Masturbation after fucking

[AdoresMILFs]

My sweetie almost never cums during intercourse. I always do. She likes to masturbate immediately afterward and she cums pretty quickly then. This is fine with me. I'm happy for her and it's fun to watch. Sometimes I rub her clit and finger her to climax, and she likes that, too.

But I wondered if I should be doing more while we're fucking. She says no, she's enjoying everything and doesn't feel anything is missing. She simply needs that bit of self-help to reach the finish line.

Well, if she's OK, I should be. But I wonder what the Lit hive mind thinks about this? Any ladies who get off this way? Any other experiences that we should know about?

 

[J_Bone]

Hi.....first question would be what method is she using to masturbate post intercourse?

 

[AdoresMILFs]

Hi.....first question would be what method is she using to masturbate post intercourse?

Fingering. Mostly rubbing her clit.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

If I finish too soon and she is still unsatisfied, I am responsible to implement the wand or dildo or womanizer. Always great fun!

 

[jehoram]

As long as you both end up with orgasms, I don't see a problem.

 

[J_Bone]

Fingering. Mostly rubbing her clit.

While some women can cum from penetration alone, many definitely need clitoral stimulation to get home. Best position for this of course is cowgirl since she can grind her clit. I know one woman who can only cum in that position, but she does every single time. Also she might try using her fingers or a vibrator on her clit during intercourse as an aid. That way hopefully she'll get there with you inside her.

Just my $.02

 

[gtnlynn]

Our situation is a little different. My wife will have an intense orgasm during sex, and as we lie there afterward, she sometimes takes my hand and puts in on her wet pussy. I will gently finger her until she has another, milder orgasm.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Starting with masturbation is also good fun!

 

[KDBisback]

Our situation is a little different. My wife will have an intense orgasm during sex, and as we lie there afterward, she sometimes takes my hand and puts in on her wet pussy. I will gently finger her until she has another, milder orgasm.

That is sexy!

 

[MeredithEighty8]

I understand completely. Sometimes even though you may have had a great orgasm, you still want just a little more . . . you need to "top it off".

 

[Longhairsmile]

I understand completely. Sometimes even though you may have had a great orgasm, you still want just a little more . . . you need to "top it off".

ever have the feeling of, "next" ? ...or like, i wish there was another masculine guy here to top it off?

 

[CuriousGuy62]

My sweetie almost never cums during intercourse. I always do. She likes to masturbate immediately afterward and she cums pretty quickly then. This is fine with me. I'm happy for her and it's fun to watch. Sometimes I rub her clit and finger her to climax, and she likes that, too.

But I wondered if I should be doing more while we're fucking. She says no, she's enjoying everything and doesn't feel anything is missing. She simply needs that bit of self-help to reach the finish line.

Well, if she's OK, I should be. But I wonder what the Lit hive mind thinks about this? Any ladies who get off this way? Any other experiences that we should know about?

"she says no" --> take her at her word.

 

[MarionsLover]

My sweetie almost never cums during intercourse. I always do. She likes to masturbate immediately afterward and she cums pretty quickly then. This is fine with me. I'm happy for her and it's fun to watch. Sometimes I rub her clit and finger her to climax, and she likes that, too.

But I wondered if I should be doing more while we're fucking. She says no, she's enjoying everything and doesn't feel anything is missing. She simply needs that bit of self-help to reach the finish line.

Well, if she's OK, I should be. But I wonder what the Lit hive mind thinks about this? Any ladies who get off this way? Any other experiences that we should know about?

If my wife is in the mood (she doesnt always care about getting an orgasm) that's how it goes for us.
If I was younger fingering her to orgasm would have me ready to fuck again.

 

[anniebaby10]

Fingering. Mostly rubbing her clit.

Then why doesn't she just rub her clit while being fucked?

 

[pplwatching]

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[AdoresMILFs]

Then why doesn't she just rub her clit while being fucked?

She does sometimes, but only a little. She has tried, but it doesn't seem to get her any closer while we're fucking. It works best after.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

My sweetie almost never cums during intercourse. I always do. She likes to masturbate immediately afterward and she cums pretty quickly then. This is fine with me. I'm happy for her and it's fun to watch. Sometimes I rub her clit and finger her to climax, and she likes that, too.

