Married, Husband on here cause he's curious

[Kendal40]

My husband is on here because he's not into men but curious in sex with men or the cock. We don't have a lot of sex, I personally like to have sex but he never tells me what he wants. I would sometimes like to take it up a level into kinky things. I ask him all the time what can we do to take it up a level or be more kinky but he never responds. I've seen on one of his posts that women don't give good BJs but if I could do it better tell me. Women also want to please their partners but if you don't tells we don't know what to do or turn you on. I tried one time to get a finger in his ass while I was giving him head and he didn't want anything to do with it. I seen he had a post on anal sex, I think it would be hot and I would get turned on putting a toy in his ass while he fucked me. Women have fantasies also!! I donf mind the here and there quickie, but there's times I want that extra time that we can take to really please each other. I've had fantasies before about being with two men and wouldn't mind trying it before we are to old but I would like us to be able to connect first so we can then try it together is a safe way. I don’t like that he takes the time to get on here when I'm here with a sexual appetite. What should I do?

 

[HCurious26]

Hi,
Sorry to hear about your problem. You sound like everyman's dream!
If you're in the St. Louis area give me a shout out. I'll be happy to take the time to
get you settled down.

 

[Chefofthefuture]

What should you do?

Call me, we can seduce him together. I have been in 3sums and it is totally hot, and bi is super exciting

 

[Lictologist]

Maybe it's not a turn on to tell you what to do...yeah, having to tell you is a turn off. Why? Everyone is wired differently...maybe he doesn't even know.

Watch some guy on guy oral and maybe there's some technique you could pick up on and then try it out. Hint: you need to love that cock...LOVE IT!

 

[Kendal40]

Not exactly tell me what to do but couples, partners communicate in what they like or turns them on. You don't want to do something that would violate them. If he doesn't know, why is he on here posting comments on "not into men but curious" or responding with erotic emails to you guys telling detailed stories of sex about he would like to put something up his ass. And it's not that I don't love the cock, I'm just not obsessed with it that that I'd cum in a cup and drink it or blow as many as I could to get the clap. Not even to the extent I'd cheat posting my zipcode or meeting in hotels.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Sorry that you and your husband are not connecting sexually, as I assume you once did. That's tough.

Lit is the easy way out. It doesn't require work, compromise, trust, compassion, understanding and all the rest that we know of as living life. its pure fantasy. Its also addictive.

Your husband is lucky and blessed. He has an accepting, loving, sexual wife. In the post that you started this thread with you asked, "What should I do?" Seriously, I would seek out a counselor who you both could relate to without embarrasment of judgment and work it out. Things change by degrees in life and sometimes things that we once took for granted slip away and we don't know how to get them back.

Its no more than you both deserve.