Married women wanting anonymous encounters with women

[Sabrinalesbos]

Am I alone? I'm married and never been with another woman but I catch myself having HOT / Naughty Fantasies about anonymous encounters:
1) In a hot tub on vacation I was dying to be fingered by the beautiful woman who shared it with me poolside under the water

2) I've been wishing in the shower or steamroom at my club that some random hot woman will decide to fondle me or pull me into a private shower stall and make out with me

3)On vacation I started eyeing a beautiful woman at the end of a wine bar...I saw her latter strolling near our condo. I wanted to invite her in while my husband was golfing and eat her out

I'm 40 and workout lots but not prepared for my recent "teen-like" surge in libido that leaves me REALLY wanting to explore a woman. I suspect the anonymity provides me a safe zone to explore without fear of rejection.

Another twist is what really turns me on this the thought of doing these things with another woman who is not really looking for another woman but we just seduce / explore one another in a pure sexual fashion... I've even fantasized about seducing my childs kindergarten teacher after a parent teacher conference and eating her out in the coat closet!!

Thoughts? Help? Others?

 

[Jess727]

You are definitely not alone! I'm 27 and if I got the oportunity I think I would go for it.. Kinda helps having an understanding hubby. Or coming around to the idea at least!

 

[apple_pi]

Am I alone? I'm married and never been with another woman but I catch myself having HOT / Naughty Fantasies about anonymous encounters:
1) In a hot tub on vacation I was dying to be fingered by the beautiful woman who shared it with me poolside under the water

2) I've been wishing in the shower or steamroom at my club that some random hot woman will decide to fondle me or pull me into a private shower stall and make out with me

3)On vacation I started eyeing a beautiful woman at the end of a wine bar...I saw her latter strolling near our condo. I wanted to invite her in while my husband was golfing and eat her out

I'm 40 and workout lots but not prepared for my recent "teen-like" surge in libido that leaves me REALLY wanting to explore a woman. I suspect the anonymity provides me a safe zone to explore without fear of rejection.

Another twist is what really turns me on this the thought of doing these things with another woman who is not really looking for another woman but we just seduce / explore one another in a pure sexual fashion... I've even fantasized about seducing my childs kindergarten teacher after a parent teacher conference and eating her out in the coat closet!!

Thoughts? Help? Others?

I wish you would have been at our PTA meetings.

 

[darwina7]

I agree

I'm 44, and have been having fantasies about being with another woman for about six years now. I've fooled around one time while drunk with a really good friend, but didn't "go all of the way." I wish we had -- it was very sexy.

 

[sows_ear]

Am I alone? I'm married and never been with another woman but I catch myself having HOT / Naughty Fantasies about anonymous encounters:
1) In a hot tub on vacation I was dying to be fingered by the beautiful woman who shared it with me poolside under the water

2) I've been wishing in the shower or steamroom at my club that some random hot woman will decide to fondle me or pull me into a private shower stall and make out with me

3)On vacation I started eyeing a beautiful woman at the end of a wine bar...I saw her latter strolling near our condo. I wanted to invite her in while my husband was golfing and eat her out

I'm 40 and workout lots but not prepared for my recent "teen-like" surge in libido that leaves me REALLY wanting to explore a woman. I suspect the anonymity provides me a safe zone to explore without fear of rejection.

Another twist is what really turns me on this the thought of doing these things with another woman who is not really looking for another woman but we just seduce / explore one another in a pure sexual fashion... I've even fantasized about seducing my childs kindergarten teacher after a parent teacher conference and eating her out in the coat closet!!

Thoughts? Help? Others?

I understand what you are feeling, although I'm a lesbian I have been with guys. And i have to say women re so much sexier, women know how to make love, and a woman knows what a woman needs. Only a woman can make a woman feel like a woman.

 

[Jess727]

I understand what you are feeling, although I'm a lesbian I have been with guys. And i have to say women re so much sexier, women know how to make love, and a woman knows what a woman needs. Only a woman can make a woman feel like a woman.

Want to help me find out what a woman needs Trish?

 

[Sabrinalesbos]

I wish you would have been at our PTA meetings.

Want to help me find out what a woman needs Trish?

Yes as far as the PTA goes...I'm afraid the teacher may have had to slip both our skirts us and spank us for being "naughty girls"...MMMmmm

Part of my dilemma is I KNOW what I need but it is the complications after I get it!

