Married but looking???

[bw08641]

Are you a married woman, but looking for a discreet, online male to exchange erotic emails with? Something to spice up an otherwise boring marriage?

I am not looking for a relationship, just some erotic online fun. How about you?

If interested, email me at:

mpea08641@hotmail.com

 

[misshum]

More power to ya!

I personally am neither bored nor married, but I know some married friends who have talked about having a secret online relationship with someone via writing erotic emails back and forth. They say it really gets them hot and ready for their hubby when he comes home! So, I guess they use it as sort of a marital aid.

Oh, well, whatever works. Hope you find what you're looking for!

 

[bw08641]

Thanks!

That's all I am looking for, too. I am not interested in starting a physical relationship with anyone. But I do like erotic emails and maybe there are women out there who would like someone to email with for a while. No strings attached.

 

[spreadwide]

Hi

That's all I am looking for, too. I am not interested in starting a physical relationship with anyone. But I do like erotic emails and maybe there are women out there who would like someone to email with for a while. No strings attached.

I'm new to Lit and a little nervous emailing people but your thread sounded interesting. I am happily married and would NEVER think of cheating in another physical relationship, but have been curious about an online relationship STRICTLY.

I guess I am just nervous about it. If I decide to...I will email you.

 

[bw08641]

I'm new to Lit and a little nervous emailing people but your thread sounded interesting. I am happily married and would NEVER think of cheating in another physical relationship, but have been curious about an online relationship STRICTLY.

I guess I am just nervous about it. If I decide to...I will email you.

I TOTALLY understand! Only email if you really want to. I am in no way wanting to start anything physical, but it gets lonely sometimes when your spouse seems to have lost all interest in sex. So I figured it would be a great alternative to at least get that sexual need met through erotic emails.

 

[spreadwide]

I TOTALLY understand! Only email if you really want to. I am in no way wanting to start anything physical, but it gets lonely sometimes when your spouse seems to have lost all interest in sex. So I figured it would be a great alternative to at least get that sexual need met through erotic emails.

I know what you mean. Too bad your wife doesn't meet your needs. That can be difficult.

 

[fqc]

I know how you feel, my girlfriend seems to think once or twice a month after her "week" is enough . I would never cheat on her with someone else, but a little bit of fun online gets me thru the days she says no.

 

[lovetochat1972]

I think more and more that is what I am looking for is online chat with other married women. I am not just looking for erotic chat, but maybe some insite on what a married woman is thinking or needs. I have been married for 9 yrs and am always loooking for ideas. Wife is usually to tired or busy to really sit down and talk and tell you the truth, I think talking to someone else might make it easier to discuss problems. Glad to hear from the rest of you.

 

[TonyUK]

Lots of new guys here - keep joining in the threads rather than looking for something specific and chances are - you'll meet the right person, whatever it is you're looking for!

 

[ima6uldv8]

Poor guys. Sorry, not married here. Hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[fqc]

This is a new guy.

Lots of new guys here - keep joining in the threads rather than looking for something specific and chances are - you'll meet the right person, whatever it is you're looking for!

Well, Its just kind of hard to just jump in a thread when theres 200 pages already written... So I just start up my own and jump in whatever new threads emerge or post in the ones that wont take me the better part of the night to read up on

 

[spreadwide]

I think more and more that is what I am looking for is online chat with other married women. I am not just looking for erotic chat, but maybe some insite on what a married woman is thinking or needs. I have been married for 9 yrs and am always loooking for ideas. Wife is usually to tired or busy to really sit down and talk and tell you the truth, I think talking to someone else might make it easier to discuss problems. Glad to hear from the rest of you.

Well, I can't say everything is "perfect" in our relationship, but what I need as a woman (and wife) is for my husband to pay more attention to "me." I try to be considerate of his needs, but when football season comes or hunting or whatever else he enjoys doing, I get put on the back-burner. I am not so self-absorbed as to think his entire life (24/7) must involve or revolve around me, but I "do" want him to consider what "I" need, too.

Men sometimes think that if he is not needing sex right then, that she isn't either. I love sex and seem to want it more than him. But because he gets so consumed with "his" interests, he doesn't seem to notice what I need.

Hope this helps.

 

[LibraStud]

Well, I can't say everything is "perfect" in our relationship, but what I need as a woman (and wife) is for my husband to pay more attention to "me." I try to be considerate of his needs, but when football season comes or hunting or whatever else he enjoys doing, I get put on the back-burner. I am not so self-absorbed as to think his entire life (24/7) must involve or revolve around me, but I "do" want him to consider what "I" need, too.

