Masturbation Vs 'Interactive'

[secret_passion_1949]

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[irishblade]

The intimacy with another person in sex can never be replicated by masturbation.

 

[MuscleDaddy]

I don’t know that I would say I have an overwhelming preference for one over the other. I enjoy both and if I lost either one I would have an unsatisfactory sex life.

 

[Erosfan]

The intimacy with another person in sex can never be replicated by masturbation.

I agree with you. The intimacy of mutual masturbation can be very powerful.

 

[oneblueye]

The more I look at the topics of so many of the threads on this forum, I find myself moved to pose the following question: When it comes right down to it, which do you prefer? Masturbation or 'Interactive' Sex? There seem to be a lot of threads on the topic of self gratification.

Maybe it's just a part of getting older, but as the years have passed I have developed a clear preference for the joys of masturbation. The 'getting in touch with myself' thing. There are a number of reasons I have reached this point.

Through the motivating magic of masturbatory fantasies it is possible for one to:

1. Obtain enjoyment of and relief from sexual needs at any time of day or night. Only a few moments of privacy are required, or if I wish, I can lock myself away and whack off all weekend if I want.

2. Have 'sex' with anyone. Friends and/or relatives that you fantasize about but would not dare make a pass at. Celebrities, co-workers or even total strangers like that woman you passed on the street at lunch today.

3. Experiment with other aspects of your sexuality to see if you are comfortable even thinking about them. If you are a man you can fantasize about sucking cock, swirling your tongue all over its head as if it were an ice cream cone. Or if you are woman, you could fantasize about spending an afternoon locked away in some quiet bedroom, your face buried between another woman's legs and your mouth forming a snug seal over her pussy.

But in the end, maybe the biggest reason I've grown to prefer masturbation is that I've gotten too lazy and impatient to engage in the pursuit of 'real' anymore... :^)

How about you?

I was talking with a fellow litster earlier and he made the comment that his hand and his dick weren't getting along of late...that is exactly the way I feel as well. I for one am tired of HAVING to jack off to get any kind of relief. But to me its like being addicted to pure heroin all my life and then having to be reduced to buying 'street smack'.
Its not the same and it never will be and even an imagination as massive and as complex as mine is --, it can never convince me its any thing other than my hand.
"Ain't nothing, like the real thing baby.
Ain't nothing like the real thing."