bigleonardo
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Has anyone been with a Married Man or Married Woman......?
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Tungwagger
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Ok...for a totally flippant response.....
Yes....about 2 hours ago........with my wife!!
No offense intended bigleonardo
Yes....about 2 hours ago........with my wife!!
No offense intended bigleonardo
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Yes. After separating from my first husband and going through the divorce (so I was still legally married to him) I began dating again. There were several times the men I dated turned out to be married. By then, I was rather enjoying the relationship and did not stop it. I know I should have but I didn't.
bigleonardo
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Married affairs
Sometimes it is so hard to stop.....is it the lover, the danger, the consequences of getting caught....who knows but it has been fun for me
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Sometimes it is so hard to stop.....is it the lover, the danger, the consequences of getting caught....who knows but it has been fun for me
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Re: Married affairs
Many reasons for me. The thrill of a new lover, the possessiveness each feels for the other, the bitchy woman in me knowing I'm in the arms of a married man unbeknownst to his wife.
Several times, I fucked a man in his home while his wife was at work, while their young son was in the next room. He and I often took the boy (maybe 1 1/2 or 2?) with us on our liaisons, going to wineries, fucking in the vineyards while he slept in the car, groping each other driving down the back roads while the baby was in his car seat in the back. I even sucked him off in the front seat while the baby was sleeping in the back seat. Yes, maybe it was the danger, maybe the wickedness of it...
bigleonardo said:
Many reasons for me. The thrill of a new lover, the possessiveness each feels for the other, the bitchy woman in me knowing I'm in the arms of a married man unbeknownst to his wife.
Several times, I fucked a man in his home while his wife was at work, while their young son was in the next room. He and I often took the boy (maybe 1 1/2 or 2?) with us on our liaisons, going to wineries, fucking in the vineyards while he slept in the car, groping each other driving down the back roads while the baby was in his car seat in the back. I even sucked him off in the front seat while the baby was sleeping in the back seat. Yes, maybe it was the danger, maybe the wickedness of it...
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A married woman tends to be more honest than singles I have had the pleasure to pleasure. A married woman jets my vote everytime. When you have an affair with one its so much easier to break it off, still be friends, and not get hurt
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Frankly, having an affair with a married man is the best, especially if all you want is the lust and heat, not the committment. I'd love to try it with a married woman, for the same reasons.
The first time I knowingly had an affair with a married man, we had been seeing each other (nonsexually) for a week or so and were getting hotter and hotter to be with each other, so I invited him to my house.
I dressed in a tight shirt dress that buttoned entirely up the front. Underneath I wore only a garter belt and stockings. I had it unbuttoned to just the stop of the stockings, an unbuttoned from the top just enough to show my cleavage. I put on tall heels and greeted him at the door that way.
As soon as we embraced and he began touching me, he realized how I was NOT dressed under the clothes and went wild. Just as I'd planned, I must add.
The first time I knowingly had an affair with a married man, we had been seeing each other (nonsexually) for a week or so and were getting hotter and hotter to be with each other, so I invited him to my house.
I dressed in a tight shirt dress that buttoned entirely up the front. Underneath I wore only a garter belt and stockings. I had it unbuttoned to just the stop of the stockings, an unbuttoned from the top just enough to show my cleavage. I put on tall heels and greeted him at the door that way.
As soon as we embraced and he began touching me, he realized how I was NOT dressed under the clothes and went wild. Just as I'd planned, I must add.
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Married Affairs
Lust is a major part for me, and both parties have the same to lose...so it'ss the perfect setup for an affair......usually though you must be careful...depending on how long you have been married and all and how wonderful your sex life is with your spouse, which probably isn't that super if you are having an affair, is not to go totally apeshit over each other, and start thinking divorce, the grass is greener etc.....all it will cause is grief take it for what it is worth and fuck your brains out
LipstickKitten said:Frankly, having an affair with a married man is the best, especially if all you want is the lust and heat, not the committment. I'd love to try it with a married woman, for the same reasons.
