry i can't meet you?

 

[Cloak38]

Yup...
But the easy thing is to back off and not take the chance.
Who knows ? This might be the one...

Good luck.

 

[ManofMithgar]

Go with your gut feelings but make sure that you are clear in what you say. Don't let nerves bother you, I am sure he is also nervous. Have fun and be honest. Laughter is one of the sexiest things in the world.

 

[silencer]

Yes Angel, I do get nervous when i meet someone new...even the first couple of time i talk to them on here. I guess cause i'm kinda of shy at first.I have had something set up to meet someone and did call it off and said i was sorry i could'nt and regretted it later.So try not to be nervous and meet with the person,they are probably just as nervous as you are.
Hope this helps a little.

~silencer~

 

[1sexylady]

I too have regretted it........

I went to meet someone I talk to for a long time and didn't go.....not because I couldn't but cause I was soooo scared....now I regret it big time...

 

[SexyChele]

Why do we get so nervous?????? I know we want everything to go right, since it is not for coffee. I am meeting someone new today and talking about nerves.


THe question is does everyone get this way? Do you feel like almost saying sorry i can't meet you?

I've met 4 people in person that I originally knew from the 'net. In all cases, I never assumed that we would jump into the bed the first time I saw them. We met in a public place - normally for a drink or, well, just coffee.

If you talk to some one online and then agree to meet to "do it", that is when the nerves can hit. If you agree to meet and not involve sex, chances are you will still be nervous, but not as nervous.

I know everyone thinks that just because you "connect" on line and even on the phone, that you will be at it like rabbits in RL. Well, of the 4 people I've actually met, only one might result in a possible sexual encounter. The other 3, while all nice guys, were just not all that compatible in RL. And it was a good thing - we got to meet, enjoy each other's company, and came away from the encounter still friends and still talking to each other.

Meeting some one in RL, even after a long time of talking to them over the 'net, can be very, very different. And having sex immediately with that person is like agreeing to having sex with a blind date the first time out. That's how I see it, anyway. I know of a gentleman in Texas - have been chatting online and on the phone for 6 months. I think I know him pretty well, and there is an attraction. However, if I ever meet him, even with the distance involved, I would expect some time to get to know him in person first. Then, if all things look good, go for the gold! (which IS truly what I would like to happen!)

If you are intent on having to have sex, then count on being nervous and possibly not as comfortable as you would be if you were to meet the person in a neutral location first to see if you are compatible or if there is that "spark". Just part of the rules of the game.

 

[Olivianna]

yes- everyone is like that

it is always nervewracking to meet someone new for the first time. however, i would not consider backing out only because of nerves. think of it like this: if you add up all the times that you have felt lonely, bored, eager for some excitement...and then add in all of the nervousness you are feeling now, and then average it out - voila - you have one cool lady. ok, so maybe life doesn't operate as a statistical problem...just be yourself, make eye contact, don't worry about awkward silences, and don't let them see you sweat. when all else fails, just be straightforward and say somethine like 'holy shit, i am so nervous'; this will likely make both of you laugh. good luck.

 

[Notme2]

I always had a hard time with it until I became a cop. I meet so many new people (usually ones that are not happy to meet me) that the nervousness has worn off. Plus meeting people it is easier when they find out I am a cop, either that or they run and then I don't have to talk any way.

Good luck.

 

[Lusciousladyf]

It is normal to be nervous!

Yes, I have felt that way as most others have stated here. I had a case of the nerves rather recently but the desire to meet was even stronger...it overshadowed the nervousness!!
Of course we were nervous...but it didnt take long to let other things take over...and I dont regret it at all!! I would regret it if we had not met!

So please try to curb the nervousness as much as possible so you dont think back later to "what if".
We only live once and I believe in living in the now...and enjoying life to the fullest!!

Good Luck to you!

 

[sweetHotGuy]

Congratulations and good luck, Angel.

I have my own nervousness at the moment...

I've met a lady socially a few times and I'm very fond of her and attracted to her. I'm seeing her tonight and I was going to ask her how she felt things were going between us.

