Married People: is your spouse still sexy to you?

JennyCapricorn

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Had a moment today where looking across a college quad my limbic system went “That’s a hot dad!” Before my brain went “that’s my husband!”

How many of us still find our partners sexy (and how many years married?)

For me obviously yes and 25.5 years
 
Things change within a two week period.. I was the last to know she was screwing around with my married best friend with his wife's knowledge and approval. When I asked her about it . the response was "it was none of your business" The next week we were talking in bed about situation. and she told me.." i love you so much honey but i don't enjoy sex WITH YOU"

I STILL FIND HER SEXY AS HELL BUT GOD HOW THINGS CHANGE.
 
I was in the position as @lacandy 👆 a few years ago. I get it. Attraction goes far deeper than physical (imo) so regardless if he's still physically attractive, the behaviours in the relationship makes or breaks it.
Fortunately for me (us), we managed to work out way back from the brink of separation (I would have pushed for divorce immediately), and now he's back to being attractive to me. This said, it can and does fluctuate still because life isn't always sex and roses.
Edited to add: we've been married for nearly 26 years (anniversary next month). Together for 28.
 
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Soon to be 47 years here. Still turns me on. Not one woman her age looks like she does, OCD working out vain as hell nails hair face. She did some modeling and I had some of her pics up in my office. Came home one day and they were my dogs pics instead. She told me she hated to see what she used to look like. Can't run away from age it'll catch up soon enough

Not one gray hair runs 5:30 every morning year round
 
I was in the position as @lacandy 👆 a few years ago. I get it. Attraction goes far deeper than physical (imo) so regardless if he's still physically attractive, the behaviours in the relationship makes or breaks it.
Fortunately for me (us), we managed to work out way back from the brink of separation (I would have pushed for divorce immediately), and now he's back to being attractive to me. This said, it can and does fluctuate still because life isn't always sex and roses.
Edited to add: we've been married for nearly 26 years (anniversary next month). Together for 28.
The personality is so much of it. I’m happy you were able to get back to an even keel with him.
 
I’m 66 and wife is 69. We have been married 41 years. We have both changed both physically over the years but she still turns me on. I am horny all the time and would love to still be having sex 4-5 times a week but in reality it is only a couple of times a month now.
 
We've been together for 14 years, married for 13. He has his faults, and I have mine, but we make a great couple. We have kids, and we both work so we don't fuck as often as we'd like to, but whenever we get the opportunity we're as eager as ever.
 
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