I just got a new boyfriend (since the last one was a prick) and he's been kinda sick recently. Anyway, he says he hasn't been feeling sexy so I told him I would give him a nice massage friday night. Anyone have any technique or tips? I have some self heating flavoured massage oil. I did a search, but I didn't find anything helpful.
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like suggested before,bath him,payng attention in washing his hair,massaging his scalp.Then take him in your room,over the bed,with some instrumental music(low volume),and ,if you're into that,lit candles.Depending on his/yours preferences,make him lie on his back or on his stomach.Put a hand on him(NEVER Interrupt contac during massage),and wait a little,til both your breathings are synchronized.After that you can start it.
ON his back:begin with massaging his scalp in circular motion,using fingertips,then work on his face,especially the temples and the eyebrows and around his mouth and cheeks.Kiss him lightly.Make him feel your presence brushing your face lightly against him.Then ,take care of the neck from the base to his ears.Pass a hand on his whole body(using oil) and go to his calves :use the thumb there,,squeeze his toes between your fingers and then massage your way back torwards the legs.As a rule for both arms and legs,work your way from the fingers to the base.Massage his legs back and forth,avoiding the pubes:Go back to his fingers and palms,using the fingertips
ay attention to inside of wrist nd arms.For the torso,massage from the pubes to his pecs and make a turn on both sides for coming backay attention to his hips .Nipples are sensitive too:caress them the way you would like to be caressed.
ON his back:It's just the same,but you can play more along the spine,using your hair,the back of the nails like a paintbrush,on both sides of the spine.Massage his shoulders and neck(here use your thumbs).Use a circular motion on his back.Brush your face ove his back.Pay attention to the base of his spine.Massage his buttocks in a circular motion,tryn to spread them(ask before if he's confortable with this).Massage his perineum( the zone betwen the scrotum and the anus) with your thumbs:you can both release tension and arouse him.I can go on for a long time,but i'm afraid that i bore you.At this time both of you should be caught up in a sensual mood.You can also oil yourself and slide over his body over and over.
The essential tips are those;don't forget to mantain contact:after a while ,you will feel what he likes the most,without asking.You too will benefit from giving massage,believe me.For further information,please feel free to contact me.
I hope this helps you a bit
I wish you two a wonderful night
Nightswan
ON his back:begin with massaging his scalp in circular motion,using fingertips,then work on his face,especially the temples and the eyebrows and around his mouth and cheeks.Kiss him lightly.Make him feel your presence brushing your face lightly against him.Then ,take care of the neck from the base to his ears.Pass a hand on his whole body(using oil) and go to his calves :use the thumb there,,squeeze his toes between your fingers and then massage your way back torwards the legs.As a rule for both arms and legs,work your way from the fingers to the base.Massage his legs back and forth,avoiding the pubes:Go back to his fingers and palms,using the fingertips
ay attention to inside of wrist nd arms.For the torso,massage from the pubes to his pecs and make a turn on both sides for coming backay attention to his hips .Nipples are sensitive too:caress them the way you would like to be caressed.ON his back:It's just the same,but you can play more along the spine,using your hair,the back of the nails like a paintbrush,on both sides of the spine.Massage his shoulders and neck(here use your thumbs).Use a circular motion on his back.Brush your face ove his back.Pay attention to the base of his spine.Massage his buttocks in a circular motion,tryn to spread them(ask before if he's confortable with this).Massage his perineum( the zone betwen the scrotum and the anus) with your thumbs:you can both release tension and arouse him.I can go on for a long time,but i'm afraid that i bore you.At this time both of you should be caught up in a sensual mood.You can also oil yourself and slide over his body over and over.
The essential tips are those;don't forget to mantain contact:after a while ,you will feel what he likes the most,without asking.You too will benefit from giving massage,believe me.For further information,please feel free to contact me.
I hope this helps you a bit
I wish you two a wonderful night
Nightswan
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If I were you ...