The first time I knowingly had an affair with a married man, we had been seeing each other (nonsexually) for a week or so and were getting hotter and hotter to be with each other, so I invited him to my house.
I dressed in a tight shirt dress that buttoned entirely up the front. Underneath I wore only a garter belt and stockings. I had it unbuttoned to just the stop of the stockings, an unbuttoned from the top just enough to show my cleavage. I put on tall heels and greeted him at the door that way.
As soon as we embraced and he began touching me, he realized how I was NOT dressed under the clothes and went wild. Just as I'd planned, I must add.
Lust is a major part for me, and both parties have the same to lose...so it'ss the perfect setup for an affair......usually though you must be careful...depending on how long you have been married and all and how wonderful your sex life is with your spouse, which probably isn't that super if you are having an affair, is not to go totally apeshit over each other, and start thinking divorce, the grass is greener etc.....all it will cause is grief take it for what it is worth and fuck your brains out
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Re: Married Affairs
Oh, absolutely. If you're going to do it, let the heat and passion and lust take you over completely but never fool yourself into thinking he or she will divorce him or her for you so you can be togehter. Just enjoy the ride while you can and then move on to the next if that's what you're after. It's extemely exciting, and in my case spiced up my marriage.
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Oh, absolutely. If you're going to do it, let the heat and passion and lust take you over completely but never fool yourself into thinking he or she will divorce him or her for you so you can be togehter. Just enjoy the ride while you can and then move on to the next if that's what you're after. It's extemely exciting, and in my case spiced up my marriage.
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yes, many times!
Right after my ex moved out, before filing, I went right out and found a woman who's hubby just left her. We fucked good and hard of r a long time.
Several ex girlfriends still cum by even though they are married now. Their worst halves just cant please them the way they need to be. 1 even fly's up 2 times a year for me! (yes that is a good ego boost!)
When I am in a serious relationship I dont cheat, but if it is an open relationship that is differant.
Right after my ex moved out, before filing, I went right out and found a woman who's hubby just left her. We fucked good and hard of r a long time.
Several ex girlfriends still cum by even though they are married now. Their worst halves just cant please them the way they need to be. 1 even fly's up 2 times a year for me! (yes that is a good ego boost!)
When I am in a serious relationship I dont cheat, but if it is an open relationship that is differant.
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Yes, I have. And, IMO, there's really no difference. Same good things/bad things.
It's been my experience that being married does NOT keep a man from going "apeshit" and wanting to get a divorce, and then wanting YOU to get a divorce. Damn.....now I remember why I quit doing that.
It's been my experience that being married does NOT keep a man from going "apeshit" and wanting to get a divorce, and then wanting YOU to get a divorce. Damn.....now I remember why I quit doing that.
From a married man
If you want sex without too much baggage - married is the way too go. Often a single woman can fall in love easily and not care too much about the consequences when she goes shamlessly after you. Married women "usually" just want the sex without a commitment. That's just fine by me - but watch out for a pissed off husband! Been on both sides of that one!
From a very bad married man.
If you want sex without too much baggage - married is the way too go. Often a single woman can fall in love easily and not care too much about the consequences when she goes shamlessly after you. Married women "usually" just want the sex without a commitment. That's just fine by me - but watch out for a pissed off husband! Been on both sides of that one!
From a very bad married man.
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This is a great question Leonardo!
I have been with married men...and that is what I prefer. Much like other have stated...I want the fun, great sex and no strings attached!!!
I am much too busy and not inclined to spend the time, commitment and energy it takes to cultivate and maintain a good, healthy relationship.
I would never want to marry any of them...after all...they would cheat on me anyway!!
When I am ready to settle down again...then I would never be unfaithful...and if I were married now...I would never be unfaithful.
I believe that if you are truly unhappy in a marriage...GET OUT!! Forget all the what ifs...the consequences...and be free to do what you want!!
