Married cocksuckers and finding a friend

[txfuncouple]

I know hanging out here that there is a large majority of married guys that want to suck cock or find a fwb.

If you look at doublelist or other outlets there’s a long list of guys that are married that want their cock sucked or mutual satisfaction.

Here’s my question: As a married guy that has a kink for big cocks and sucking them, are there a lot more married guys that would consider a guy blowing them under the right circumstances if they knew it would remain on the DL? On a forum like this there’s a concentration of individuals that enjoy things like this, so its not really a true barometer of guys that like getting sucked by other guys.

I’m firmly a member of the guys that are only attracted to cock and not other guys club, and have wondered several times in a situation where a party is winding down or any other situation you can imagine, if other guys wonder if you’ll suck their cock or if they can suck you.

Just coming right out and asking it might make it awkward, but if the conversation turned to oral and I mentioned I enjoy giving it, does that place the seed in the other straight guys head that he could get a blowjob any time he wanted?

 

[SmokingFap]

I know hanging out here that there is a large majority of married guys that want to suck cock or find a fwb.

If you look at doublelist or other outlets there’s a long list of guys that are married that want their cock sucked or mutual satisfaction.

Here’s my question: As a married guy that has a kink for big cocks and sucking them, are there a lot more married guys that would consider a guy blowing them under the right circumstances if they knew it would remain on the DL? On a forum like this there’s a concentration of individuals that enjoy things like this, so its not really a true barometer of guys that like getting sucked by other guys.

I’m firmly a member of the guys that are only attracted to cock and not other guys club, and have wondered several times in a situation where a party is winding down or any other situation you can imagine, if other guys wonder if you’ll suck their cock or if they can suck you.

Just coming right out and asking it might make it awkward, but if the conversation turned to oral and I mentioned I enjoy giving it, does that place the seed in the other straight guys head that he could get a blowjob any time he wanted?

Yes. Yes it does.

 

[lit_ch3]

I'd like to imagine it would go over well, but, tbh, never been in a group situation where the topic of conversation would turn so hard to the sexual.

 

[smoothwiener]

You need to have a good sense of what the other guy might entertain because that would go over badly with some.not that I am an expert at identifying them.. because I'm still looking too.

 

[JohnCash123]

I'm in this situation now. Started texting a friend who knows I want to suck him. His wife is all for it. My wife... not so much

 

[smoothwiener]

I'm in this situation now. Started texting a friend who knows I want to suck him. His wife is all for it. My wife... not so much

Last guy I knew moved before I really got my head in the right place to do it and had time...he clicked all the stuff I liked. I actually started to once got 15 seconds in before office called with an emergency and I had to run, because I was supposed to be somewhere else at the time.

Never got another chance as he got an offer too good to refuse and moved far away.

 

[Lugnut59]

Yeah, I'm a member of the "straight but love dick play" club. I have zero gay-dar and have never hooked up with any guy from the vanilla world. I just don't get those vibes. All my suck trading has happened in adult theaters or off craigslist/doublelist ads. As for theaters, the variety is awesome but it's always hit and miss.

As for the ads, there was a time when pitchers and catchers seemed to be more-or-less matched. I don't see that anymore, as the ads nowadays seem to be overrun with catchers. I suspect pitchers just don't have to advertise as there's so much too choose from.

To your question, I'm never in a situation where sucking would ever come up. Well, I kinda take that back; lifestyle events fall into that category (house parties, hotel parties, lifestyle campgrounds), but in the many I've been to, I never observed any male-male head. I think men come to sucking from a variety of different angles, so one approach probably isn't going to work for everyone. I expect the guy has to get the idea first (curiosity, desperation, previous adolescent experience, or whatever) to be open to the suggestion, but I may be wrong about that.

Having said all that, I chatted with a guy once who maybe/probably had the idea first, and somehow got to talking to a neighbor about it. No idea how a convo like that even starts, but the neighbor (who was 20 years older) eventually got him to start sucking his cock when the wives weren't around. This progressed to the neighbor fucking him as time went by, and only stopped when the neighbor moved. Might have been some daddy/son thing going on there, but who knows.

Anyway the only way I know to do it is online or chatting with someone in a theater.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Cocksucking is obviously a subject that almost never finds its way into a mixed-sex social conversation. And gay cocksucking in a casual same-sex conversation is also rare. It is almost entirely within the purview of bi and gay pornography.

However, I'm absolutely sure you could find a guy to suck in an ABS video booth area without the need for too much conversation. There are many sexually frustrated guys who go to ABSs to masturbate and are either openly or secretly hoping to be propositioned by a cocksucker. I was one of those guys. In all of my experiences, guys propositioned me and sucked my cock.

I'm a nice married guy and one of my cocksuckers was a nice married guy who mentioned that he visited there every Sunday while his wife was at work in retail; and insinuated that he'd love to suck me any time. I was there on a lark as I wasn't usually in the area on Sundays, but if I was, I could have found a friend who was a married cocksucker.

Obviously, neither of our wives knew what happened that Sunday, and I never developed a friendship with a married nice guy cocksucker.

 

[mpeters]

So as I’ve noted elsewhere, I’ve been trying to get my cock sucked off by another guy for months now with no luck so far. I know a lot of it is my limited availability.

 

[Lugnut59]

So as I’ve noted elsewhere, I’ve been trying to get my cock sucked off by another guy for months now with no luck so far. I know a lot of it is my limited availability.

