Master of Your Domain Challenge

[bozinka]

Hmm, okay, so I don't know how well this will go over.

Not a big Seinfeld fan... but remembered this episode... LOL. Lately I have been thinking perhaps I should see how long I can go without, well, um... you know... LOL. The H thinks maybe sex would be better if I were not constantly pleasing myself - maybe it'd be easier for him to please me.

So, I thought I'd go for it... see how long I could make it, and see if anyone else is interested in either joining me in this challenge... interested in hearing about the challenge.... or hell, help me fail this challenge. LOL. I thought it would get especially interesting since I plan to still spend a lot of time on Lit...

So, anyone... anyone?

 

[slowfingers1]

I have to wonder if you no longer masturbating will actually help anything Assuming you're a woman.. I just dont know.. I know that for a male it would probably make a difference, but do women have a set amount of something that runs out when they cum too often? I know that some women can cum very often and repetedly, while some are satisfied after just one or two orgasms, what about you Bozinka? Do you need LOTS of them or just a few?

Slowfingers

 

[Mysticcal]

LOL! I love the idea bozi.....sounds fun, not sure which part I would want though. LOL! think I would lose the challenge too easily, especially since you just dragged me into that wonderful place, but hearing about it and trying to be sure you failed would be fun <weg>

 

[H'venlee]

I find, personally, that masturbating actually helps with my sex life. My hubby has alot of girth, and if I stop doing that, it makes sex more painful for the both of us, because my muscles tend to shrink.
I also found out that I orgasm easier now that I masturbate more, and I want sex more often.
So I don't see it as a bad thing.

Good luck though!

 

[bozinka]

I have to wonder if you no longer masturbating will actually help anything Assuming you're a woman.. I just dont know.. I know that for a male it would probably make a difference, but do women have a set amount of something that runs out when they cum too often? I know that some women can cum very often and repetedly, while some are satisfied after just one or two orgasms, what about you Bozinka? Do you need LOTS of them or just a few?

Slowfingers

I don't think that women have anything that they run out of. H just thinks maybe I'm over sexed... lol. Or that because I please my self so often, I am harder to turn on... get excited.

And, I just thought it'd be fun to see how it goes... what it will be like to go longer than a couple days... as I don't think I have in, well, as long as I can remember.... LOL!

 

[bozinka]

LOL! I love the idea bozi.....sounds fun, not sure which part I would want though. LOL! think I would lose the challenge too easily, especially since you just dragged me into that wonderful place, but hearing about it and trying to be sure you failed would be fun <weg>

Thanks Mysti - and be sure to check back to our little fun place... LOL.. got some fun planned.

And I don't know exactly where I want to go with this thread. Part of me wants to say... lets see how many of us can make it to the first of December without... and what would that be like - or longer? LOL...

Or, well, a diary of my life and what it's like if I'm not... or just a fun discussion that way. We'll see....

 

[bozinka]

I find, personally, that masturbating actually helps with my sex life. My hubby has alot of girth, and if I stop doing that, it makes sex more painful for the both of us, because my muscles tend to shrink.
I also found out that I orgasm easier now that I masturbate more, and I want sex more often.
So I don't see it as a bad thing.

Good luck though!

Yes... I hear that most women feel that way... and isn't it a generally accepted fact that a woman who can cum while masturbating is more likely to have an orgasm during sex? But, I don't find that's true for me. And, I wonder if I will enjoy sex more if I'm not constantly orgasming... you know, if it's more of a special treat.

It's just an experiment, one I'm doing for myself - not for the H. He doesn't even know I'm doing it.....

 

[~Dream~]

well personally

I wanna hear MORE , lol I dont find masturbating or using of vibrators all that exciting , as my body does know the difference and I do enjoy the Real thingand definately do NOt have as many orgasms without a REAL cock and I am multi-orgasmic too!! lol

 

[bozinka]

Re: well personally

I wanna hear MORE , lol I dont find masturbating or using of vibrators all that exciting , as my body does know the difference and I do enjoy the Real thingand definately do NOt have as many orgasms without a REAL cock and I am multi-orgasmic too!! lol

Lucky Dream... LOL...

