masculinity

[wooger]

I know this sounds weird but I clearly have issues haha

I really love the idea of being all girly and submissive for a guy but I also hate that some people tell me I am 'camp'... ive only had about 3 people say that to me but it really bugs me!

so I guess my question is... how do I act more 'masculine' what is it about someone that makes them seem masculine and not camp?

 

[speakerfrank]

how do I act more 'masculine'

Just my two cents, if you are 'camp' then so what? Don't 'act' anything, behave as your are. Just be yourself and accept that some people will not like that. Too bad for them.

The world has tried in the past to have all men 'act' masculine. The results were not good.

Masculinity is not an objective state. it varies from person to person, situation and day.

 

[klippert]

ok....What's a 'camp'.... more gay lexicon i'm out of date

 

[bobbyinhouston]

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When I am on my knees taking care of a man I like to moan even if his cock is not doing anything for me. I feel it just gives him an idea that I'm enjoying him.

When I was younger and playing with an older man I would get into the son routine and talk like my Daddy was using me for the first time. Werd?

 

[jackstud]

Just my two cents, if you are 'camp' then so what? Don't 'act' anything, behave as your are. Just be yourself and accept that some people will not like that. Too bad for them.

The world has tried in the past to have all men 'act' masculine. The results were not good.

Masculinity is not an objective state. it varies from person to person, situation and day.

Good call. Camp is not bad. Kinda sexy

 

[sr71plt]

"Camp" is being over the top fake. I suppose the people who tell you you are being camp probably want you to act less giggly feminine.

 

[wooger]

but i dont even act feminine.... ive been told things like 'you are straight camp" when I denied I was interested in men.... this was by someone who knew me all of 2 minutes

 

[Stephan1515]

Just be you. Many of us have tried to change are basic personality to meet other expectations and then you become the phony. Be natural and your true friends will accept you and who cares about the others.

 

[Seamen]

this was by someone who knew me all of 2 minutes

If you start acting differently just to convince people to think differently about you, you are going to end up a long way from who you actually are. Is it really what you want? Does it really matter what anyone thinks of you? So basically you are giving some random person the power to judge you and make you feel insecure about yourself. Really? Do you think the person you are talking about would be so much concerned about what you thought about him/her? You are fretting about nothing, and only making yourself miserable in the process.