Masculinity?

[Thick_Dick_Bi8]

This thread would lean most towards that of the female readers, but, all are welcome to add to this thread. I would very much like to get a take on how you view a bi man's masculinity. Do you think for any reason that if a man is bi that he is in any way less masculine than that of a "hetro" man? Is there any more to a bi man's masculinity than that of a "hetro" man? Also, for those women that truly do enjoy and desire a bi man, feel free to leave a private message. Thanks!

 

[sterculius]

Being an enthusiastic and confirmed cocksucker, I guess I qualify for the bisexual category, but even when I'm on my knees being throat fucked by a thick cock, I still consider myself to be completely macho. My lifelong fascination with big dicks, and my penchant for swallowing semen have no bearing at all on my masculine identity. I relate to women both sexually and emotionally, but while I have many male friends, the only sexual act I enjoy with another guy is that of cocksucker.

 

[Thick_Dick_Bi8]

Thank you for your response sterculius. I appreciate your thoughts and I agree with you. And maybe what is most important here is how we ourselves feel about our masculinity, but, as I stated in my original thread, I just wanted to get other peoples' point of view on this subject. Again, thank your for your reply.

 

[VERICO]

Hi--
I agree with most of your comments--very above the usual. I think one simple point must be emphasized: Masculinity has nothing to do with Sexuality. The first is how you act, lack of attitude, etc. The second, sexuality, is specific to sex, and not any man as a whole--just a "sidebar."

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am not sure how you are defining "masculinity." Sylvester Stallone?

A man's bisexuality has very little to do with masculinity of any definition. Personally, I prefer "less masculine" men, who have some facility with words, some emotional self knowlege. Some of those men are bisexual, because being open to experience is another thing that I prefer. Many "less masculine" men however, are straight.

 

[Tigera]

I agree with Verico - sexuality and masculinity don't necessarily go together, and I think that the idea that it does contributes to a lot of the prejudice against gay/bi guys.

I know a lot of really camp guys who are straight, and a lot of macho guys who are gay or bi.

 

[VERICO]

Hello,
Well, I agree with Tigera. Gee--we're agreeing a lot. Seriously, on this I am glad we are all contributing because, as Tigera says, there is a lot of prejudice connected with this. And, the damage is beyond severe.

The "teen suicide" is a tragic, of course, thing. Even sadder, as it usually could have been prevented. I have a nephew with Aids Project Los Angeles, and he and I have discussed the damage done by groups--determined to change the sexual orientation of kids.
Even if it could be done, when the idiots got through, there would be little left of the precious human they destroyed--since one's sexuality is "interwoven" with all of their personality.

This valuable discussion you are having is great--since, surely, many of these teen suicides have been because the poor kid felt, using guys for example, that he was not a full man. Crazy and sad. Many gay men are more fully men, because they have diversified viewpoints of value.

You gals who have the added dimension of "openly" loving your fellow gals are, from my many experiences as friends, very warm and that is great.

It's just got to be stupidity to even pay attention to whom someone chooses to take to their bedroom, and use that to judge them. Redneck morans--the only ones who could do such things.

Love you all,

Verico