30 yr old married male in Apple Valley looking for other married females for fun times. Wink wink. No strings attached. Email me at mngoodtimes@hotmail.com.
Married but not dead
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Matt Twattingle
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Male deer
Suzi, In the forest the male buck is never satisfied with just one doe.
The Doe does it with the strongest buck every year.
See my thy neighbors wife post.
It 's a mean trick of nature were all programmed differently
Suzi, In the forest the male buck is never satisfied with just one doe.
The Doe does it with the strongest buck every year.
See my thy neighbors wife post.
It 's a mean trick of nature were all programmed differently
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Nope. Don't buy it.
I am happily married and seriously well-fucked. It happens. And it is pretty terrific to be in lust with the person you love.
P.S. Interesting excuse, but you are not a buck.
I am happily married and seriously well-fucked. It happens. And it is pretty terrific to be in lust with the person you love.
P.S. Interesting excuse, but you are not a buck.
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Suzi
You bet! And the sex is so good . . .
You bet! And the sex is so good . . .
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LOL
Matt Twattingle
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Nothing wrong with commted relationships
But unless you truly believe that you will never seek a divorce, have sex, cyber or otherwise outside that relationship. I would not criticize anyone else.
Many women I know are ture to their lover. But it's a different one every 3 years or so. One lady I know is on number 10. Her average is every 1.4 years.
But unless you truly believe that you will never seek a divorce, have sex, cyber or otherwise outside that relationship. I would not criticize anyone else.
Many women I know are ture to their lover. But it's a different one every 3 years or so. One lady I know is on number 10. Her average is every 1.4 years.
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I didn't mean to imply that it was only men who couldn't maintain monogamy within a marriage. You already did that, when you compared human males to members of the deer species who need to rut with as many females as possible.
We have been married for almost fifteen years. My husband and I both cyber with other people - it is fun, harmless, and we enjoy comparing interesting chats. We are very adventurous sexually, though I don't think we'll ever go so far as to invite another person to join because we don't want to share each other with anyone else.
I think what Suzi and I objected to in this post was the "married men need more than one partner - and hey, that's the way men are, little lady!" attitude. That's simply ridiculous. You'll always find men and women who cannot remain faithful to their partners. Of course it happens, but it is never inevitable - just sad.
We have been married for almost fifteen years. My husband and I both cyber with other people - it is fun, harmless, and we enjoy comparing interesting chats. We are very adventurous sexually, though I don't think we'll ever go so far as to invite another person to join because we don't want to share each other with anyone else.
I think what Suzi and I objected to in this post was the "married men need more than one partner - and hey, that's the way men are, little lady!" attitude. That's simply ridiculous. You'll always find men and women who cannot remain faithful to their partners. Of course it happens, but it is never inevitable - just sad.
Matt Twattingle
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Deer et al
We don't really have a disagreement here. I am in a committed relationship also. Actually as long as yours. You have found an accomodation cyber that is agreeable to everyone. It's great your children if you have any are going to have two parents that's the way it should be in an ideal world.
During that time I have strayed, she strayed. We strayed with 2 other couples but we remained a pair.
We like each other we share fantasy. some of them are about other people. We don't physically swing. We psychologically swing.
We don't really have a disagreement here. I am in a committed relationship also. Actually as long as yours. You have found an accomodation cyber that is agreeable to everyone. It's great your children if you have any are going to have two parents that's the way it should be in an ideal world.
During that time I have strayed, she strayed. We strayed with 2 other couples but we remained a pair.
We like each other we share fantasy. some of them are about other people. We don't physically swing. We psychologically swing.
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That is wonderful to hear, actually! I think loving, creative couples can find ways to stay together without physically straying. More couples should figure out ways to fuck like bunnies and still be monogamous!
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Re: Re: Married but not dead
love, hon , love
but then life gets complicated
in my case, our staying married symbolizes our mutual committment to raising our kids in a stable home. That doesn't change the fact my wife prefers sex with older guys, leaving me with excessive sperm ( I would say on my hands, but the whole point of looking is to find someone that wants it elsewhere than my hands).
Suzi said:
love, hon , love
but then life gets complicated
in my case, our staying married symbolizes our mutual committment to raising our kids in a stable home. That doesn't change the fact my wife prefers sex with older guys, leaving me with excessive sperm ( I would say on my hands, but the whole point of looking is to find someone that wants it elsewhere than my hands).
Re: Re: Re: Married but not dead
so you are saying, Sir, that you and the wife have an "open" marriage, right? It is different if you and she know she is doin' her thing and she expects you to also...I have a problem with the men who are "Yes dear" and "No dear" to the wife, kisses her good bye...goes to work...and at some point ends up screwing someone else...then goes home, acting like the family man, the loving husband.....the hypocrite!
sirhugs said:
so you are saying, Sir, that you and the wife have an "open" marriage, right? It is different if you and she know she is doin' her thing and she expects you to also...I have a problem with the men who are "Yes dear" and "No dear" to the wife, kisses her good bye...goes to work...and at some point ends up screwing someone else...then goes home, acting like the family man, the loving husband.....the hypocrite!
I Just Wanted To Bump This Thread....
...because my sweetie needs to know that despite my tearful indecisiveness...that he is the one for me. THE only one for me. If I do not want HIM messing around at school while I am here doing my mother bit...then it is only fair that I don't mess around at night....(just cuz I feel the need to "get some"). That is called a double-standard. That is something I do not subscribe to. I had my mom gently drill that into my head today in a conversation...and it hit home. The plain and simple fact is:
I love you airborne...I always will....and I PROMISE...I will save myself for you and only you untill you are finished with school and we can be together. (Please tell me we still see each other for my birthday?) You are worth waiting for....if I have to leave Lit. to stay out of trouble, I'll do it.
...because my sweetie needs to know that despite my tearful indecisiveness...that he is the one for me. THE only one for me. If I do not want HIM messing around at school while I am here doing my mother bit...then it is only fair that I don't mess around at night....(just cuz I feel the need to "get some"). That is called a double-standard. That is something I do not subscribe to. I had my mom gently drill that into my head today in a conversation...and it hit home. The plain and simple fact is:
I love you airborne...I always will....and I PROMISE...I will save myself for you and only you untill you are finished with school and we can be together. (Please tell me we still see each other for my birthday?
) You are worth waiting for....if I have to leave Lit. to stay out of trouble, I'll do it.Similar threads
