Masturbation question

[OnlyByMoonlight]

I'm a 19 year old girl and I have this problem when I'm masturbating. I have no trouble finding my G-spot with my fingers and stimulating it, but after about a minute the muscles in my hand just get worn out. Its very frustrating because I know I could get to an orgasm if my muscles didn't ache. Am I doing it wrong or something? Any help?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Been there hon. That's the main reason I have a vibrator. My fingers are more sensitive and gentle but the vibe gets the job done after they're worn out. You are 100% perfectly normal female, promise.

I am even becoming ambidextrous with masturbation, so talented a wanker am I. It takes practice and perseverance. I start with my weak hand and then the stronger one takes over when I'm fired up.



Ahem... Not that I spend all day wanking you understand... *whistles innocently*

 

[rydia57]

Two words: Electric toothbrush.

 

[RUbensBeautY]

Two words: Electric toothbrush.

I remember that suggestion from before. One I couldn't resist but give a try, I might say with impressive results.

However, reading the OP's post left me with the impression that she might be interested for alternative ways of G spot stimulation. Would an electric toothbrush still be your two words of choice in this regard?

OnlyByMoonlight, I can only second Velvet. Been there too. Getting a vibrator might be a good alternative, my only other suggestion might be getting a professional/hobby musician such as a guitarist to lend you a hand, so to speak.

 

[emap]

What they said, vibrators are pretty darn cheap and alot easier on your hands. Bullet vibes are only like $16. I think they are still called bullet vibes, not sure I haven't actually read the box in a long while.

Now if you are able to find a guitarist to help you with that, make sure he is cute, or she if you happen to go that way because they will always want to get some pleasure as well.

 

[Nelicquele]

my only other suggestion might be getting a professional/hobby musician such as a guitarist to lend you a hand, so to speak.

Ahem. Semi-professional guitarist, bassist, and drummer willing to lend a hand, or two...

 

[rosebud_6]

1 or 3?

Ahem. Semi-professional guitarist, bassist, and drummer willing to lend a hand, or two...

... is that 3 different people willing to lend a hand? or just 1 very talented one?

 

[tommynova2001]

g=spot stimulation is a pretty athletic event even when you are doing it for someone else..let alone when you have to concentrate on laying back and enjoy in it.. I suspect as others suggested mechanical help might be called for. I find that I have gotten pretty tired hands when I am the stimulator. I cant even imagine combining that with the somewhat awkward and low leverage position of reaching down and turning your wrist around that way to reach as the stimulatee and stimulator all in one.

A good tool is a good thing. This is why they are invented to leverage or human weaknesses in ways that allow is to do super-human things.

 

[Nelicquele]

... is that 3 different people willing to lend a hand? or just 1 very talented one?

Just myself.

 

[In Anticipation]

I'm a 19 year old girl and I have this problem when I'm masturbating. I have no trouble finding my G-spot with my fingers and stimulating it, but after about a minute the muscles in my hand just get worn out. Its very frustrating because I know I could get to an orgasm if my muscles didn't ache. Am I doing it wrong or something? Any help?

Oddly enough I can keep up g-spot stimulation combined with tongue stimulation for 30 minutes at least. That's usually enough and by that time I will be asked to do something else . . .

My suggestion is that you get some grip strengtheners, some are like a spring and some are just ballst that you squeeze. Then you can exercise your fingers any time you like.

Hope this is constructive!

 

[laury_mist]

Don't masturbate to have an orgasm. Masturbate to relax and if you do have an orgasm from it, it will be a much more pleasurable one.

 

[rosebud_6]

Oddly enough I can keep up g-spot stimulation combined with tongue stimulation for 30 minutes at least. That's usually enough and by that time I will be asked to do something else . . .

My suggestion is that you get some grip strengtheners, some are like a spring and some are just ballst that you squeeze. Then you can exercise your fingers any time you like.

Hope this is constructive!

you must have had some pretty good practice then!

 

[In Anticipation]

you must have had some pretty good practice then!

I guess we all vary, but I do get plenty of practice. Once someone experiences it, they keep wanting more . . .

My lips go numb sometimes though, but my tongue never does.

 

[rosebud_6]

I guess we all vary, but I do get plenty of practice. Once someone experiences it, they keep wanting more . . .

My lips go numb sometimes though, but my tongue never does.

funny that!

 

[In Anticipation]

funny that!

Well, I could hazard a scientific explanation, but that would be boring!

 

[ReadyOne]

Has a curved "g-spot" style dildo been mentioned?

g-force-dildo

http://store.babeland.com/photos/0214800-a.jpg?1173729963

 

[In Anticipation]

Has a curved "g-spot" style dildo been mentioned?

g-force-dildo

http://store.babeland.com/photos/0214800-a.jpg?1173729963

And if it didn't do the trick you could probably use it to unblock your kitchen sink . . .

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

My experience suggests...

That as someone said above, your emphasis should be to relax first.

You might also try to rub your clit to a high level of excitement and get "closer" to cumming before involving the g-spot stimulation. That way you're not using your g-spot stimulation hand in that bent position for as long. That is hard work. A guy has an advantage in the g-spot stimulation sense because he can stimulate you and maintain a fairly natural wrist form.

Toys are great, but may not work in your situation.

Use your mind as your greatest tool. Build the mental excitement level. Relax. Make a nice "scene" that is comfortable, not in any hurry, relaxing, sensual, sexual, and something that really turns you on. Treat yourself like you're beautiful. Treat yourself like you're made of GOLD.
Treat yourself like you would want someone who loves you to treat you...

Then you're ready to go.

 

[BlowjobQueen]

I bought a vibrator. I can find my gspot easy, but it's hard to keep your fingers active for so long.

I usually have a clit orgasm first...then I use my gspot for a second one. It works pretty well

 

[smoothbikini]

I'm a 19 year old girl and I have this problem when I'm masturbating. I have no trouble finding my G-spot with my fingers and stimulating it, but after about a minute the muscles in my hand just get worn out. Its very frustrating because I know I could get to an orgasm if my muscles didn't ache. Am I doing it wrong or something? Any help?

there is a reason god made vibrators - and we should thank her everyday...

 

[sunandshadow]

I personally don't like a vibrator internally, but a dildo with beads or ridges is also great for g-spiot stimulation. This kind of thing, but I leave the vibrations turned off.
http://www.analsexbeads.com/04.jpg

 

[missyshell]

Find somebody to lend a hand, or a tongue, or various other pieces of anatomy.

 

[toys_em_us]

Find somebody to lend a hand, or a tongue, or various other pieces of anatomy.

Offering my services

 

[rosebud_6]

there is a reason god made vibrators - and we should thank her everyday...

Amen!

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Don't worry about your g-spot for now (unless you're trying to ejaculate, which is lovely, but can wait till another time). You can masturbate beautifully just by focussing on your clitoris. Just lie back on some comfy pillows, gently part your labia, and work yourself firmly but patiently with a couple of fingers. Don't try to come - instead, just relax and enjoy it. Savour the feeling of getting wet, of your clitoris growing erect. Take some time to cup your pussy in your hand, grazing your fingers lazily through your pubic hair and and around the inside of your labia. If you enter your vagina, just massage and stroke the walls - don't rummage around. But always return to your clitoris. Take it slowly, let an erotic fantasy play through your mind, and let your orgasm arrive of its own accord.