Masturbation instructions - "JOI"

[Tribad]

Hi, I'd like to talk a little about masturbation instructions, "JOI" (jerk off instructions for those unfamiliar with the acronym).

The idea of a person telling another how to touch themselves is something that really turns me on. I'd love to do it for a woman, and would equally love one to do it for me. What I find most arousing about this is that masturbation is something you normally do alone, without anyone knowing what you're doing. So it makes it very taboo to have someone knowing you are doing it, and it's even better when they encourage you to do it (as opposed to doing it in secret hoping no one will find out you did it).

I've been looking on the internet for videos of this, but I'm having a very difficult time finding something that works for me. So on top of discussing the subject, it's be great if some of you could share your favourite ones here, whether audio or video. What I find most of the time in those videos are women who, while giving instructions, start undressing and playing with themselves as well. But what I enjoy more is when the woman is fully dressed and stays that way, stimulating me through her words alone. I like the... "asymmetry" of the situation, being naked and vulnerable, doing something intimate, while the other person is fully dressed and proper. Are there others here who also prefer this?

Also, I've only ever found one video of a man telling a woman how to masturbate, it was filmed from the woman's perspective, with her following the instructions. Though a little weird, it was kinda fun to watch (here is the link if it's okay to post it), and I'd love to see more like this.

Of course, this is also an open invitation for any lady who would want to send me audio instructions

Please feel free to discuss the subject, and share any content you enjoy!

 

[Sigmund7]

I think it might be fun in person, but the videos just don't do it for me.

 

[Massacre]

I think it might be fun in person, but the videos just don't do it for me.

I agree. In person or some other intraction is better. But the vidoes where they make it a game really do it for me.

 

[Tribad]

It must indeed be much better in person, but one would need to have such an opportunity

The best orgasm I ever had was when I masturbated and came next to a woman who was watching me. But that only happened once a long time ago...

 

[Scarlett1993]

Hot!

A video like that but shorter and with more input from the guy would be hot!

 

[HoldYouDown]

These videos are hit or miss. Most of the actresses in them aren't very good at encouraging the jacker-off. I guess it seems like they are mailing it in. Once in a while you see a good one. I would rather have one where she's jerking off a real man while also giving the instructions, than doing the phantom jackoff motion. I'm usually disappointed when I seek these out. I agree, in-person is much more fun (as with most sex).

 

[jehoram]

Not quite JOI, but...

One of my favorite genres is women not only masturbating, but telling you what they're feeling and what turns them on when they're doing it. Again, as HoldYouDown says, most of them are mailing it in, but there's a model named Carmen who does it right and makes you feel that you're part of the scene.