Meeting people here

[greengamegirl]

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

 

[jp55665566]

If Literotica had a bigger population of users... yeah, it would be cool.

 

[StudlyCowboy]

meeting people

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

I agree, It would be great. There's certain people that would be interested in knowing. I found a neighbor once that I recognized and she recognized me. We never completely confessed who we were but things were different between us from that day on.

 

[NightL]

do a search for your city here on Lit - there may be a discussion group already in place

 

[ElectricBlue]

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

Look in the Personals - there are many city threads there.

 

[Jada59]

Look in the Personals - there are many city threads there.

Yes. And if there isn't a thread, start one!

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

Closest I came was when a Lit member was on a business trip near the city where I was living at the time. We were only ten miles away from each other, and I invited him over, but he wasn't ready for that, or not ready for me. We had hot phone sex, though. Weird to be so close and yet so far.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

It depends on the type of relationship you're expecting or putting yourself out there for. There are some that only think this site is only good for hookups, online or in person. There are some who use it for making friendships. There are some who are married but want or find a need for something...extra. I'm not judging, whatever the reason you are using this site, make sure you set the guidelines for what YOU want and be sure to stick to YOUR boundaries of what's comfortable for you.

Not everyone is honest with themselves or others for the expectations they want from a "meeting". Clarify what you want and let your intentions be clear. Don't ever feel pressured or bullied into deviating from your original purpose unless YOU decide that's what you want.

 

[amofiga]

I would love to find people in my area and I've sometimes posted in the Maryland personals. I did find a couple of contacts but they were way on the other side of the state. I've found some very interesting people to correspond with all over the country and the world for that matter. People who were quite compatible and who I wouldn't have even known existed in the days before the internet.

I've often wondered just how many people there are in say a 25-30 mile radius of me and if any people I know in real life are also here. I'd love to find them even if it didn't result actual sex. It would be fun just to know who they are. There's one wife of a friend whom I really have a hard on for and have often fantasized how great it would be to know she was a Lit or Fet member.

 

[standingstones]

I haven’t met anyone near to where I live but I have hooked up with some readers of mine who are out of the area. I guess it all depends what you are looking for, chit-chat or something more.

 

[pumperguy191]

I have met 1 person from Lit. She is a wonderful person IRL I plan on meeting another.......when the timing is right. She knows it,

 

[Lost_Yonder]

How to meet people in your city from here? I don’t wants friends or family to come across my profile but I think it would be fun to meet people from here.

Move to my city!

As others have said, the site is populated with all kinds - trolls who lurk the personals, selfish liars looking for a quick affair, and a lot of fascinating people who are just sharing and exploring - not all of whom are even interested in meeting in person.

Peruse the personals, but also stay active on other threads - and perhaps provide a more general idea of where you are located, people start popping out of the woodwork.

Enjoy!

 

[screwher]

I started coming on this site to discuss and explore my fantasies of my wife having sex with other men. During this time our marriage ended up developing into the hotwife relationship it currently is in. All of my wife's lovers so far have been men she's met and taken an interest in. When/if she's ready to start playing with men we find on line, I'm thinking Lit just might be a valuable resource.

 

[HopelessCD2]

Surely it's simply a case of starting a thread, possibly with your home town as the subject? That gives nothing away to start with.
Maybe you could invite a guy to goto a public place, from where you can view him before deciding whether to go and actually meet him.
I think I would find this acceptable as a male.