I would use a regular body massage oil instead of a flavored one .... or maybe only use the flavored one on "special" places. It seems to me that those flavored ones are just really sticky and don't lend themselves to an actual massage, just really to licking them off. (Which may not be a bad thing). You would hate to have that sticky oil smeared all over him and then have him think, uggg.. what's this? I would go for the slippery kind any day (almond massage oil or something of that sort).
Anyway... just my comments for whatever they are worth...
Enjoy! =) BB
I would use a regular body massage oil instead of a flavored one .... or maybe only use the flavored one on "special" places. It seems to me that those flavored ones are just really sticky and don't lend themselves to an actual massage, just really to licking them off. (Which may not be a bad thing). You would hate to have that sticky oil smeared all over him and then have him think, uggg.. what's this? I would go for the slippery kind any day (almond massage oil or something of that sort).
Anyway... just my comments for whatever they are worth...
Enjoy! =) BB
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Yep!
Baby oil works great... a little goes a long way.
Oh yeah ... and don't try to use a condom when you are using oil... that's definitely a problem.
=) Hope you have a great evening!
Baby oil works great... a little goes a long way.
Oh yeah ... and don't try to use a condom when you are using oil... that's definitely a problem.
=) Hope you have a great evening!
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sesame seed oil works nicely - has a tiny bit of flavor and little smell and should be in your grocery store. Almond oil is wonderful if you can find it ahhh the smell.....
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=)
I too love almond oil.... wonderful smell.
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I too love almond oil.... wonderful smell.
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BABY OIL NO NOS
i've always been interested in massage therapist and all that stuff for awhile. A lot of people think that baby oil is very good...but from some of my reading and talking to other professionals...it's not really a good massage oil. It really clog pores. When you give a massage with a massage oil, u'll notice that your body sorts of get very oily and it goes right in. But when you use baby oil, it just gets all slippery and basically goes back to what I just said it would - clog pores. And also while you're giving the massage make sure you're not pressuring the points too hard because i'm assuming you don't know the pressure points. A lot of time when people are pressuring these points, they just injure the muscles, and a lot of times you don't know about it until very late.
Anyways, sensual massages are very nice and fun..and arousing. But do be careful. Enjoy!
~His Flower~
i've always been interested in massage therapist and all that stuff for awhile. A lot of people think that baby oil is very good...but from some of my reading and talking to other professionals...it's not really a good massage oil. It really clog pores. When you give a massage with a massage oil, u'll notice that your body sorts of get very oily and it goes right in. But when you use baby oil, it just gets all slippery and basically goes back to what I just said it would - clog pores. And also while you're giving the massage make sure you're not pressuring the points too hard because i'm assuming you don't know the pressure points. A lot of time when people are pressuring these points, they just injure the muscles, and a lot of times you don't know about it until very late.
Anyways, sensual massages are very nice and fun..and arousing. But do be careful. Enjoy!
~His Flower~
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The BEST massage stuff you can get a Lotions and Potions...they have a veggie based massage lotion...you can get it mineral based too. They scent it for you however you want. A little goes a long way and it keeps on the skin for a long time without absorbing!
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Just thought of this....
my guy loves it when i grease my breasts up and run them along the curve in his back. Even better if you shave...oil your pussy up and go for it....sound weird...VERY hot
Make sure you rub his booty....butt rubbins are the best. Keep in mind too what you like to have done to you and let him know to tell you what he wants!
my guy loves it when i grease my breasts up and run them along the curve in his back. Even better if you shave...oil your pussy up and go for it....sound weird...VERY hot
Make sure you rub his booty....butt rubbins are the best. Keep in mind too what you like to have done to you and let him know to tell you what he wants!
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Arouse or relax?
Depends on the intent of your massage.
Massages for arousal are slightly different then massage for relaxation.
If you can avoid baby oil do. It's slick but that's it's only value, also if you are giving a massage for arousal the smell of a baby bottom may not get the results you want...lol! Seriously though, sesame oil is fairly cheap and much better to use. I think I paid less then $3 for a 8oz bottle at my local grocery store. You can also find some at Bath and Body Works and The Body Shop if you have one that are geared toward relaxation, energizing, sleep induction. They tend to run around $15 though. The sesame oil has a wonderful light fragrance which also helps to relax the body and spirit while the massage is being given.
