Married, but Frustrated in Chicago...

[medstudent78]

Hi all, I feel strange posting this, but I am a 6'1" 180lb married man in the chicago area, but my wife makes me feel like a lonely bachelor. No matter how I try she just isn't interested in sex anymore. She has used every excuse from to tired to to sore.

I have tried romance, excitement, danger, etc. Anything to get her attention, but she just doesn't seem to want to play anymore. Anyone in the same situation?

I am just looking for someone who knows my plight, and perhaps could offer advice, an outlet to vent frustration, or ?. Anyway, email me or post. I hope to here from you soon.

 

[briand1000]

i understand

i wish i could offer you a suggestion besides talking to her take care

 

[Lady Jane Scarlet]

Hmmm...

If you want, you can e-mail me. Let me try to ease your fustrations. I am in a similar predicament, my man is in the army and he really has no time.



Jane

 

[medstudent78]

I know that my situation is not a unique one out there. I am sure there are tons of people who are unhappy with their spouses lack of sexual interest.

Am I the only one who spends nights lying in bed fantasizing about the women I know or maybe just met that day? Thinking of how they would respond to a romantic evening followed by exciting and adventurous sex?

If there are people out there who know this frustration, let me know...

 

[medstudent78]

Any women who are looking for a pen pal to share frustrations with?

 

[CatEyes]

Any women who are looking for a pen pal to share frustrations with?

If you really want to talk about your situation you might want to pop into the post called "Married but frustrated in West Michigan" it's about the same thing your talking about. I don't think they really care if you're not in Michigan.

CatEyes

 

[karessmenow]

I understand where you're coming from. I am also married and consider myself attractive enough, but my husband just doesn't seem to know or how to give me what i'm needing. Sometimes i fantasize about what it would be like to have someone touch me and kiss and carress me :actual foreplay... instead of once or twice a week and then only to satisly his needs and i'm still needing something. Not quite sure what it is i'm after but definatley not a fullfilling relationship.I just know there has to be more out there than this.

 

[cjn54]

I can see that I am far from the only man married who has a non-existant sex life. Sad though all I ever wanted to do was to love a woman, when I got the chance it did not seem to be enough.

I wish I had answers to this kind of a situation, but I do not.

 

[Lady Jane Scarlet]

Yup....

I've found a really nice way of venting my fustrations and that is writing. Writing instead of actually cheating, I think, is the safest way to go these days. "Pulling Rank" (listed in Erotic couplings) is my fantasy with the commanding officer of my husband and I find that when I see how many people have read it already, its almost like I've already slept with him. Last I checked it was read 7934 times. (God I feel so unfaithful)

Jane

 

[KlownsToTheLeft]

Oh brother, I'm rowin' that boat beside ya. I've been married just two years....I pay the bills for,live with her, sleep beside her, and have never felt so alone in all my life.

 

[Lady Jane Scarlet]

I am a good wife

You know, I am a good wife. I do everything for him. I keep the house clean, (on top of that I'm back in college full time) I iron his shirts and I contribute to the household and help out where ever I can. I am a very highly sexed woman and can live out his wildest fantasies. (I've got french maid, Cleopatra, nurse, moulin rouge, dominatrix costumes you name it, i can probably be it) But hubby here has gotten stuck into a routine and he just isn't taking the bait.

Please tell me what the hell am I doing wrong here?

 

[briand1000]

rowing with other paddle

as i sit here in the same boat 20 years married last 3 without sex other then selfpleasure i am on the edge of wanting a real affair

 

[Schumi48]

Re: I am a good wife

You know, I am a good wife. I do everything for him. I keep the house clean, (on top of that I'm back in college full time) I iron his shirts and I contribute to the household and help out where ever I can. I am a very highly sexed woman and can live out his wildest fantasies. (I've got french maid, Cleopatra, nurse, moulin rouge, dominatrix costumes you name it, i can probably be it) But hubby here has gotten stuck into a routine and he just isn't taking the bait.

Please tell me what the hell am I doing wrong here?

 

[Schumi48]

I wish I had such a wondeful wife like you.
Lets exchange our partners and start a steaming
roleplaying.

Schumi48