One would think it'd be easy as pie to get one's cock sucked, but such is not the case. Sites like doublelist are overrun with guys looking to give head, but in my experience about 99% of them fake out, flake out, no show, or whatever.

One serious problem is that almost all posters are married/attached and don't have a convenient place. This forces everybody to other locations like parks, parking lots, car head, anywhere outdoors, but there are cameras everywhere now and it's risky. I've sucked some dick in parks, but am so worried about getting busted that I can never get wood myself, nor relax enough to cum.

As mentioned above, the best place is an ABS with gloryholes. Solves the "place" problem, and you can suck and be sucked at your leisure. I personally like adult theaters better but they can be problematic, depending on local law enforcement pressure.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

So as I’ve noted elsewhere, I’ve been trying to get my cock sucked off by another guy for months now with no luck so far. I know a lot of it is my limited availability.

If you're really serious, you need to go to an ABS video booth area. If you have a free evening, the ABS is ideal. Check out the parking lot for the times and nights of the week that there are more cars there. The ABS is a neutral "playing field" and ultimately a more safe venue. No worries about some crazy guy hurting you or worse. No issues with "hosting". Don't have to worry about the wife and kids being out of the house. Usually plenty of players there, both "pitchers" and "catchers". I've almost always found an "open mouth" there. If there are Glory Holes, you can trade blow jobs anonymously or just do either - no pressure.

 

[KenM77Florida]

I'm in this situation now. Started texting a friend who knows I want to suck him. His wife is all for it. My wife... not so much

Would love to find a couple where the wife was all for her hubby getting sucked, especially if she was watching & encouraging us. That would be my ideal intro into sucking my first penis.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Would love to find a couple where the wife was all for her hubby getting sucked, especially if she was watching & encouraging us. That would be my ideal intro into sucking my first penis.

I have the exact same fantasy/ desire

 

[KenM77Florida]

I have the exact same fantasy/ desire

Glad I’m not alone. Hope both of our fantasies come true

 

[Lakeman278]

I know hanging out here that there is a large majority of married guys that want to suck cock or find a fwb.

If you look at doublelist or other outlets there’s a long list of guys that are married that want their cock sucked or mutual satisfaction.

Here’s my question: As a married guy that has a kink for big cocks and sucking them, are there a lot more married guys that would consider a guy blowing them under the right circumstances if they knew it would remain on the DL? On a forum like this there’s a concentration of individuals that enjoy things like this, so its not really a true barometer of guys that like getting sucked by other guys.

I’m firmly a member of the guys that are only attracted to cock and not other guys club, and have wondered several times in a situation where a party is winding down or any other situation you can imagine, if other guys wonder if you’ll suck their cock or if they can suck you.

Just coming right out and asking it might make it awkward, but if the conversation turned to oral and I mentioned I enjoy giving it, does that place the seed in the other straight guys head that he could get a blowjob any time he wanted?

Yes just finding trustworthy fwb is hard.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Yes just finding trustworthy fwb is hard.

I agree. Or worse, you get a trust worthy FWB who has a wonderful cock and is very good at pleasing too. You meet many times and each time is better then the last. Every single meet you both have intense orgasms. You even become intimate and its such an erotic feeling. Then the guy gets the guilts and you never hear from him anymore. Its like getting someone addicted to crack and going cold turkey.

 

[JohnCash123]

Would love to find a couple where the wife was all for her hubby getting sucked, especially if she was watching & encouraging us. That would be my ideal intro into sucking my first penis.

I'm hoping this comes to fruition with said couple. However they don't feel comfortable hiding stuff from my wife

 

[Uncut1969]

Would love to find a couple where the wife was all for her hubby getting sucked, especially if she was watching & encouraging us. That would be my ideal intro into sucking my first penis.

Would love to find a couple and have uninhabited fun with both a dream cum true

 

[BiMWMCouple]

We are a bi couple who both enjoy sucking cock together or separately.

 

[KenM77Florida]

Everyone is just so far away

 

[Friesbaconnekkid]

Guys, try Silverdaddies. I found a few of my friends, and one of my cousins on there. It's fun to get together with someone you have known for years, the conversation is hilarious, and you get to suck with someone you already know.

 

[Titidemonta]

Je peux témoigner que nous sommes un couple bi dont moi bi actif et nous avons plusieurs couples amis dont le gars est bien passif et c'est le pied total. On peut vraiment jouer a quatre sans la moindre limite. Rien de plus délicieux de passer du cul de Madame à celui de Monsieur.

 

[KenM77Florida]

Guys, try Silverdaddies. I found a few of my friends, and one of my cousins on there. It's fun to get together with someone you have known for years, the conversation is hilarious, and you get to suck with someone you already know.

Been on SD for over a month now. Wrote to several guys w no response. Got some requests but they were over a hundred miles away. I’ll keep trying for locals. I guess sooner or later, I’ll get my first cock other than my own.

 

[mpeters]

We are a bi couple who both enjoy sucking cock together or separately.

I would love to find a couple like you in my area!

 

[Petitpatapon]

Je peux témoigner que nous sommes un couple bi dont moi bi actif et nous avons plusieurs couples amis dont le gars est bien passif et c'est le pied total. On peut vraiment jouer a quatre sans la moindre limite. Rien de plus délicieux de passer du cul de Madame à celui de Monsieur.

J'aime ca aussi passer d'un cul a l'autre