My advice either way is not to jump right in with deep tissue massage. Spend time stroking the skin, keeping contact with your partner at all times. Heat the skin and feel for the knots in the muscles. Even inexperienced hands will be able to feel tight spots in the muscles Once your partner is used to your touch begin with light massage and wait until his breathing has become slow and deep before moving on to deep massage. Often people try to work out the muscle knots with kneading straight off and this only ends up causing more pain then release.
Hope you both end up enjoying it. Remember that if he's sick he may be a bit more physically sensetive then usual, so take it slow and enjoy the fun of having the time to explore his body thoroughly.
Depends on the intent of your massage.
Massages for arousal are slightly different then massage for relaxation.
If you can avoid baby oil do. It's slick but that's it's only value, also if you are giving a massage for arousal the smell of a baby bottom may not get the results you want...lol! Seriously though, sesame oil is fairly cheap and much better to use. I think I paid less then $3 for a 8oz bottle at my local grocery store. You can also find some at Bath and Body Works and The Body Shop if you have one that are geared toward relaxation, energizing, sleep induction. They tend to run around $15 though. The sesame oil has a wonderful light fragrance which also helps to relax the body and spirit while the massage is being given.
My advice either way is not to jump right in with deep tissue massage. Spend time stroking the skin, keeping contact with your partner at all times. Heat the skin and feel for the knots in the muscles. Even inexperienced hands will be able to feel tight spots in the muscles Once your partner is used to your touch begin with light massage and wait until his breathing has become slow and deep before moving on to deep massage. Often people try to work out the muscle knots with kneading straight off and this only ends up causing more pain then release.
Hope you both end up enjoying it. Remember that if he's sick he may be a bit more physically sensetive then usual, so take it slow and enjoy the fun of having the time to explore his body thoroughly.
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behehe... well while massaging him.. get him to lay on his tummy and straddle his ass (or lower back since your hands will be working on his actual shoulders/back area)... wear little or nothing so that your warmth and moisture can be felt on his skin that gets him revved and relaxed at the same time...
also that little frenulum (sp?) thing... the thing between the balls and the butt... it actualyl works... my boyfriend was uncomfortbale with the thought of me touching him there but i got him to let me. He loved it. Slight pressure there.. not hard... and a nice soothing up and down motion does very well to relax him.. but when you stop he'll most likely be very horny.
also that little frenulum (sp?) thing... the thing between the balls and the butt... it actualyl works... my boyfriend was uncomfortbale with the thought of me touching him there but i got him to let me. He loved it. Slight pressure there.. not hard... and a nice soothing up and down motion does very well to relax him.. but when you stop he'll most likely be very horny.
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Creativity Is A Must!
Yeah, what ammre said (about straddling his ass).
I'm HUGE on back massages and full-body tickles. We only use oils for sexual foreplay and other action but thick lotions for complete rubdowns.
First of all, don't forget the music! Soft jazz is a must. Or at least something instrumental with no distractive singing unless, of course, Sade or Enya. Try Air. Then straddle just below his ass with your legs clutching the sides of his upper thighs. Rub the lotion in your hands making it warm before applying because shooting it straight from the bottle onto his back might freak him out especially if it's cold.
Work it in, baby, work it in. Shoulders, neck, the length of his back, along the biceps in his arms, down to his lower back, then onto his buttocks, back up to his shoulders and all around ALWAYS avoiding his spine area. Get up and kneel on the side of the bed (or floor) and work the back of his legs for a while. Then straddle just beneath his ass again and repeat everything but get even more creative and sensual. Softly squeeze both sides of his neck, kiss the side of his face and ask if it feels good and hear him moan. Keep working out the kinks a bit longer (even ask him where it hurts the most) and then bring the pace down to sensual rubbings. Suddenly slap his ass and then work it once again. Whish your long hair (if you have long hair) along the upper part of his torso while you keep clutching/kneading his butt cheeks.
When he tries to roll over and attack you clutch him tighter with your legs and tell you aren't finished yet. Slap his ass hard just for good measure.
