Masturbation Instruction and Encouragement

mike_always_horny

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Masturbation Instruction and Encouragement... I absolutely love this type of play, and I was wondering how many others, male and female, felt the same way?

Basically, I'm describing when I woman gives "erotic vocal guidance", you could say, to a masturbating man. She'll tell him what to do in great detail ("tease your cock slowly for me baby, place a few fingers at the base of your cock and just gently massage it for me, taking deep deep breaths"), add in playful language ("don't you wish you were tasting my pussy right now?"), describe a fantasy for the guy ("picture the two of us in a bathtub together with me between your legs, deepthroating your beautiful cock.") or just tease brutally ("you horny bastard, I bet you're just dying to cum for me right now. Too bad, you need to wait at least 20 more minutes. Keep stroking, boy.")

This could be done via chat or via phone, or even in person, which is especially wicked. Also, the genders could easily be reversed. ("Keep rubbing that clit for me, you horny little thing, I'm going to need you to cum more than once for me. KEEP GOING!")

Different than normal cyber/phone sex, much more attention is placed on the partner's masturbation, and the masturbator is told specifically when he or she can or must cum. Discussion of fantasies is limited to a few directions here and there on what to think of, and the talker is in total control of the masturbator.

Who all out there likes this? Do you prefer to be the masturbator or the controller? Any specific things you like to do to spice it up?
 
Love this kind of play. This is my favorite online activity - directing a woman's self touch - holding her on the edge as long as we both can stand it. I love the control and I love hearing her get hottter and hotter - until she's begging me to cum.
 
I love instructions. I love hearing what my partner is doing too. Whether I'm the instructor or the instructee varies. It just depends on my mood, I guess. ;)
 
I've never done this, but it sounds like it would be a lot of fun...frustrating, but really fun :D
 
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