I want to bathe, kiss, suck, make out and rub all over some Selma Hayek looking woman who can seduce me with her wit and is intelligent enough to know how to please me...I want to have torrid sex and explore every nook of each others body in a sensual unhurried manner. I want to be able to tell her "yes lick there" and her love it! But then she has to be able to run into me at the soccer field and make small talk like I'm just a good friend without missing a beat. Yes I know...I WANT IT ALL!

Maybe I'm just stuck rubbing off and dreaming of her...

 

[RedheadedHaze]

Yes as far as the PTA goes...I'm afraid the teacher may have had to slip both our skirts us and spank us for being "naughty girls"...MMMmmm

Part of my dilemma is I KNOW what I need but it is the complications after I get it!

I want to bathe, kiss, suck, make out and rub all over some Selma Hayek looking woman who can seduce me with her wit and is intelligent enough to know how to please me...I want to have torrid sex and explore every nook of each others body in a sensual unhurried manner. I want to be able to tell her "yes lick there" and her love it! But then she has to be able to run into me at the soccer field and make small talk like I'm just a good friend without missing a beat. Yes I know...I WANT IT ALL!

Maybe I'm just stuck rubbing off and dreaming of her...

...thinks it might be time to pursue her degree in education.

 

[amyforfun]

I have had one night stands with women, I much prefer something more long term though. I think I make more of an emotional connection with my female lovers than men. That is why I like it longer term.

 

[TallOne]

Despite me giving my wife an OK to pick up a girlfriend, she's not really interested in that either. She prefers one night(or a few night) stands.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Am I alone? I'm married and never been with another woman but I catch myself having HOT / Naughty Fantasies about anonymous encounters:


Thoughts? Help? Others?

First it is completely alright to be having these feelings. Woman are beautiful, intelligent, soft, understanding, sensitive, sexual and a bonus is; They have breast of many shapes, sizes, and colors to explore. All of that and much much more.

This is a very tricky game you are playing. Where there are woman involved, feelings are most definitely going to get in the middle of things. Not only that, you are about to start lying and cheating on your husband. I would think the best thing to do is talk to him about your feelings. One of 2 things is going to happen; he will accept it or not accept it. He might even surprise you and tell you to go for it, in some cases it brings couples closer together. At least then you will not be lying to him about your feelings or intentions.

I have been on the receiving end of being the woman on the side. Remember you do not only have your feelings to consider, but the woman you will be exploring. I know when I started to get involved with a married woman, I told my self it was just sex. Well that quickly changed as we got closer and became more than just lovers, but friends also. I wanted to have more with her than what we had, but she was married.

She also wanted more, but was being pulled between her family and her feelings for me. Remember, this all started out as a one night stand, then it turned into a fucking soap opera, because no matter how hard you try; we are woman and our feelings are invested in almost everything we do. Not only that, her husband found out about me, and tried to beat the shit out of me. In the end, I was the one that walked away. I could not take her from her kids, and the family she loved before me. This broke her heart and mine.

I just wanted you to have the perspective of someone who was the side show. You just don't have you to think about, but her also. Even with a one night stand, your feelings are going to get in the way of things. Especially with your first, I feel madly in love with the first woman I was ever with; she could do things to me a man could never dream about sexually and emotionally.

No matter what you decide, you really should be open with your husband. That way things do not blow up on you when he finds out. Fasten your seat belt because you are in for some rough weather ahead if you keep it from him. In one way or another; they always find out. Plus your guilt will eat away at you. I wish you the best on your journey into the unknown.

 

[clio711]

I'm a 44-year old lesbian and have had several encounters with married women, one a one-night stand with someone I barely knew, one a brief affair where the husband didn't know, one where the husband told his wife he was ok with her pursuing her feelings with me, and one which started as a brief affair and then became a 5-year relationship after she got divorced a year after our fling. And in all cases, it was the married woman who pursued me. The last three were each friends of mine beforehand, and an affair never crossed my mind until they brought it up.

Anyway, it was the affair with the woman whose husband knew about me that ended the worst. Even though he knew about me, he didn't want to "know" anything about it. I think it was easier for him to pretend she and I were just friends. And it was fun for a while, but eventually I wanted to start dating other people, maybe find an actual relationship, not just a part-time one. But she wanted it all, a husband and a wife, and couldn't understand why I wasn't satisfied with the arrangement. She had a very hard time when I ended it, and unfortunately, our friendship suffered for it too.

So I guess the point is, just be careful. Wanting it all and having it all are sometimes very different things . . .

