It is going to be interesting to see how many views I get on this title - however, I also understand that the more I post here the more the "old timers" are going to know 'bout me and what I write.
So, let me begin with the assumption that you are a newbie to these posts and are just as curious about what is out there and available as I am curious as locating what is out there and available.
still, even if you be looking, there are some constraints, so let's get those out of the way first.
I am married
I am in the East TN area of the country
I am a 60's survivor
I have the money for viagra, if need be
I have white thinning hair
I have deep set eyes
I have mornings free typically
I am very curious and experimental in nature
I am very oral
I desire submission and domination by female
I desire to be collared by female
I desire and will submit to training by a female
I desire and will submit to female golden showers
I desire to serve
I desire and will submit to punishment
I desire to bow down to a dominate female
I desire to be bound by a dominate female
And, in spite of what my clever little male friends might say about my machoness based upon my desires, well, I desire also not to be influenced by what others may think or say, as this is my free will I exercise here.
My wife is not aware of this nor is there any need for her to be aware of this. I am not interested in finding another wife, nor am I interested in having a discreet affair, because (and to make a long story short) I have been there and done that many times, so there is no need (at least on my part) to explore, fantasize, or to desire that sexual pleasure nowadays. But, that is not to say I am no longer interested in sex because I am and continue to be satisfied at home. It is just that my wife's recent journey into the very spiritual side of life, leaves me void when it comes to these issues as I have described above.
I have excellent teeth (whatever that means) and I am very healthy as I exercise daily and am very careful with my intake of fat grams and calories. I drink once in a while and it is usually wine (either red or white or blush) and maybe a vodka and tonic or other mixed drinks. I don't really like beer as it makes me pee to often and bloats me when I drink it, no matter how hot the day may be. I wear glasses but I do not see where that matters relative to my desires. However, I am drug and disease free and plan to stay that way no matter how bad you entice me... and as they say here in this part of the woods, "I am over that." I quit smoking more than 20 years ago not because of the money but because it controlled my life and while I like to be controlled, I only want that control to come from a female.
Now, if you are in your 20's and maybe even in your 30's and say you are a well-experienced Domme, well, please do not play that game on me, because no one that young can be well experienced no matter how much shit you think you have done.
I am not offended by women of color (as I am not sure if I should refer to them as black or Afro-Americans) but either way, I would encourage you to consider me as I sometimes feel (based upon my previous experiences) that the black females that I have known have really known how to treat their partners.
I am really not interested (and I cannot really explain why) in females that are large (and I know that is a relative term) nor am I interested in females that are thin.... I like average as it goes well with me being average.
And, while I don't expect a PhD, I do think conversation is important if for no other reason than to set the stage or make everyone feel comfortable, what some might refer to as "ice breaking."
I am willing to try most anything as long as ground rules are set and respected, and if that is the case, then, I could explore various aspects of BDSM, strapons, anal play, blindfolds, nipple clamps, hot wax... the only issue I would refrain from is something that leaves scars... and, not interested at all in blood experiences or scat...
So, we could just play-it-by-ear so to speak once we build up mutual trust.....
I am confident that someone is out there looking for someone like me, however, this forum may not be the best place to find that person, so if you have any ideas please pass them along as well, if you don't mind. Also, I realize that there are a couple, perhaps more, east tn yahoo groups who meet regularly and explore issues like this, and therein lies another issue with me and my need for privacy and discretion. Although, if you know someone from that group who might be interested in exploring with me, then, please contact that person and have them get in touch with me, if that is not too much of a bother.....
Guess I have written enough, plus I need to shower and go to work.... Just to pinpoint my location a little better, I am about 40 minutes NE of Knoxville and about 90 minutes NW of Asheville, near the I81/I40 split......
Hope to hear back from you..... Actually, I cannot check this forum from work, so if you have no problems with sending me an IM I can send you my private email where we can correspond with each other more frequently.... thanks for your reading, your support, and your help. Take care,
So, let me begin with the assumption that you are a newbie to these posts and are just as curious about what is out there and available as I am curious as locating what is out there and available.
still, even if you be looking, there are some constraints, so let's get those out of the way first.
I am married
I am in the East TN area of the country
I am a 60's survivor
I have the money for viagra, if need be
I have white thinning hair
I have deep set eyes
I have mornings free typically
I am very curious and experimental in nature
I am very oral
I desire submission and domination by female
I desire to be collared by female
I desire and will submit to training by a female
I desire and will submit to female golden showers
I desire to serve
I desire and will submit to punishment
I desire to bow down to a dominate female
I desire to be bound by a dominate female
And, in spite of what my clever little male friends might say about my machoness based upon my desires, well, I desire also not to be influenced by what others may think or say, as this is my free will I exercise here.
My wife is not aware of this nor is there any need for her to be aware of this. I am not interested in finding another wife, nor am I interested in having a discreet affair, because (and to make a long story short) I have been there and done that many times, so there is no need (at least on my part) to explore, fantasize, or to desire that sexual pleasure nowadays. But, that is not to say I am no longer interested in sex because I am and continue to be satisfied at home. It is just that my wife's recent journey into the very spiritual side of life, leaves me void when it comes to these issues as I have described above.
I have excellent teeth (whatever that means) and I am very healthy as I exercise daily and am very careful with my intake of fat grams and calories. I drink once in a while and it is usually wine (either red or white or blush) and maybe a vodka and tonic or other mixed drinks. I don't really like beer as it makes me pee to often and bloats me when I drink it, no matter how hot the day may be. I wear glasses but I do not see where that matters relative to my desires. However, I am drug and disease free and plan to stay that way no matter how bad you entice me... and as they say here in this part of the woods, "I am over that." I quit smoking more than 20 years ago not because of the money but because it controlled my life and while I like to be controlled, I only want that control to come from a female.
Now, if you are in your 20's and maybe even in your 30's and say you are a well-experienced Domme, well, please do not play that game on me, because no one that young can be well experienced no matter how much shit you think you have done.
I am not offended by women of color (as I am not sure if I should refer to them as black or Afro-Americans) but either way, I would encourage you to consider me as I sometimes feel (based upon my previous experiences) that the black females that I have known have really known how to treat their partners.
I am really not interested (and I cannot really explain why) in females that are large (and I know that is a relative term) nor am I interested in females that are thin.... I like average as it goes well with me being average.
And, while I don't expect a PhD, I do think conversation is important if for no other reason than to set the stage or make everyone feel comfortable, what some might refer to as "ice breaking."
I am willing to try most anything as long as ground rules are set and respected, and if that is the case, then, I could explore various aspects of BDSM, strapons, anal play, blindfolds, nipple clamps, hot wax... the only issue I would refrain from is something that leaves scars... and, not interested at all in blood experiences or scat...
So, we could just play-it-by-ear so to speak once we build up mutual trust.....
I am confident that someone is out there looking for someone like me, however, this forum may not be the best place to find that person, so if you have any ideas please pass them along as well, if you don't mind. Also, I realize that there are a couple, perhaps more, east tn yahoo groups who meet regularly and explore issues like this, and therein lies another issue with me and my need for privacy and discretion. Although, if you know someone from that group who might be interested in exploring with me, then, please contact that person and have them get in touch with me, if that is not too much of a bother.....
Guess I have written enough, plus I need to shower and go to work.... Just to pinpoint my location a little better, I am about 40 minutes NE of Knoxville and about 90 minutes NW of Asheville, near the I81/I40 split......
Hope to hear back from you..... Actually, I cannot check this forum from work, so if you have no problems with sending me an IM I can send you my private email where we can correspond with each other more frequently.... thanks for your reading, your support, and your help. Take care,
