Masterbation

[mritsme]

Masturbation

ok i have a question not sure how to word it but will do my best

I love pics and stories and have a lot of various turn ons with them. And get horny alot of times, though i do not masterbate to them i save all my orgasms for when im with my wife, and i want to know if this is just physicological or not if you are reading and erotic story or looking at pics or even watching a xxx movie and you get hard and you do not let yourself go and masterbate to them will it lesson your turn on to it down the road? I have a few things i have read about that would get me going right away and they still trun me on but do not seem to as much as in the past. Am i unconciously telling myself not to be turned on by it if i do not masterbate to it???

Your thoughts are welcome thanks

 

[intrigued]

Hmm...I trhink the answer is in the beginning. You are choosing to save your orgasms for your wife, for whatever reason....and that is what you need to think about. As long as you are being aroused/stimulated, things are still working...
The mind is a very powerful tool, and you are blocking yourself...is it guilt?

 

[CoolidgEffect]

masturbation

Sorry, just had to link this.

And Hi Intrigued.

 

[perks]

masturbation

Sorry, just had to link this.

And Hi Intrigued.

thank you.

It was giving me agita.

 

[intrigued]

masturbation

Sorry, just had to link this.

And Hi Intrigued.

You are sooo bad, CE!

Hi. Its been awhile....

 

[LordLucan74]

ok i have a question not sure how to word it but will do my best

I love pics and stories and have a lot of various turn ons with them. And get horny alot of times, though i do not masterbate to them i save all my orgasms for when im with my wife, and i want to know if this is just physicological or not if you are reading and erotic story or looking at pics or even watching a xxx movie and you get hard and you do not let yourself go and masterbate to them will it lesson your turn on to it down the road? I have a few things i have read about that would get me going right away and they still trun me on but do not seem to as much as in the past. Am i unconciously telling myself not to be turned on by it if i do not masterbate to it???

Your thoughts are welcome thanks

Great Question!!! The answer to everything is no!!! Masturbation will increase one's overall sex drive (see studies by Kinsey and Masters and Johnson). As we get older, our desire to masturbate will generally decrease as our sex drives change. In men, this usually happens in their 20s and in women its mid 40s. Masturbation may decrease the amount of semen in an ejaculation depending on how often one ejaculates. The sperm count may or may not be lowered. Also, in males, ejaculation and orgasm is NOT the same thing.

 

[CoolidgEffect]

thank you.

It was giving me agita.

I am a rotten speller myself, but I do try to spell check my thread titles, however lame.

(BTW, I like your feather)

 

[CoolidgEffect]

You are sooo bad, CE!

Hi. Its been awhile....

Hi, I like your Rambling thread. You can ramble anytime. I don't know what is so terrible about chatting with folks in a thread.

To keep this from being a total high jack post...

I may or may not be masturbating right now. Sort of like "Schroedinger's Cat."

 

[intrigued]

Hi, I like your Rambling thread. You can ramble anytime. I don't know what is so terrible about chatting with folks in a thread.

To keep this from being a total high jack post...

I may or may not be masturbating right now. Sort of like "Schroedinger's Cat."

Thank you....


Ahhh...come on sweetie, elaborate a little for me.

 

[mritsme]

police help me they stole my thread lol whatever was just something i was thinking about

 

[CoolidgEffect]

Thank you....


Ahhh...come on sweetie, elaborate a little for me.

Schroedinger's Cat is thought experiment proposed by Erwin Schroedinger.

[Disclaimer: I am not a quantum physicist and I don't play one on TV, only the Internet.]

The experiment goes something like this:
In a sealed box you place three things.
A vial of poinsonous gas.
A radio active material.
A cat.

If the radio active material decays, the gas is releasted and kills the cat.

There is a 50/50 chance that the radio active material will decay.

Without opening the box, you don't know if the cat is dead or alive. 50% chance either way. Both possibilities exist. The cat is dead, the cat is alive. Until you observe the cat, it is undetermined if he is dead or alive. Thus until observation the cat is in a quasi state of both. Your observation seals which state the cat is in.

Thus until observed, I am both masturbating and not masturbating.

Yeah, this is a rather obtuse post.

 

[LordLucan74]

In a recent poll

police help me they stole my thread lol whatever was just something i was thinking about

60% of men admitted to masturbating. Of them, 39% admitted to doing so daily. The 39% also were more sexually active than those who masturbated infrequently or not at all.

Somehow, I think 60% is low!!!

 

[intrigued]

police help me they stole my thread lol whatever was just something i was thinking about

Well, excuse me then. I posted a reply to you to which you have not responded, as have others.

bye.

 

[mritsme]

Well, excuse me then. I posted a reply to you to which you have not responded, as have others.

bye.

oh intrigued i was just giving a bad time i have read the posts and do appreciate the feed back i have gotten everyone is free to post all and what they want as long as were having fun i enjoy your posts greatly you keep me intrigued

 

[CoolidgEffect]

Well, excuse me then. I posted a reply to you to which you have not responded, as have others.

bye.

He was thinking about it [see title of thread] and got a little carried away. Please stay tuned for your regular broadcasting schedule.

 

[weed]

police help me they stole my thread lol whatever was just something i was thinking about

While they're masturbating (or whatever)...
I'll just add that I think there are times sex is better when you save it for a while. That is get aroused but not get off. It's like saving a sexy little secret that only gets sweeter and riper.

Then again, there also times when there is no waiting to be done and repetition needed. Just hope and pray the kids leave me alone long enough.

 

[mritsme]

Just hope and pray the kids leave me alone long enough.

Yea i know about the kids until school starts i will not be alone

 

[The Gimp]

I read lots of stimulating stuff online but it's pretty rare for me to get a hardon. Even if I do I don't take advantage of it. Of all people I certainly have nothing against masterbation but I tend to save it for the bedroom. I live by myself but I still have this involuntary impulse to keep all sexual activities in the bedroom.

 

[weed]

Yeah, school starts soon....masturbation freedom for parents everywhere.

Oops, sorry, copulation freedom for lucky folks like you and your wife.

 

[mritsme]

Yeah, school starts soon....masturbation freedom for parents everywhere.

Oops, sorry, copulation freedom for lucky folks like you and your wife.

well when kids are gone it will be me until my school starts again i do like saving for the wife but ya never know what will happen when alone lol