Measurement

[Achilles4_0]

How many of you guys have been measured by your partner? For those of you with smaller cocks, how did you feel? Were you teased or humiliated? Were you more less aroused? I am smaller than average but have not been measured. Interested to hear your thoughts and experiences. Also curious for those of you who may have been in an MFM or measured in front of a group of clothed women.

 

[Brittttlvr]

A fun idea. I’ve floated the idea but the wife won’t take me up on it. At least one of her two prior lovers was bigger than I, according to her. She probably thinks it’s best not to talk about it. . You should get your woman to measure you. Then, she will no doubt give the exact measurement to her girlfriends the next time that she has some wine in her.

 

[Goldenfinger]

My wife measured me one time. I was naked in our living room she had a ruler and told me to come over and she measured. It was kinda business like. Plus she only got the measurement while limp.

 

[Achilles4_0]

My wife was a virgin when we started going out early in college. We got married after graduation. We were at different colleges initially but I transferred for J and S years. She did go out with guys but swore that nothing other than making out. While there may have been some hands under her clothes, there were no exposed genitals or sex by the definition of Bill Clinton. So, she obviously was not experienced and to this day I am the only one. I am 4.5 by 4.75, a bit below average. I would love to know how to break the ice to start a conversation about what she thinks of my cock and would she like to experience a larger model so to speak. Ideas?

 

[Achilles4_0]

My wife measured me one time. I was naked in our living room she had a ruler and told me to come over and she measured. It was kinda business like. Plus she only got the measurement while limp.

Is your wife experience with other men? Did she comment on your size or try to measure you erect?

 

[Brittttlvr]

My wife was a virgin when we started going out early in college. We got married after graduation. We were at different colleges initially but I transferred for J and S years. She did go out with guys but swore that nothing other than making out. While there may have been some hands under her clothes, there were no exposed genitals or sex by the definition of Bill Clinton. So, she obviously was not experienced and to this day I am the only one. I am 4.5 by 4.75, a bit below average. I would love to know how to break the ice to start a conversation about what she thinks of my cock and would she like to experience a larger model so to speak. Ideas?

I’m sure that she believes, as do most of the public, that 6 inches is normal. Let her measure that 4.5inches and the conversation will start itself.

 

[Escierto]

I actually did measure my girlfriend's cock when she was hard using my iPhone. She was 7 1/2 inches, a good two inches bigger than me. I adore her cock and I love to service her using my holes as she sees fit.

 

[Achilles4_0]

I actually did measure my girlfriend's cock when she was hard using my iPhone. She was 7 1/2 inches, a good two inches bigger than me. I adore her cock and I love to service her using my holes as she sees fit.

Does she tease you or take charge, so to speak?

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife measured me once. She was going to have sex with a man who claimed to have 8 inches, and she wanted to see how long that might be compared to me. They had sex, and she said that he definitely did not have 8 inches.

 

[Escierto]

Does she tease you or take charge, so to speak?

She does tease me a little but in a playful way. Before we met in person, I knew that she had a big cock. In fact she told me directly, "In bed, I will be the man and you will be the woman." Of course, I agreed.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Is your wife experience with other men? Did she comment on your size or try to measure you erect?

We got married in our early 20s so I imagine. I don’t ask and she doesn’t tell. I don’t know why she wanted to, she probably had been talking with friends and wanted a reference.

 

[Brittttlvr]

We got married in our early 20s so I imagine. I don’t ask and she doesn’t tell. I don’t know why she wanted to, she probably had been talking with friends and wanted a reference.

If she compares your limp measurement with the measurements she hears from friends (will all be erect measurements) you are drawing the short stick, for sure.

 

[Goldenfinger]

If she compares your limp measurement with the measurements she hears from friends (will all be erect measurements) you are drawing the short stick, for sure.

Or maybe my measurement limp was close enough.

 

[Achilles4_0]

My wife measured me once. She was going to have sex with a man who claimed to have 8 inches, and she wanted to see how long that might be compared to me. They had sex, and she said that he definitely did not have 8 inches.

Or maybe my measurement limp was close enough.

Or maybe my measurement limp was close enough.

Perhaps so, particularly if you are well hung. Has she ever commented on your size, soft or hard?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Perhaps so, particularly if you are well hung. Has she ever commented on your size, soft or hard?

She has commented, I’ve have always gotten comments. But people like to exaggerate here. Unless you hang out in the SPH forums a lot of people say they are large. I’ll have to ask her why, she will probably say she doesn’t remember it was like 15 years ago.

 

[gtnlynn]

Perhaps so, particularly if you are well hung. Has she ever commented on your size, soft or hard?

She says that I am average compared with those she has handled. She says I am actually thicker than most, which she likes. She has never had a huge cock inside her.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

My ex-wife measured me and teased me, of course by then she knew I was into SPH and the teasing was more for my benefit at that point. She had made remarks before she knew I was into SPH, that I was small, so there was some genuine humiliation prior.

