Masturbation question for the ladies

nicknude

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Does it or would it excite you to know that a guy masturbates to the mere thought of you?

Or if a guy told you that he did, would that offend you?

Very curious!

Thanks and much lust,
Nick :heart:
 
it depends...

I find it very sexy to know that a man that I'm involved w/ is masturbating and thinking about me...

now... if it was someone I didn't know or wasn't interested in... I probably wouldn't feel the same way...
 
Hello !

Thanks for your reply!

I probably should have phrased it differently...what if it was someone you knew, a friend who you weren't involved with, but who you know liked you?

I have a married friend who I adore and we talk about sex all the time...I'm sure she knows I do, but I'm considering telling her....but I'm afraid it would change things.
 
well if ya talk about sex as in like you have cyber sex, then she'd probably like to know, but if it was one of my platonic friends who i never had sexual feelings for or didn't talk about sex with, then it might be a bit uneasy for me if they told me
 
nicknude said:
Does it or would it excite you to know that a guy masturbates to the mere thought of you?

Hell yes! It turns me on to know someone thinks I'm hot enough to stroke his cock over, as nasty as that sounds :D
 
ickle_stace said:
well if ya talk about sex as in like you have cyber sex, then she'd probably like to know, but if it was one of my platonic friends who i never had sexual feelings for or didn't talk about sex with, then it might be a bit uneasy for me if they told me

I'm behind her 100% on this one.. if you're not sure where you stand w/ her in a sexual way don't tell her, it'll just weird her out!
 
Not to brag or anything, but I have someone masturbating in front of me right now.

Why the hell am I posting?!?!
 
If a guy feels he has to drop his shorts and masturbate for just thinking about me, I certainly wouldn't mind it, even if it were a friend. It lets me know that I'm attractive to him. Granted in the physical sense, but usually guys only jerk off to centerfold and porn star types, so being at that level of attractiveness (even without having to shed a thread of clothing) is certainly a boost to the ol' ego :nana:
 
nicknude said:
Does it or would it excite you to know that a guy masturbates to the mere thought of you?

Or if a guy told you that he did, would that offend you?

Very curious!

Thanks and much lust,
Nick :heart:

I find it so HOT to know I am desired so much that my man would do that! I have one friend who has called me his "masturbation fantasy"... Makes me wet just thinking about it...

On another note, my dear friend for whom my nickname comes from, not only will masturbate thinking of me in some risque places, we also will do it while on cam... Oh how I love to see him doing that! :kiss: :heart: :kiss:
 
Eilan said:
Not to brag or anything, but I have someone masturbating in front of me right now.

Why the hell am I posting?!?!

I have no idea. Go help! :D
 
Night Giggler said:
If a guy feels he has to drop his shorts and masturbate for just thinking about me, I certainly wouldn't mind it, even if it were a friend. It lets me know that I'm attractive to him. Granted in the physical sense, but usually guys only jerk off to centerfold and porn star types, so being at that level of attractiveness (even without having to shed a thread of clothing) is certainly a boost to the ol' ego :nana:


Personally I am not nearly as attracted to the "perfect woman" with the airbrushing etc I am far more attracted to someone who looks real.
 
be careful

nicknude said:
...what if it was someone you knew, a friend who you weren't involved with, but who you know liked you?

I'm afraid it would change things.

Nick -- knowing a guy I'm involved with or would like to be involved with pleasured himself while thinking about me is a real turn on.

However, I would be extremely freaked out if I knew him but didn't reciprocate his sexual feelings about me. I couldn't look him in the eye again or be alone with him again for a very long time, if ever after he told me something like that.

People are a lot more open minded on line then in real life. Be sure you know what you're doing & what you're risking before you tell her.
 
i know that if a woman touches herself thinking of me, thats enough to get me going ;)
 
Hell ya!!

Yes, Yes, Yes. Just the thought that my guy thinks of me and feels the need to masturbate is soooooo hooooot.
I think he feels the same way.
I will have to ask him later tonight.
 
well i think (though im a guy) it all depends on the guy that is masterbating at the thought of you. now, hot/sexy boyfriend or boy toy or guy you like? most likely it would be an 'omg im creaming my pants thats so hot.' Now, go on the flip side, psycho nerdy freakish stalker like kid that makes voodoo hair dolls that he collects from your hair brush and creates a giant immortilized statue out of gum you chewed? um... restraining order please.
 
Gently

nicknude said:
Thanks for your reply!

I probably should have phrased it differently...what if it was someone you knew, a friend who you weren't involved with, but who you know liked you?

I have a married friend who I adore and we talk about sex all the time...I'm sure she knows I do, but I'm considering telling her....but I'm afraid it would change things.
I so love someone to tell me that they fantsize about me. It is very flattering to know that they think me beautiful and sexy enough to have that effect on them.
f it was someone I know well and I didn't have those fellings towards him... I would still like to know... but gently and sweetly secretive.
She may like to know what she does to you... but introduce it gradually and gently with feeling. If she seems repulsed, then laugh it off as if you were just kidding for effect... on the other hand if she seems responsive to the thought, you have it made, and things can be even more imaginative. You will feel if it's right. :kiss:
 
nicknude said:
Does it or would it excite you to know that a guy masturbates to the mere thought of you?

Or if a guy told you that he did, would that offend you?

Very curious!

Thanks and much lust,
Nick :heart:
i would be very flattered and possibly even turned on.....
 
BALUS said:
I so love someone to tell me that they fantsize about me. It is very flattering to know that they think me beautiful and sexy enough to have that effect on them.
f it was someone I know well and I didn't have those fellings towards him... I would still like to know... but gently and sweetly secretive.
She may like to know what she does to you... but introduce it gradually and gently with feeling. If she seems repulsed, then laugh it off as if you were just kidding for effect... on the other hand if she seems responsive to the thought, you have it made, and things can be even more imaginative. You will feel if it's right.
I agree with her. Be careful and make sure you are getting the right signal to proceed.
 
if my boyfriend told me that, i'd be really flattered.

if a friend said the same thing...i don't know. i think i'd be a little weirded out, especially if i didn't feel the same way about him.
 
nicknude said:
Does it or would it excite you to know that a guy masturbates to the mere thought of you?

Or if a guy told you that he did, would that offend you?

Very curious!

Thanks and much lust,
Nick :heart:[/QUOTE



Love the idea that a man masturbates at the mere thought of me, find it a big turn on,
 
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