If you choose to remain married...FIX IT!! If it is worth hanging on to...then prove it!
This is a great question Leonardo!
I have been with married men...and that is what I prefer. Much like other have stated...I want the fun, great sex and no strings attached!!!
I am much too busy and not inclined to spend the time, commitment and energy it takes to cultivate and maintain a good, healthy relationship.
I would never want to marry any of them...after all...they would cheat on me anyway!!
When I am ready to settle down again...then I would never be unfaithful...and if I were married now...I would never be unfaithful.
I believe that if you are truly unhappy in a marriage...GET OUT!! Forget all the what ifs...the consequences...and be free to do what you want!!
If you choose to remain married...FIX IT!! If it is worth hanging on to...then prove it!
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Re: Re: Married Men or Women
Was it a turn on.....was it something that was more exciting than being with a single person.....did you feel a sense of getting caught whick made it more exciting......
SexyChele said:
Was it a turn on.....was it something that was more exciting than being with a single person.....did you feel a sense of getting caught whick made it more exciting......
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I am married and while my wife is a wonderful woman, she has not wanted sex in ages. It's a physiology thing, not a mental thing. But I cannot go withtout sex so I have gone outside the marriage for my needs. I have only done so with couples or other married women in the same boat as me. It has worked nicely.
I am married and while my wife is a wonderful woman, she has not wanted sex in ages. It's a physiology thing, not a mental thing. But I cannot go withtout sex so I have gone outside the marriage for my needs. I have only done so with couples or other married women in the same boat as me. It has worked nicely.
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Re: Married affairs
I have to agreed with bigleonardo, the danger and the excitement. It also has been fun for me too.
bigleonardo said:
I have to agreed with bigleonardo, the danger and the excitement. It also has been fun for me too.
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Re: Re: Married affairs
Can you share one of your best experiences.......
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I have to agreed with bigleonardo, the danger and the excitement. It also has been fun for me too.
Can you share one of your best experiences.......
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I am married to a wonderful woman
She is perfect for me in everyway imaginable.
Good she is out of the room now, gloating about catching me on the pc.
The woman has headaches all of the time, never wants sex.
Without remorse, I would have a romantic interlude with another married person (F) if someone would just send me a response
She is perfect for me in everyway imaginable.
Good she is out of the room now, gloating about catching me on the pc.
The woman has headaches all of the time, never wants sex.
Without remorse, I would have a romantic interlude with another married person (F) if someone would just send me a response
eztouch101
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I am married to a wonderful woman
She is perfect for me in everyway imaginable.
Good she is out of the room now, gloating about catching me on the pc.
The woman has headaches all of the time, never wants sex.
Without remorse, I would have a romantic interlude with another married person (F) if someone would just send me a response
She is perfect for me in everyway imaginable.
Good she is out of the room now, gloating about catching me on the pc.
The woman has headaches all of the time, never wants sex.
Without remorse, I would have a romantic interlude with another married person (F) if someone would just send me a response
Re: Re: Re: Married Men or Women
Hmmm...I was going to avoid this, but especially after photo-god's comments I just couldn't pass it up.
Was it a turn on? No more or less than being with anyone else, really. He was just a man after all, not some sort of superior being.
Was it something that was more exciting than being with a single person Oh HELL no! Oh, yes, in the beginning everything was fun and easy. Then he fell in love with me. (contrary to photo-god's belief that it is a single woman who falls for the guy) Now, the thing was, if HE had a family commitment, it was all well and fine for him to cancel out on a date with me at the last minute. BUT, if I had an opportunity to go out with some one, and he and I weren't meeting up anyway, he would go ballistic. He didn't want to divorce his wife (the kids, after all, you know - and the house - and the business - and he might lose his truck - so MUCH to consider!), but he didn't want me going out with anyone else. I was to be at his beck and call 24/7, because of course, being married, he never knew when he could catch a few moments away from wifey-poo.