But I wondered if I should be doing more while we're fucking. She says no, she's enjoying everything and doesn't feel anything is missing. She simply needs that bit of self-help to reach the finish line.

Well, if she's OK, I should be. But I wonder what the Lit hive mind thinks about this? Any ladies who get off this way? Any other experiences that we should know about?

When I first started having sex, it took me 2 years (to get my ego outta the way) to come to the understanding that the best way to help bring a woman to the best possible orgasm was to do what ever she needed or wanted me to do, whether to get the hell outta the way or to do explicitly what ever she asked.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

I would purchase a Wand and take her to orgasm first. If you're like me, all drive goes after orgasming. It takes pressure off you and once she's had an orgasm, it maybe easier for you to give her one afterwards.

Im a strong believer in "ladies first"

 

[IsItBad]

if

if she is happy and content with your lovemaking .....then it would seem to me that there is no real problem.

personally, i would feel? let down or diminished or something of that nature if my wife never came while we were making love......but that is more my own issue than would be hers

i have had a few female friends who have never had an orgasm from intercourse.....one of them in particular has masturbated a million times using a silver bullet on her clit.....since about the age of 13.....and she concludes she simply trained herself to cum to those vibes.....

in the end, as long as everyone is satisfied and content.....i think it is all that matters.....

i once had a girlfriend whose most favorite way to get off was very specific: she loved to have a pillow under her ass.....me between her legs totally hard and buried inside her.....but being totally still......and then she would rub her clit until she came.....it was quite fabulous to me as she got closer and closer she would clench her muscles against me.....as she was one to buck around alot when she did cum.....when i sensed she was cumming, i would take her hips in my hands and as her orgasm began to diminsh i would fuck her for all i was worth.....invariably she would cum again at least once and sometimes 2 or 3 times.......it was all quite to die for.....and i never tired of coming from having my shower to find her naked with a pillow under her ass and that devilish grin she always got when she wanted that.....

 

[Cindy69love]

I love when my husband goes down there when he finishes. He does it often and it always leads to a second session....lol

 

[IsItBad]

nice

I love when my husband goes down there when he finishes. He does it often and it always leads to a second session....lol

i have always loved to go down on a girl after i fucked her.....there is just something extra hot about it.....it has always led to some additional orgasms! just tasting that cum soaked pussy always revives even the most fucked out cock!

 

[Cindy69love]

i have always loved to go down on a girl after i fucked her.....there is just something extra hot about it.....it has always led to some additional orgasms! just tasting that cum soaked pussy always revives even the most fucked out cock!

I agree

 

[Paul_Chance]

My sweetie almost never cums during intercourse. I always do. She likes to masturbate immediately afterward and she cums pretty quickly then. This is fine with me. I'm happy for her and it's fun to watch. Sometimes I rub her clit and finger her to climax, and she likes that, too.

But I wondered if I should be doing more while we're fucking. She says no, she's enjoying everything and doesn't feel anything is missing. She simply needs that bit of self-help to reach the finish line.

Well, if she's OK, I should be. But I wonder what the Lit hive mind thinks about this? Any ladies who get off this way? Any other experiences that we should know about?

I wouldn't worry about it, especially if you've talked with her about it. You can by all means continue exploring positions/techniques to bring her to orgasm, but I would be careful not to get obsessed with "she has to orgasm this way". If she's a normal adult, by this time in her life she knows her own body - what she likes, what works for her. Over many years of being sexually active I've know at least two women for whom the approach you describe was the preferred/exclusive method for orgasm. Both understood it and were fine with it. (They both also had the same reason for preferring - in masturbation you have an immediate feed back loop to yourself and can vary the sensations minutely and with perfect timing to obtain an orgasm.)

 

[Sheana_V]

Your partner almost certainly knows what's best for her. If she trusts you and has said she prefers it the way it is then leave it alone.

 

[zcraft5]

yes i have to have a send orgasm which i masturbate for him