But yesterday, I had a sign that she might be quite keen on me. She was going away this weekend to Barcelona for a few days with her brother (we're in the UK). Now her brother can't make it, and she's asked me to go with her instead.

I'm very pleased, of course, but a little nervous too. Wish me luck.


SweetHotGuy

 

[SexyChele]

Hi SweetGuy! This is wonderful! I'm so happy for you! When do you leave? I hope you and she have a wonderful time together! It sounds like total fun!

 

[Angelofsex]

I just wanted to say thank you..........

I am glad everyone feels the same. Also everything went well yesterday worry or nervous for nothing.

 

[Bobcan]

Angle : 0 !!!!!!

Are you cheeting on me LOL you are braking my heart : (

 

[Angelofsex]

Bob, I will never cheat on you. lol

 

[johnnieBgood]

why?

 

[Angelofsex]

Yes, what about that time.........

JohnnieBGood, wow, what about that time. I feel for you, for what happen. I just don't know what to say to that one.............

 

[sweetHotGuy]

This is wonderful! I'm so happy for you! When do you leave? I hope you and she have a wonderful time together! It sounds like total fun!

Thanks, Chele.

We leave on Saturday, back on Tuesday. I'll let you know how things go. (Fingers crossed.)

SweetHotGuy

 

[johnnieBgood]

 

[Angelofsex]

Oh Johnnie what if it was us................

Now I have to dream of the next part...........I can't even think now what will happen........but you have my interest...........I have to go and do something, yes I do............Let me dream.

A dream is magic when it comes to life.............

 

[meljr2]

Meeting fo the first time

I think the the more comfortable you are wth yourself, the more comfortable you are withmeeting new people. If you have insecurities you will tend to be mre nrvous than if you are comfrtable with who you are.

I very rarely have a problem meeting new people and starting a conversation with them, I find it easy. I am comfortabe enough with myself to believe that if they like me great, if they don't...that's ok too It isn't necessarilly anything I say or do, sometimes people just don't mesh.

I particularly remember a time in college when this absolutely gorgeous girl came into the Dining Hall (where I worked). It was clearly her first day at the school and she arrived late for dinner. Everyone in the kitchen was talking about how pretty she was, but everyone was scared to go talk to her. I went out there started talking to her and met a really sweet (and scared young girl.) It was kind of nice to be introduced toe her parents as her first friend in college...but I digress

It is all about you....if youare comfortable with you it is a lot easier to meet new people and have lots less nervousness or jitters

Mel

 

[johnnieBgood]

 

[Guest]

Re: Oh Johnnie what if it was us................

Now I have to dream of the next part...........I can't even think now what will happen........but you have my interest...........I have to go and do something, yes I do............Let me dream.

mmmmmm, oh sweetheart.. i hope your dream reveals us together.. there we are... empassioned in one another... needing so badly to join in ecstacy... needing to becum one together in roaring passion... we continue.. i reach back & lock the door with one hand, finding your supple nipples with other... i begin to swiftly unbutton your top, lifting your breast up to my lips... mmm, tasting your sweetness... nibbling at your nipples.. you groan.. still stroking me... i groan.. you begin to tear at my shirt.. tugging it off, exposing my strong & hairy chest... you kiss my chest... swirling your tongue through my hair, nuzzling my nipples, my other hand slips up your skirt.. on my god, to find your sweet panties soaked in passion... i know you want me now.. for sure.. we look deep into one anothers eyes... i kneel before you... my hands slip up your skirt.. my lips slip up your thighs.. my tongue dancing over your flesh... tasting... and stopping at your panties... mmmm, tasting your sweet moisture through the panties... tracing the outline of your swollen lips of passion...mmm, oh so sweeet.. they are so puffy.. swollen & wet... i kiss franticklly... you moan deeply... twisting your fingers through my thick, dark brown hair... pushing my head closeer....i continue.......

(more to cumm baby... jump on in where ya like... Dreams Can Cum True....)

 

[quilesed]

I do , but i calm down after the first sentences are exchanged between us.

 

[quilesed]

I do , but i calm down after the first sentences are exchanged between us.

 

[johnnieBgood]

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