So, no, it wasn't more exciting than being with a single man. It was a hellish prison that I was thankful to finally have the sense to say good-bye to. At least with single men you don't get that double standard thing going on to that degree.
Plus, even though single men will lie, married men do it a whole hell of a lot better. Like the line, "My wife just won't have sex with me anymore"? Yeah, sure, uh-huh, whatever. More like, "My wife won't have sex as often as I want." BIG difference, guys. And any man who tells me they are married and don't have sex? Don't be surprised if I laugh in your face, cuz it IS a lie!
Did you feel a sense of getting caught which made it more exciting No, didn't have that. Why? Because we were caught. And getting caught is NO fun. Oh, of course, he just "accidently" left my phone number on the front seat of her car. And my picture just "happened" to fall out of the visor of his truck when his wife drove it to the store one day. Listening to a pathetic, crying woman on my answering machine begging me to leave her husband alone is anything BUT exciting.
Oh? And the real kicker? When his wife didn't know where he was, she would call me and then put their 5 year old son on the phone when I answered to asked where his "daddy" was. Yeah. That's what ended it. Nope. No excitement there. They were both wackos, and I'm thankful to have neither one of them in my life anymore.
Married men? Nope. No way. Never, ever again. Can't trust 'em, don't want 'em, totally uninterested in 'em. They have some one to take care of their "needs" - and if they think their wife isn't doing just that, then they need to look at their relationship and find out what is wrong instead of looking for a new bed to hop into.
Well? You did ask....
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Hmmm...I was going to avoid this, but especially after photo-god's comments I just couldn't pass it up.
Was it a turn on? No more or less than being with anyone else, really. He was just a man after all, not some sort of superior being.
Was it something that was more exciting than being with a single person Oh HELL no! Oh, yes, in the beginning everything was fun and easy. Then he fell in love with me. (contrary to photo-god's belief that it is a single woman who falls for the guy) Now, the thing was, if HE had a family commitment, it was all well and fine for him to cancel out on a date with me at the last minute. BUT, if I had an opportunity to go out with some one, and he and I weren't meeting up anyway, he would go ballistic. He didn't want to divorce his wife (the kids, after all, you know - and the house - and the business - and he might lose his truck - so MUCH to consider!), but he didn't want me going out with anyone else. I was to be at his beck and call 24/7, because of course, being married, he never knew when he could catch a few moments away from wifey-poo.
So, no, it wasn't more exciting than being with a single man. It was a hellish prison that I was thankful to finally have the sense to say good-bye to. At least with single men you don't get that double standard thing going on to that degree.
Plus, even though single men will lie, married men do it a whole hell of a lot better. Like the line, "My wife just won't have sex with me anymore"? Yeah, sure, uh-huh, whatever. More like, "My wife won't have sex as often as I want." BIG difference, guys. And any man who tells me they are married and don't have sex? Don't be surprised if I laugh in your face, cuz it IS a lie!
Did you feel a sense of getting caught which made it more exciting No, didn't have that. Why? Because we were caught. And getting caught is NO fun. Oh, of course, he just "accidently" left my phone number on the front seat of her car. And my picture just "happened" to fall out of the visor of his truck when his wife drove it to the store one day. Listening to a pathetic, crying woman on my answering machine begging me to leave her husband alone is anything BUT exciting.
Oh? And the real kicker? When his wife didn't know where he was, she would call me and then put their 5 year old son on the phone when I answered to asked where his "daddy" was. Yeah. That's what ended it. Nope. No excitement there. They were both wackos, and I'm thankful to have neither one of them in my life anymore.
Married men? Nope. No way. Never, ever again. Can't trust 'em, don't want 'em, totally uninterested in 'em. They have some one to take care of their "needs" - and if they think their wife isn't doing just that, then they need to look at their relationship and find out what is wrong instead of looking for a new bed to hop into.
Well? You did ask....
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