Men sometimes think that if he is not needing sex right then, that she isn't either. I love sex and seem to want it more than him. But because he gets so consumed with "his" interests, he doesn't seem to notice what I need.

Hope this helps.

Women in general have a need to talk and to be listened to ( it is a statistical fact that women say 50% more words than men do, daily - LOL). If a married couple both work, then they develop social interests outside of their marriage. I believe that problems tend to begin when one or the other spends their time alone during the day, waiting for their partner to come home.

 

[misshum]

Well, I can't say everything is "perfect" in our relationship, but what I need as a woman (and wife) is for my husband to pay more attention to "me." I try to be considerate of his needs, but when football season comes or hunting or whatever else he enjoys doing, I get put on the back-burner. I am not so self-absorbed as to think his entire life (24/7) must involve or revolve around me, but I "do" want him to consider what "I" need, too.

Men sometimes think that if he is not needing sex right then, that she isn't either. I love sex and seem to want it more than him. But because he gets so consumed with "his" interests, he doesn't seem to notice what I need.

Hope this helps.

Well said, Spreadwide! While a woman should not expect to be the center of attention all the time, they should at least "have" their husband's attention when they are together.

 

[spreadwide]

Thank you for understanding, MissHum. I get so little attention from him that even though I would NEVER be unfaithful to him physically, when another man does look at me, it almost gets me hot.

 

[MarkSand]

I have been in a platonic marriage for years. It functions as a practical partnership but there's little emotional intimacy. I miss that as much as the sex. But while I haven't been unfaithful physically, my fantasy life has flourished, and when I detect interest from other women, it's enormously flattering and exciting to me, too

 

[robbrady321]

Marriage

I am in a happy marriage, well 85% vs 15%. I think that's lucky. My wife is lucky because my ONLY sports interest if fishing. I use this board to feed my fantasies. I am kinkier than her, well at least I will admit that I am. She has fantasies about other women, she has told me, and she can downright nasty after a few drinks. But she's way to uptight to act on most of her fantasies. I got most of that out of me before I got married. I still love to fantasize about real naughty things but am able to keep them to fantasies and still be satisfied. Sometimes I use the board to get real worked up then give her something to remember. I do not think it matters where the desire came from as long as either please myself or spend it on her.

 

[robbrady321]

Hello Spreadwide. Don't be too uptight about this. You are not having a deep emotional relationship here. Or, at least don't let one develop. Light friendships, and a sharing of intimate thoughts and desires. If you want to, then contact me, I love PM's, but read my post above this one first to know where I am coming from.
Have a good one, plus your husband should treat you better, you sound like a nice woman.
Rob

 

[pleaser24]

I know how you feel, my girlfriend seems to think once or twice a month after her "week" is enough . I would never cheat on her with someone else, but a little bit of fun online gets me thru the days she says no.

I'm in the same exact situation, I would never physically cheat either. I have had one online relationship with a married woman and it really did have a positive effect on my real world relationship. I'm defintley not into erotic chat as much as talking causally about sexual fantasies and things like that.

 

[robbrady321]

I'm defintley not into erotic chat as much as talking causally about sexual fantasies and things like that.

Totally agree, would rather communicate than try to type real fast, and with just one hand, hahaha

 

[pleaser24]

Totally agree, would rather communicate than try to type real fast, and with just one hand, hahaha

Haha, exactly!

 

[misshum]

Totally agree, would rather communicate than try to type real fast, and with just one hand, hahaha

Oh, my...you boys are making me blush reading this!

 

[robbrady321]

Well, MissHum, from your avatar you are making do something but it's definately not blush! What do you get from lit?

 

[nnyman]

This is an area that interests me as well. It seems after years of marriage, I find the need for outside stimulation of the brain. I would never cheat, but have had a few online friends who love to have fun. It seems to provide enough outside excitement. I think the mind is a beautiful thing to use to its potential.

 

[SSUSMC]

Hello Everyone

Hi Everyone;

I'm new here to the discussion boards. I'm a 23 yr. old Male in North Carolina where I am stationed as I am serving in the United States Marine Corps. I'm married but sexually unsatisfied and thought I would post here. Looking to have some fun on-line and maybe meet. Need some good sex.