masturbating for boyfriend

[Guest]

how should i do this? my bf wants me to masturbate for him, but i'm not really that expirienced in that department (never really needed to, hehe). can anyone recamend some good techniques that look sexy? please?

 

[KillerMuffin]

If your BF is anything like my StudMuffin, then what he wants to see is you just totally abandoning yourself to your sexual pleasure. Technique and masturbating panache isn't the point, watching you make yourself orgasm is. He gets to see the secret womanly sexual side of you that men rarely get to see.

At least thats what the StudMuffin says. He also says I'm built like a brick shithouse and my ass is squeezably soft like charmin... *sigh*

 

[daniducci]

KillerMuffin is absolutely right about what turns on us guys about female masturbation, I think. The only technique you need to worry about is what will make you feel good and get you off. If you're enjoying it, he's certain to enjoy you.

 

[Guest]

I agree with the other guys the thing I enjoy most when my wife masterbates for me is just watching her passion and feeling a little bit naughty like Im' watching something I shouldn't. If it helps 2 of my favorite things she does is suck her own nipples (of course her 36D's make this possible) and watching her lightly rub her ass as she drives 2 fingers in her pussy.

 

[dancinvixen]

I wish I had your courage. I was raised that masturbation was something you only did in private. Heck raised, it was pounded into me when my mom caught me masturbating. <blush> Even now when my husband asks me too, I have such a hard time just letting go enough to do that. I guess I still have some deprogramming to do. Oh well.

 

[MADDOG]

Personally, I find the use of fingers far more erotic than dildo's, vibes and toys - although they still DEFINATELY work for me. There's something rather carnal about a woman who just is so horny that she can't wait for man or machine to pleasure her. That's how I look at it. I love watching mastubation.

I would suggest just making a lot of sexy facial expressions (If you're doing it alright, this should come naturally.), throw in the odd moan and just let go. Penetration looks better to me than just rubbing your clit, even if that is what works to get you off - so perhaps you could start by puting fingers inside you and making yourself wet (very sexy to see the juices flowing ), and then bring yourself to the actual orgasm in whatever fashion works for you.

MADDOG

 

[jenni21]

when your masturbating for him, bring your finger up to your lips and taste your own juice... if that doesn't make him cum...

 

[Alyrahh]

KM's absolutely right, technique doesn't matter. Just do what feels good, and try making eye contact as often as you can..that always helps me.

 

[poohlive]

ahh the eyes, windows to the soul. Yes, the eyes, always use the eyes. Oh, and make sure not to hurt, that is a sensitive area you know