Masterbating in bed next to your partner while they are asleep

[fuego1273]

The title says it all - who does this / has done it and how does it make you feel ?

 

[NickCarraway12]

I do it a lot when wifey is snoring.

I usually don't orgasm, though. She may do it, I'm not sure (when I'm in bed).

She usually waits until I leave for work or when I go downstairs to work out. She sneaks that vibrator out of her nightstand.

 

[IARainman]

I have a couple times. Having a wife with an Ambien habit helps. Eating your own cum helps with the logistics.

 

[screwher]

Never in this situation but my wife and I have masturbated together. I strongly recommend it.

 

[LadyVer]

I'd rather have a conscious partner who wants to participate.

 

[lookmanobrains]

Doing it right now

 

[pplwatching]

I'm always hopeful that she'll wake up and say that she'd love to help me out . If I am really Jonesing for an intimate connection with her it makes me feel really lonely after I've finished. Ugh. Other times it's okay and relieves the urge, but it's just a flash in the pan. Sometimes I can relax and take my time, have an awesome orgasm, and contentedly doze off but that's kind of rare.

I'd rather have a conscious partner who wants to participate.

Any day! That is the absolute best, but unfortunately sometimes doesn't work out for us because of schedules and different sex drives. Sometimes I need to let the pressure off anyway.

Eating your own cum helps with the logistics.

Too unpredictable. I don't like getting the sheets or my pillow wet, or getting semen on my wife for that matter. I just make sure that I have a tissue handy. No objection to eating my own, but I've gotten hooked on that being part of our afterplay together.

 

[roc23]

Done it.

And been with girls that have done it.

Either situation,we'd wake up and got into it and helped the other out.

 

[VampirTARA]

The title says it all - who does this / has done it and how does it make you feel ?

Yes I have done it a number of times While my husband was sleeping next to me.. There's no shame In my game , I'm a horny girl....

 

[LadyVer]

@pplwatching: Whatever works for you is fine. What doesn't work for me is a partner who is sleeping because he would rather sleep than take a few minutes to have sex. I can understand that he's tired or not in the mood. But to masturbate next to a partner who's asleep as well as being a jackass doesn't work for me.

 

[Cycle Tom]

I do occasionally. My wife isn't as interested in fucking as I am, so it relieves the pressure, if you know what I mean.

 

[quietlylooking]

I admit to doing this regularly. My husband's needs are less than mine, and I often wake up in the middle of the night and cannot get back to sleep. He's a sound sleeper. I once asked him if he knew that I did this, and he was surprised but didn't mind.

 

[Farawyn]

Sure. I've "mastured" the Shhh...

 

[thecuckedone]

I do this a lot. Once or twice, I've accidentally come on her, but she's never woken up from it.

 

[sidonie45]

A big yes. I mean a guy can fuck and cum just so often, and when I get the need, then where's the harm

But it's better, and more exciting, when he's laying next to me, watching.

 

[KJack]

I've done this. My wife is a very sound sleeper and am able to knock one off regularly. It helps make mine a very good sleep afterward.

 

[crisatl]

Yes

I've done it dozens of times over the years. Work it slowly at first, extending the pleasure but when I get to the point of no return I have to speed it up or I won't come. It is the most exciting at this time because I shake the bed and there's a good chance she'll wake up. If she knows, she never mentioned it.

 

[jays78]

Both my wife and I do this. We don't like to deprive the other of sleep. I love knowing she cums right beside me as I sleep.

 

[MastersDelight]

I will occasionally, usually when I can't get to sleep. Last night I woke up and thought Master was jerking off (my back was to him and he was just itching), so I rolled over and offered my help only to find he wasn't hard. It really turned him on though and we ended up having a 4am suck and fuck.

 

[kypdyn82]

My ex wife did this regularly when I was doped up on SSRIs and my sexual moods were unpredictable. I found it hot as hell and on occasion it would turn the tide and I'd finisher her off with my mouth. Now I'll be the one who is masturbating. My wife sometimes gives me permission to pull her panties down while she sleeps and eat her ass while I rub one out.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

Hubby almost always goes to bed first so I usually get off before I go to the bedroom, but if I'm having trouble falling asleep I've been known to reach down and rub as a way of relaxing. If I reach the point where I need to cum I get up and go into the bathroom. I have a hard being quiet or staying still during an orgasm.

 

[scott6251]

I have a couple times. Having a wife with an Ambien habit helps. Eating your own cum helps with the logistics.

I do the same.
I also like the taste

 

[suckonsimon]

Hubby almost always goes to bed first so I usually get off before I go to the bedroom, but if I'm having trouble falling asleep I've been known to reach down and rub as a way of relaxing. If I reach the point where I need to cum I get up and go into the bathroom. I have a hard being quiet or staying still during an orgasm.

Reading this, Annie you sexy gorgeous, makes me realize how important it is to me to be the man who delivers for my woman when I am there, whether asleep or awake, when she is aroused for pleasure. Even if I am spent in terms of erection potential, for it to be my fingers, my mouth, my caresses. It's like my reason for being. There was a time when she was on night shift and came home at 2.30am quite often randy. She would wake me. I would fuck her. In my book that's what I'm for.

Always love your posts. xx

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

I've done it. My wife has done it. We almost all do it!

 

[ChattyAnnie]

Reading this, Annie you sexy gorgeous, makes me realize how important it is to me to be the man who delivers for my woman when I am there, whether asleep or awake, when she is aroused for pleasure. Even if I am spent in terms of erection potential, for it to be my fingers, my mouth, my caresses. It's like my reason for being. There was a time when she was on night shift and came home at 2.30am quite often randy. She would wake me. I would fuck her. In my book that's what I'm for.

Always love your posts. xx

Wow! You're wife is a lucky woman. There have been times when I woke him up and we had sex but that doesn't happen much anymore.