Married in Florida, it's a long story.

[justtoomuch]

Ok, here goes. I'm a happily married 32 year old housewife/mother. I only have one problem, my amazing, gorgeous, loving husband will not fuck me. It has been nearly a year since I have had real sex with another human. Every few months I can get him to come off of some head, but other than that, nothing. We don't fight, unless it comes down to the issue of sex. I love my husband and am a wonderful wife to him in every conceivable way except one, I am only human, and being a woman with a rather high sex drive causes me to seek out a friend to meet up with whenever I need a good dicking. I'm totally into having a "penpal" to correspond with, but ultimately I need a friend for some nsa fucking. I only need one, and he must be in the Polk country Florida area. That's about it for now, I'm not shy so if you have any questions, just ask.

 

[Wyldfire]

Edited for the thin skinned.

Please enjoy your decent into lower life.

 

[justtoomuch]

While i thank you for your input, until you experience a similar situation, i highly doubt you are qualified to educate me about my "big girl panties". We all live our lives in different ways, if perhaps you choose to live yours differently than I do mine, then awesome, but please keep in mind, I've not attempted to to tell you how to conduct yourself, so I appreciate you not telling me how to conduct myself.

 

[justtoomuch]

And just to inform you my dear, I'm far from gold digging. I have several degrees and am independently wealthy (that means i had my own money when i entered into my relationship)

 

[dreamone4me2]

While i thank you for your input, until you experience a similar situation, i highly doubt you are qualified to educate me about my "big girl panties". We all live our lives in different ways, if perhaps you choose to live yours differently than I do mine, then awesome, but please keep in mind, I've not attempted to to tell you how to conduct yourself, so I appreciate you not telling me how to conduct myself.

PM Sent. You are sexy and beautiful. Hope to hear from you.

 

[Wyldfire]

While i thank you for your input, until you experience a similar situation, i highly doubt you are qualified to educate me about my "big girl panties". We all live our lives in different ways, if perhaps you choose to live yours differently than I do mine, then awesome, but please keep in mind, I've not attempted to tell you how to conduct yourself, so I appreciate you not telling me how to conduct myself.

To continue with the editing for the thin skinned. I appreciate how much the moderators honor the right to free speech until it hurts someone's feelings. So please forgive the big old meanie and carry on with the life you have chosen.

 

[Wyldfire]

And just to inform you my dear, I'm far from gold digging. I have several degrees and am independently wealthy (that means i had my own money when i entered into my relationship)

I hope your independent wealth serves you well in your future endeavors dear. I am almost done cleaning up your little thread so the Mod doesn't have to.

 

[Wyldfire]

PM Sent. You are sexy and beautiful. Hope to hear from you.

And you're a Mo Po or Springer boy. Just saying. Sorry dear Mod, don't see a need to edit this one. I stand by it.

 

[Wyldfire]

PM Sent. You are sexy and beautiful. Hope to hear from you.

Did Lady's night fail you tonight hun?

 

[dreamone4me2]

And you're a Mo Po or Springer boy. Just saying.

When did you become judge and jury? Poly family or not who are you to judge. just leave her alone.

 

[Wyldfire]

And just to inform you my dear, I'm far from gold digging. I have several degrees and am independently wealthy (that means i had my own money when i entered into my relationship)

As an aside. A porn site. At almost 1 a.m.? Yeah right. I really believe these claims. Again, sorry I see no validation for editing this one. Let Manu or Laurel be the judge here.

 

[Wyldfire]

When did you become judge and jury? Poly family or not who are you to judge. just leave her alone.

Edited for the thinned skinned.

 

[Wyldfire]

And I suck for noticing the two of you at the post counts you have. I put it down to how long I have been here.

 

[AJScooch]

PM sent.

 

[Wyldfire]

PM sent.

Edited due to the truth being told.

 

[millhouseBob]

Ah the certainty of youth! Don't let Wyldfire get you down. I'd love to say she is not typical here but unfortunately there are many judgmental people on Literotica. And you'd think people on a site like this would be more open minded!

I just had this discussion with my wife - it is a tough decision, with so many positive aspects of our relationship does sexual incompatibility mean 35 years should be thrown away? I think there is no one right answer - you just have to find what can make it work for you.

Best wishes!

 

[justtoomuch]

Holy shit, i have not even been paying attention to this. Wow is all I have to say. Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one hu. Again, if you have not been in my shoes, then please keep what you believe to know about me or anyone for that matter to yourself.

