Married lesbian here with a sudden case of male curiosity

[Mrslonelyislandlover]

I have never felt the touch of a man but I find myself longing for it recently. I think it’s curiosity. My wife isn’t really into strap ons but it is so much more than that I desire. I want to feel a man lust for me and long for me. I want to hear him talk dirty to me and teach me everything there is too pleasing him. I dream about it every night. My wife recently cheated on me and maybe I am out looking for revenge maybe it’s more. I just know I long for it. I love getting off to the audio submissions. I love hearing a man cum hard. I’m thinking about writing my dreams out on here. I think I would have already found a guy to satisfy my cravings but here I am stuck on a small island in the middle of the ocean with no one to please me. I am surrounded by military members which is what she is so I fear trusting them to keep my dirty little secret.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

diego garcia, huh?

 

[roc23]

Damn,wish I could help.

You definitely sound lonely.

 

[Mrslonelyislandlover]

Diego Garcia?

 

[Mrslonelyislandlover]

From the looks of it you could help a lot roc

 

[roc23]

From the looks of it you could help a lot roc

Oh I definitely could help.

And I can definitely keep a secret.

 

[suckonsimon]

Lady, I hope you find a confident, courteous, experienced dude who'll take massive delight himself in giving you a deep, long, luscious experience of masculine attention from head to toes and with every kind of excitement and bliss mid-way.

"dirty" secret? I say there's something really wholesome about going the distance with curiosity be it from lesbian to straight experience or straight to gay.

The best to you!

 

[flanneland]

I have never felt the touch of a man but I find myself longing for it recently. I think it’s curiosity. My wife isn’t really into strap ons but it is so much more than that I desire. I want to feel a man lust for me and long for me. I want to hear him talk dirty to me and teach me everything there is too pleasing him. I dream about it every night. My wife recently cheated on me and maybe I am out looking for revenge maybe it’s more. I just know I long for it. I love getting off to the audio submissions. I love hearing a man cum hard. I’m thinking about writing my dreams out on here. I think I would have already found a guy to satisfy my cravings but here I am stuck on a small island in the middle of the ocean with no one to please me. I am surrounded by military members which is what she is so I fear trusting them to keep my dirty little secret.

Ain't life a kick in the head.

 

[Nezhul]

why not talk about it with your wife?
There are many options, you know, but they all start with talking to your partner. Well, not all. but The good ones do

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

This is tricky and it's a lot trickier than you think - if you are talking reality.

Look at the ancient history of the poet Sappho - she fell in love with a young man who came from the island my own family happens to come from, sadly, because he caused her to throw herself off a cliff! And that was a bad thing.

Yet at the same time it's a lesson to learn, even from someone as esteemed in the art of love as this identity from history.

For one thing when it comes to real people there are real feelings involved and not all people are at the same stage of sexual or 'relating' maturity or wisdom at any given moment of each of their lives.

If you know lesbian pairs or couples that raise children - they are in my experience excellent parents and this means that you have to take into consideration the implications for the kids if anything goes too far awry.

What is ABSOLUTELY IDEAL with regard to real life relationships is almost never going to be the case for most people - in terms of their actual, REAL life.

In theory at least, you CAN have a male experience, or even a longer term involvement if that also works for you, AND your main life partner as well (taking this specific case example). But many things have to 'work' in context.

What is much more usual, is that things are risky and might involve emotional trouble somewhere.

You have to take stock of what your current partner is really like, whether they are going to go ballistic (which means anything you do is going to HAVE to be covert and likely very short-term), but if that's not the case and they could be not so sexually and emotionally 'jealous' and more broad-minded, then you have the opposite problem which is just as problematic, namely, that you will NEVER easily find a male who does not have their own kinds of flaws too.

1. Do not jump (quickly) at the first male you 'think' 'might,' or the one you think is easy prey;

2. Consider your position with regard to the feelings AND the maturity of your current partner - that they may not be 'sexually mature/advanced/whatever' does not give them less rights, as it were, but people can spend their whole lives with only one facet or a one-sided or one-dimensional personality on display and in use, and that's okay too...

Love solves all issues. But unless you fully accept and come to a genuine realization that 'Love' is a real, magical, miraculous, thing - then you will never ever find a perfect solution to this kind of question. Because there is no 'real' or 'realistic' solution.

In 'reality' people all get old and die or just die in the (their) end. People cling onto this form of 'reality' because they are weak and they are faulty and they are wrong.

Don't do it - don't 'cling onto a false reality.'

Go to the magic. It works. And it is the real 'reality.'

Cultivate, the magical.

 

[HerLittlePiggy]

I have never felt the touch of a man but I find myself longing for it recently. I think it’s curiosity. My wife isn’t really into strap ons but it is so much more than that I desire. I want to feel a man lust for me and long for me. I want to hear him talk dirty to me and teach me everything there is too pleasing him. I dream about it every night. My wife recently cheated on me and maybe I am out looking for revenge maybe it’s more. I just know I long for it. I love getting off to the audio submissions. I love hearing a man cum hard. I’m thinking about writing my dreams out on here. I think I would have already found a guy to satisfy my cravings but here I am stuck on a small island in the middle of the ocean with no one to please me. I am surrounded by military members which is what she is so I fear trusting them to keep my dirty little secret.

Sexuality can be fluid in many people even gold star lesbians. I spent most of my life without ever having a gay or bisexual thought. Then my eyes were opened and I became curious about sucking cock and other m/m activities.

I have a gay friend who lives quite far away. He, like you, has never had a heterosexual experience but he has straight curiosity. We talked about a threesome with a woman but never found the right woman.

In a strange twist my curiosity about bisex has ebbed of late and my dirty mind has gone down another fork in the road.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Diego Garcia?

yep, in the british indian ocean territory. beautiful island in the middle of nowhere.

 

[Nekidinaz]

Well written comment...

Lady, I hope you find a confident, courteous, experienced dude who'll take massive delight himself in giving you a deep, long, luscious experience of masculine attention from head to toes and with every kind of excitement and bliss mid-way.

"dirty" secret? I say there's something really wholesome about going the distance with curiosity be it from lesbian to straight experience or straight to gay.

The best to you!

I couldn't agree with you more, simon...your comment pretty much sums up about everything I was thinking when I read her post...like you, I hope she finds some guy who treats her the way you describe...and I agree with your "wholesome" thinking...I think it is too and I hope Mrslonely...enjoys herself and whoever she chooses to experience her new feelings with

 

[AlDriving]

I have never felt the touch of a man but I find myself longing for it recently. I think it’s curiosity. My wife isn’t really into strap ons but it is so much more than that I desire. I want to feel a man lust for me and long for me. I want to hear him talk dirty to me and teach me everything there is too pleasing him. I dream about it every night. My wife recently cheated on me and maybe I am out looking for revenge maybe it’s more. I just know I long for it. I love getting off to the audio submissions. I love hearing a man cum hard. I’m thinking about writing my dreams out on here. I think I would have already found a guy to satisfy my cravings but here I am stuck on a small island in the middle of the ocean with no one to please me. I am surrounded by military members which is what she is so I fear trusting them to keep my dirty little secret.

You could always pop home on holiday and be done for a bit of the isolation; it sounds as though that island (Diego Garcia or other) has you very limited...I’ve been to such places whilst in the military and got bored quickly due to lack of variety and stimuli. Going on holiday is a temporary thing and should give your wife confidence that’s it’s just homesickness and you need a break shall we say. Whilst on holiday you may be able to sort out your feelings and if the want for a man continues then you have the ability to explore without being exposed.