married men w/bi wives

[hornyhotty]

Really interested in how the married men out there feel about their wives having sex with other women. I know men usually like it, but what do they like about it, and how did they find out their wife was bi to begin with? I am bi-curious and would like for my husband to be involved if I ever do get to have a real encounter. I'm just not sure how to approach him and have no idea what he would think!!! Can you help me out???? Would love to hear your stories too!!

 

[Noptcha]

i was in a three way relationship for over a year with two women, both bi. I was first approached with the idea with my then girlfriend, she showed me a story that she found online (i think it was even here on lit lol.) and had me read it. She asked what i thought and we went from there.

 

[hornyhotty]

Thats awesome! How'd you feel about it when she approached you? Any jealousy issues?

 

[Noptcha]

funny enough, i wasnt the one that got jealous, she did. She was upset at the fact that i treated both of them equally in terms of the relationship, i guess she wanted some sort of tenure bonus, heh. but to answer your question, no, i didnt get jealous, in fact i encouraged them to have fun together as much as the three of us, or any combination of two.

 

[hornyhotty]

Did you ever just sit back and watch the 2 of them? How erotic, I would love to be in that situation!!!
P.s. Doesn't surprise me that the girl was the one who got jealous!!! lol

 

[Noptcha]

many many times, though the best were when they didnt know i was there, and i just watched from a slightly open door. that didnt happen very often though, i think twice in a whole year, but it was a great show

 

[hornyhotty]

I'm sure you weren't just watching in the sidelines!!!!!! At least I hope you weren't!

 

[Noptcha]

sometimes its better to come in when they *think* they are done, and go again :-D but no, there were very few times i just watched, though i did occassionally.

 

[phdbio]

i wish i were in your shoes

Wow you are truely blessed my friend. i would give anything to watch my gf and her bi friends

 

[reddcutie]

women all need to feel beloved and special

problems can arise when emotional boundaries are crossed..like-wise, just using someone for physical gratificationn is a pretty shitty thing to do...people arent snap-on tools...

 

[Noptcha]

i was lucky in one sense, but when jealousy and apparently mild psychosis take over.... that leads to something Completely different.

 

[hornyhotty]

I don't think consentual sex is using anyone. As long as everyone understands that it is for pleasure without commitments.

 

[hornyhotty]

mild psychosis....LOL

 

[reddcutie]

that would be true

if everyone in the world were emotionally well adjusted and self aware....often though, people will seek sexual closeness subconciously to fill another void in their life...even if they themselves think its just for pleasure, alot of times some one can get hurt.. just my two cents, and bi the way, i myself would love the idea of sex without boundary issues, but it hasnt been my reality..

 

[hornyhotty]

I agree with that. I wasn't trying to be insensitive, btw. I was just vocalizing a fantasy.

 

[phdbio]

agreed sex without boundries would be best but when have any of us had this for an extended amount of time

 

[reddcutie]

wellllllllllll..........

and here i was trying to be all intellectual and noble.....i fantasize about having a husband and a juicy, tender, big-eyed girlfriend aaalllllllllll the time.....lol..im such a dork.......

 

[Noptcha]

in my experience (which hasnt been great, nor has it been entirely limited), sex without boundries is a luxury very very people have, or can have for that matter. many people, as was said, strive for emotional closeness through sex.




and yes, mild psychosis lol

 

[Noptcha]

Re: wellllllllllll..........

and here i was trying to be all intellectual and noble.....i fantasize about having a husband and a juicy, tender, big-eyed girlfriend aaalllllllllll the time.....lol..im such a dork.......

~volunteers~


lol good luck, im sure there are such people out there.

 

[phdbio]

yeah red if you are looking for volunteers...

 

[hornyhotty]

You aren't a dork red!!!!! lol I've got the husband, but am still looking for the girl! Maybe we could share!!!!!!!

 

[Noptcha]

4 ways can be fun, though ive never done mmff before...~shrugs~ maybe you two could be eachothers girl on the side lol

 

[hornyhotty]

I think a 4way sounds fun too!!!! Just need some willing volunteers!

 

[phdbio]

oo oo pick me pick me

 

[reddcutie]

well..........whats a girl to do..

so many cyber choices......mmmm