I too prefer the real thing, but have, well, umm... masturbated almost every night since before I even knew what masturbating really was... heehee. And, was just thinking the other day, while on the masturbation and conversation thread, actually, that it might be fun to abstain.

And, either see if people wanted to join me in abstaining for a bit, while still engaging in erotic talk, posting here on lit, etc. And then share how it's going. But, it looks as if you might be the only taker so far. I knew it was a wierd idea for here on Lit, but thought I'd throw it out there.....

What do you think, and what would you be interested in?

 

[kikmosa]

Re: Re: well personally

Lucky Dream... LOL...

I too prefer the real thing, but have, well, umm... masturbated almost every night since before I even knew what masturbating really was... heehee. And, was just thinking the other day, while on the masturbation and conversation thread, actually, that it might be fun to abstain.

And, either see if people wanted to join me in abstaining for a bit, while still engaging in erotic talk, posting here on lit, etc. And then share how it's going. But, it looks as if you might be the only taker so far. I knew it was a wierd idea for here on Lit, but thought I'd throw it out there.....

What do you think, and what would you be interested in?

Abstaining isn't that hard. After the first week or two you don't even miss it that much. But then my situation and yours may be entirly different. I never did it at all growing up. Was taught that good girls didn't even think of their bodies much less touch. And even when I do now, it's very hard to have an orgasm. It's like my body shuts down if I even get close. And I never had one when I was married. I do get the urge to try sometimes but only about every 2 or 3 months or so. So I don't miss what I don't have. Where with you, since you have them frequently, you'd miss them a lot. If you really want to try to hold off, I'm willing to encourage you. But that needs to be your choice and not someone elses.

 

[vffan]

Well, I masterbate frequently. I have found though, that when I go without for awhile the orgasams I have while having actual sex are much more intense.

J

 

[bozinka]

Well, I masterbate frequently. I have found though, that when I go without for awhile the orgasams I have while having actual sex are much more intense.

J

Really... well, that's what I'm hoping for... LOL... wanna abstain with me... heehee

 

[bozinka]

Re: Re: Re: well personally

Abstaining isn't that hard. After the first week or two you don't even miss it that much. But then my situation and yours may be entirly different. I never did it at all growing up. Was taught that good girls didn't even think of their bodies much less touch. And even when I do now, it's very hard to have an orgasm. It's like my body shuts down if I even get close. And I never had one when I was married. I do get the urge to try sometimes but only about every 2 or 3 months or so. So I don't miss what I don't have. Where with you, since you have them frequently, you'd miss them a lot. If you really want to try to hold off, I'm willing to encourage you. But that needs to be your choice and not someone elses.

Hi Kiki...

I agree that it needs to be my choice, and it is. Like I said, I just thought it'd be a fun experiment to try...

We'll see where it goes, I suppose. I haven't ever had an orgasm during sex, without my help, that is. So I do wonder if it will help there. Or even just increase my desire for the H... make me want it so much more I'm willing to get out of our comfort zone a bit.

 

[Mysticcal]

Hey bozi hun......I would be happy to join you in this abstaining thing.......starting next week <weg>

LOL until then though, going to see if I can't tempt you into not making it and starting fresh again monday LOL!

 

[Curious_Fem]

Thanks Mysti - and be sure to check back to our little fun place... LOL.. got some fun planned.

And I don't know exactly where I want to go with this thread. Part of me wants to say... lets see how many of us can make it to the first of December without... and what would that be like - or longer? LOL...

Or, well, a diary of my life and what it's like if I'm not... or just a fun discussion that way. We'll see....

OMG....did you just say until the first of DECEMBER??????? Might be easier if I could get the real thing on a regular basis. I don't think it would be fun for me to try, I'm sure I would turn into a three-headed bitch in no time.