Do the hair thing again while grinding your pussy just against the bottom of his butt cheeks. Suddenly stop and lick the back of his neck from side to side and then down his spine. Grab his shoulders and tease him with a slow lick down the crack of his ass. Clutch his legs again and then work your fingernails ever so softly along his entire back - including his butt and legs. Like I said, get as creative and sensuous as possible. Don't just work one area, go from up to bottom so quickly and softly that it makes him jerk a bit from the new sensation.
Get back off (spank his ass again if he tries to get up/even the most macho types love this) and then run your hair all along the entire length of his body from neck to ankles slowly o so slowly; back and forth. Then run your mane across him in a horizontal fashion. Keep in mind that the skin becomes desensitized if you work it too long so go from one area to the next after about 20 seconds. Use your hair then your fingernails then your tongue, then even a long feather, plus the palms of your hands and even your feet if you feel so inclined.
Suddenly say something like, "Oh baby you've gotten me so hot" and let him roll over onto his back. Once his huge erection is free, then you can either make him wait even longer while you do his entire front side OR let him fuck you like a beast unleashed from hell.
Have fun
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Yeah, what ammre said (about straddling his ass).
I'm HUGE on back massages and full-body tickles. We only use oils for sexual foreplay and other action but thick lotions for complete rubdowns.
First of all, don't forget the music! Soft jazz is a must. Or at least something instrumental with no distractive singing unless, of course, Sade or Enya. Try Air. Then straddle just below his ass with your legs clutching the sides of his upper thighs. Rub the lotion in your hands making it warm before applying because shooting it straight from the bottle onto his back might freak him out especially if it's cold.
Work it in, baby, work it in. Shoulders, neck, the length of his back, along the biceps in his arms, down to his lower back, then onto his buttocks, back up to his shoulders and all around ALWAYS avoiding his spine area. Get up and kneel on the side of the bed (or floor) and work the back of his legs for a while. Then straddle just beneath his ass again and repeat everything but get even more creative and sensual. Softly squeeze both sides of his neck, kiss the side of his face and ask if it feels good and hear him moan. Keep working out the kinks a bit longer (even ask him where it hurts the most) and then bring the pace down to sensual rubbings. Suddenly slap his ass and then work it once again. Whish your long hair (if you have long hair) along the upper part of his torso while you keep clutching/kneading his butt cheeks.
When he tries to roll over and attack you clutch him tighter with your legs and tell you aren't finished yet. Slap his ass hard just for good measure.
Do the hair thing again while grinding your pussy just against the bottom of his butt cheeks. Suddenly stop and lick the back of his neck from side to side and then down his spine. Grab his shoulders and tease him with a slow lick down the crack of his ass. Clutch his legs again and then work your fingernails ever so softly along his entire back - including his butt and legs. Like I said, get as creative and sensuous as possible. Don't just work one area, go from up to bottom so quickly and softly that it makes him jerk a bit from the new sensation.
Get back off (spank his ass again if he tries to get up/even the most macho types love this) and then run your hair all along the entire length of his body from neck to ankles slowly o so slowly; back and forth. Then run your mane across him in a horizontal fashion. Keep in mind that the skin becomes desensitized if you work it too long so go from one area to the next after about 20 seconds. Use your hair then your fingernails then your tongue, then even a long feather, plus the palms of your hands and even your feet if you feel so inclined.
Suddenly say something like, "Oh baby you've gotten me so hot" and let him roll over onto his back. Once his huge erection is free, then you can either make him wait even longer while you do his entire front side OR let him fuck you like a beast unleashed from hell.
Have fun
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lovechild27 said:Just thought of this....
my guy loves it when i grease my breasts up and run them along the curve in his back. Even better if you shave...oil your pussy up and go for it....sound weird...VERY hot
Make sure you rub his booty....butt rubbins are the best. Keep in mind too what you like to have done to you and let him know to tell you what he wants!
The above statement is an entire truth. I love having nipples rub along my oiled back and the feel of a hot pussy spred along my thighs. If I was sick that would certainly make me feel better!
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Lustfully yours...your a good good man...lol