 

[luscious pearl]

But it is interesting at how just wanting a one night stand is so incredibly arousing. It is for me but I am not married so I guess my feelings would be different. `

 

[clio711]

But it is interesting at how just wanting a one night stand is so incredibly arousing. It is for me but I am not married so I guess my feelings would be different. `

I'm single as well, and I love the thought of a one-night stand

 

[luscious pearl]

Honey, if I was out west I would so be all over you in a heart beat

 

[sabine_doucette]

I would love to have sex with a woman. However, I am married, and while my husband knows of my curiosity, I'm not sure I could actually cheat on him even with his consent. I like to think I could be more like my old, single self and be very casual about this type of encounter, but I don't think it would be realistic of me to pull it off so easily. I'm sure the right situation could happen. I sometimes think that if I were to find a lady friend who would be willing to join my husband and me in bed that I could somehow have it both ways. Bottom line...as hot as my fantasies of licking, sucking, caressing another woman are, it may just be better to leave them as fantasies. The last thing I want to do is hurt anyone, including myself.

unfortunately.

 

[clio711]

Honey, if I was out west I would so be all over you in a heart beat

mmmmmmm, well there are airplanes . . .

 

[biIndianGirl]

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[RedheadedHaze]

mmmmmmm, well there are airplanes . . .

Remind me to look you up when I move to CA in a year.

 

[SluttyWife2PlsU]

if only....

I would love to meet a woman while out shopping...slip into a dressing room and just please each other...not caring who hears the moans....I've been having this fantasy more and more and it gets more vivid every time

 

[My_Secret_Life]

A Vote of Confidence

Greetings, ladies. I am a 32 year old lesbian. My first experimental touching with another female was when I was nine, and it was with my eight year old best friend. We felt each others' outer labia and tits, and went on about our way playing, completely neutral to the event.

When I was eleven., I had my first lip-on-lip kiss from my “then” best friend. We had hung back in the locker room after P.E., and she asked if I had ever kissed a boy like all the other girls were talking about. I told her I wasn't really “in to” any of them. Without discussing it, she leaned into me, and our lips connected for several minutes. That was the first and last time we ever kissed. We remained friends until she got married and moved away.

When I was fourteen, my first crush ever, told me she was going to be moving away at the end of the school year. We had been inseparable for two years. I was devastated that she was going to be leaving, and I might never see her again. She came to my house to console me. We sat on my bed, she, with her arms around me. I cried into her chest, cursing her and berating her for leaving me. Somehow, she saw my anger to be a plea for one last symbol of our friendship.
She stood up from the bed. Turned toward me, and placed each of her hands on either of my shoulders, and gently pushed me onto the bed. She agilely slithered on top of me, dragging her thin athletic body, up the length of my already voluptuous form. She laid her full body, in parallel sync with mine. Her face was half an inch from mine. Our eyes were so close I could feel the energy radiating from our locked gaze. After what seemed like hours, she slowly lowered her head, so that her lips fell cautiously onto mine. After what was surely minutes, her tongue slowly traced the seam of my lips from corner to corner. When she retracted her tongue, my mouth fell ever-so-slightly open, clearly asking for more. Her mouth, never having left mine, opened again allowing her tongue to dart fully into my mouth.
I savored the taste of her flesh in my mouth. The feel of her wetness spreading my lips apart. My thoughts began to fade under the weight of her body on me. Our tongues fought against each other like serpents striving for the last field mouse on a baked desert plateau. We kissed and held each other for hours, until she had to go home for the night.

We were together every day for the rest of the school year. When she moved away that summer, I knew I was a lesbian, and I knew I would never see my first crush again.

I have had two partners since I was 17 years old. I am still with my second.

I hope that, those of you who are afraid to explore your desires, gain even a shred of incentive from this post. Don't deny yourself the possibility of a significant experience. You only live once.

I wish each of you the best of luck and love. Never forsake your heart.
Sincerely,
Alex

 

[clio711]

Remind me to look you up when I move to CA in a year.

Definitely!

 

[kaboom3d]

I would love to meet a woman while out shopping...slip into a dressing room and just please each other...not caring who hears the moans....I've been having this fantasy more and more and it gets more vivid every time

Where do you shop? Would love to meet you with you

 

[SluttyWife2PlsU]

Where do you shop? Would love to meet you with you

if only we could meet up Kaboom3d the fun we would have

 

[Sabrinalesbos]

Yes if we could run into the right person at the right time...!