Once she was reading something on her phone and said something like, "it says here the average penis is 6 inches long. Are you six inches long?" with a mischievous smile. She hadn't measured it, but knew I was below average. I know now the average stats are lower, but this was the early 2010s and at the time a lot of stats still have the average at around 6.

Another time she took a picture of my erection when I wasn't paying attention and weeks later showed it to me. If was a close in shot, and from under, so I didn't recognize it. She asked me, "hey do you think this penis from the internet is small?" I said yeah I guess so, then she started laughing and told me it was mine.

These instances were embarrassing at the time, but turned me on later.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Unless they are into SPH (I'm not), most guys don't measure properly. You need to measure from the base of your cock where it meets your abdomen to the tip of the head. A lot of guys cheat and go from the underside where it meets your balls. Hey, that extra (imaginary) length can't get any further in than the properly measured length at the topside. Just saying.

 

[Achilles4_0]

Unless they are into SPH (I'm not), most guys don't measure properly. You need to measure from the base of your cock where it meets your abdomen to the tip of the head. A lot of guys cheat and go from the underside where it meets your balls. Hey, that extra (imaginary) length can't get any further in than the properly measured length at the topside. Just saying.

Actually there are 2 ways to measure properly along the top. Non- Bone pressed measures from the tip to the skin of the abdomen. Bone-pressed measures along the top from the tip to the abdomen, pushing till you feel the resistance of the pubic bone, thereby compressing the fat pad. This is the correct medical way to measure. Either is acceptable but the measurements should by accompanied by NBP or BP. The foreskin, if present, does not count.

 

[LMWM321]

My wife measured me once. She was going to have sex with a man who claimed to have 8 inches, and she wanted to see how long that might be compared to me. They had sex, and she said that he definitely did not have 8 inches.

8 inch dicks (properly measured, that is) exist but they are about as common as men who are 6'11" . Walk through a busy shopping mall for a few hours and see just how often you see a guy that tall. You may pass thousands of people before seeing one. ..And maybe not see one at all. ..So yes, it's not surprising he wasn't that big.

And why would she want him to be that long? Would she really enjoy him bottoming out with 2" or more of his penis still outside of her? It's such a mind boggling thing for men to want to have or women to want to be fucked by. I mean, once the head hits her cervix (probably after 6" or so) what's the point of extra length, other than to cause one or both of them frustration? Now wanting extra girth? I guess I can see that, but not length. And they do not necessarily go together. There are guys with long skinny dicks, and guys with short girthy dick.

Edit: correction, it’s about as rare as being 6’8”

 

[Achilles4_0]

8 inch dicks (properly measured, that is) exist but they are about as common as men who are 6'11" Walk through a busy shopping mall for a few hours and see just how often you see a guy that tall. You may pass thousands of people before seeing one. ..And maybe not see one at all. ..So yes, it's not surprising he wasn't that big.

And why would she want him to be that long? Would she really enjoy him bottoming out in there with 2" or penis so still outside of her? It's such mind boggling thing for men to want to have or women to want to be fucked by. I mean, once the head hits her cervix (probably after 6" or so) what's the point of extra length, other than cause one or both of them frustration?

Absolutely. Most self-measurement is done incorrectly in terms of placement of the ruler, exaggerating, rounding up etc. The medical studies, with measurements by a professional, while not ideal, are much more accurate and realistic. Even then, smaller guys are less apt to be measured even by a doc or nurse out of perceived embarrassment, which leads to a higher mean average even when hundreds of subjects are included.

 

[gtnlynn]

8 inch dicks (properly measured, that is) exist but they are about as common as men who are 6'11" . Walk through a busy shopping mall for a few hours and see just how often you see a guy that tall. You may pass thousands of people before seeing one. ..And maybe not see one at all. ..So yes, it's not surprising he wasn't that big.

And why would she want him to be that long? Would she really enjoy him bottoming out with 2" or more of his penis still outside of her? It's such a mind boggling thing for men to want to have or women to want to be fucked by. I mean, once the head hits her cervix (probably after 6" or so) what's the point of extra length, other than to cause one or both of them frustration? Now wanting extra girth? I guess I can see that, but not length. And they do not necessarily go together. There are guys with long skinny dicks, and guys with short girthy dicks.

It wasn't that she chose to have sex with the man because he had an 8 incher. She had decided to have sex with this younger man one time, and he bragged about his equipment. She certainly prefers girth to length.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Perhaps so, particularly if you are well hung. Has she ever commented on your size, soft or hard?

I asked my wife why she measured me all those years ago. She told me that was when she first started thinking about a Chasity cage. That does make sense to me know. But it was 5 years later the we even talked about them. Sounds like ske was formulating a plan years in advance.

 

[Achilles4_0]

So that’s why she measured you limp, for a cage?

 

[Goldenfinger]

So that’s why she measured you limp, for a cage?

That’s what she said.