Good luck boz!

 

[RomanHans]

My comments:

1) Boz, your AV makes the challenge especially difficult--was that by design?

2) Never really saw the point of this challenge when it was on Seinfeld

3) Not masturbating does seem to make my next orgasm after abstension more intense--but is it really worth the sacrifice?

4) I plan to be disqualified in about 5 minutes. See you all on some other thread.

Roman

 

[HomerPindar]

Whatever your reasons...do you really want folks to try and get you to break your abstinences? Don't see much in the way of attempts so far...

HomerPindar

 

[bozinka]

Hey bozi hun......I would be happy to join you in this abstaining thing.......starting next week <weg>

LOL until then though, going to see if I can't tempt you into not making it and starting fresh again monday LOL!

Hi Mysti... LOL.

It's definately getting more difficult. It's such a habit for me... but I've made it so far..... LOL.

Ooh, having you tempt me would be just to fun - are you ready to make a few matchsticks?

 

[bozinka]

OMG....did you just say until the first of DECEMBER??????? Might be easier if I could get the real thing on a regular basis. I don't think it would be fun for me to try, I'm sure I would turn into a three-headed bitch in no time.

Good luck boz!

Yes - I suppose it is a little easier if we can get the real thing... but I'm not really even getting that right now.

And yup, I said the first of December - it's only a few weeks. I do wonder what I will be like towards the end. Probably ripping the H's clothes off before he even gets in the door. LOL... Our sex life has been lacking some so maybe that would be a good thing.

 

[bozinka]

My comments:

1) Boz, your AV makes the challenge especially difficult--was that by design?

2) Never really saw the point of this challenge when it was on Seinfeld

3) Not masturbating does seem to make my next orgasm after abstension more intense--but is it really worth the sacrifice?

4) I plan to be disqualified in about 5 minutes. See you all on some other thread.

Roman

LOL....

1) No, it wasn't by design - I just like the teasing aspect of this AV... and am tired of looking at myself....

2) I don't think I ever saw the actual Seinfeld episode - but I believe it was an actual monetary bet, which could be fun, to see who could go the longest. That would add a whole different spin on it, wouldn't it.

3) I don't know - I haven't ever tried it - hence the experiment. And, I wonder, how much do I really NEED to masturbate, since I'm in such a habit of doing it, I don't really know that. And how much of it is just habit... ya know what I mean? LOL....

4) Well, I hope you have fun... LOL... lots of good threads here for doing that!

 

[bozinka]

Whatever your reasons...do you really want folks to try and get you to break your abstinences? Don't see much in the way of attempts so far...

HomerPindar

If you wish... LOL.

I actually am part of other threads that are, well, really difficult to be part of during this experiment. Already.....

 

[HomerPindar]

If you wish... LOL.

I actually am part of other threads that are, well, really difficult to be part of during this experiment. Already.....

Fair enough then...no need to tempt the already tempted

 

[jacktripper]

Excellent thread! I've been thinking a lot about masturbation lately and about a month and a half ago I decided not to do it as much as I was (daily) because it really wasn't satisfying. I need the intimacy, not just the physical release. Anyway if you want some company, starting december I'll be 3 weeks without my gf!

 

[Mysticcal]

Hi Mysti... LOL.

It's definately getting more difficult. It's such a habit for me... but I've made it so far..... LOL.

Ooh, having you tempt me would be just to fun - are you ready to make a few matchsticks?

hmmmm, I think I am, you broke me in so gently......have this incredible urge to dive right in and see what I come up with......LOL!

sweet wet hot kisses to you.....see ya on board <weg>

 

[RomanHans]

Excellent thread! I've been thinking a lot about masturbation lately and about a month and a half ago I decided not to do it as much as I was (daily) because it really wasn't satisfying. I need the intimacy, not just the physical release. Anyway if you want some company, starting december I'll be 3 weeks without my gf!

Best of luck to you...you have more fortitude (and restraint) than I.

Roman