 

[Devlishone4fun]

You know I wouldn't worry about what Wyldfire says or does. After all opinions are like assholes and everyone seems to have one, especially around here. What works for her might not work for you. Different strokes for different folks.

So what if she has over 30,000 post or been here since 2004. Who gives a shit to how long you been here or how many post you have, especially on this site. Does that make her a sex therapist or marriage counselor? I think not! Just because her own life experiences was like that, well that's her life and choice, not yours or her to tell you how you should make your decisions. And then comes riding in on her big white horse, in her big panties to say that's not right what you are doing, well that's her opinion and just shows her true self for all to see here.

You come into this life by yourself and go out by yourself and its what is in between that counts and makes us who we are, individuals. Advice is only as good as taken and used and then that advice might be wrong in the end or could just be what you needed. The ultimate decisions will be yours and yours only. In the end weather it is consider wrong or right, you have to live it, not anybody else around here.
Just like the old saying... Let he/she who is without sin, cast the first stone....So standing there at the crossroads, whatever path you decide to take or decision you finally make, good luck with it no matter how heavy it weighs on your mind or what other people think.
One day you will look back and think what a horses ass that person was and have one hell of a laugh at her expense and advice, not yours......

The way to raise your own character is by not lowering others.

 

[southerncharm77]

Again it always seems to amaze me how some people have to tear other people down to make their lives seem better. Although everyone has a right to their own opinion, just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. Yes Wyld you have been here longer than most and have many more posts than most that however doesn't make you anymore important or better than anyone else here. I am not going to try and tell you how to live or think because it is not my place to but by the same token it is not your place to tell anyone else how to live. Just remember you were once a newbie here and had to start somewhere. Just saying. ...

 

[orlando4fun]

Older knight is slightly tarnished armor always willing to help a damsel in distress. pm sent.

 

[sexymadeline]

Ok, here goes. I'm a happily married 32 year old housewife/mother. I only have one problem, my amazing, gorgeous, loving husband will not fuck me. It has been nearly a year since I have had real sex with another human. Every few months I can get him to come off of some head, but other than that, nothing. We don't fight, unless it comes down to the issue of sex. I love my husband and am a wonderful wife to him in every conceivable way except one, I am only human, and being a woman with a rather high sex drive causes me to seek out a friend to meet up with whenever I need a good dicking. I'm totally into having a "penpal" to correspond with, but ultimately I need a friend for some nsa fucking. I only need one, and he must be in the Polk country Florida area. That's about it for now, I'm not shy so if you have any questions, just ask.

PM me love.

 

[cunnilingual2]

You know, the amount of judgement I notice around here surprises the hell out of me. I'd have never expected it on this site.

I'll chime in and say I have a shitty marriage as well. You know why I'm on here? Because my wife has made me feel like a leper for having sexual urges for 20 years and I'm sick and tired of it. On top of that, I haven't had sex in 2 1/2 years. Is that normal? Is that how it was supposed to be? Is my marriage everything I wanted it to be? Of course not.

I'd love it if I could have a storybook marriage. I'd love to look at my wife and feel fortunate that I'm with someone I love so much. But you know what? It's just not that way. And you know what else? The reasons I need to stay are my own business, and no one else's.

I've never made any bones about my situation, and neither should anyone else.

 

[scfl]

justtoomuch
sorry to hear about your issue. it is not fair that you must endure a marriage without the wonderful gift of sexual intimacy. has he talked why he does not want to have sex? does he have a testosterone level problem. I too was getting to a point where my wife was not interesting in having sex more than once every two weeks. I could do it every other day if she was interested.

I live in orlando area and I hope everything starts working out for you.

scfl

 

[JamesRich]

You Won't Have Any Problems Solving Your Problem!

I've had several married girl friends in the past and they all had the same complaint you do....not enough sex, not enough attention. We had great sex, wild times, and even brought in a cucky husband or two to watch...LOL! The girls got all the attention, believe me!

Horny Married Women need a cock.... one that's hard just for them....a cock she could make hard just because she is her own sexy thing. I know I went bonkers for the girls who loved being girls...the ones that loved who they were and wanted to express it....very often by being submissive to their lover.

I love the kinky stuff and so did they. I loved fucking her vagina, getting my dick lubed up with her slick pussy lubricant then having her lick it clean and suck it. Then, back to her vagina for more lubing then back to her mouth for more cleaning and sucking. With her 'girlie' ways she would get me more and more excited. We never knew where I would ejaculate--mouth or cunt---and it was sure fun finding out...YAHOO!!

 

[scfl]

Dude your are so cool. You must be a stud that causes women to drop their panties once they see your huge dick!