man trouble

[alildevilish]

Here I am again with man trouble.

This weekend I spent the weekend with my boyfriend. Everything went great between us or at least I thought. He says he wanted to be honest with me and share everything with me.

So he showed me and email proving this girl he was seeing is ok with us. When I read a line of the email that I asked him about.

She was asking him about something personal about me. I did tell him about it but did ask he not tell anyone.

I told him it hurt my feelings. He said I was blowing things out of proportion. Now he wont take my calls.

What should I do?

 

[AzureAngel]

I think he's being a shithead.

You should castrate him and, when he bitches, tell him he's blowing it out of proportion.

Ha.

 

[Latinababe]

I agree also

 

[alildevilish]

really

so dont call him

 

[Latinababe]

Re: really

so dont call him

I wouldn't... U was just telling him how it made u feel.

 

[lilfrk]

Why does your boyfriend have two girlfriends?

 

[nasty]

He was seeing someone behind your back. Disembowel the fucker.

 

[skitch]

nope

don't call....in a way he'll see that as a victory...i think if it was me, i would. of course, i'd never been so piss shitty to someone such as yourself

Some things are just sacred.

skitch

 

[alildevilish]

he shouldnt

He was seeing someone behind your back. Disembowel the fucker.

It was only a date.... he said. anyway he shoulded me the email saying hes not seeing her and shes cool with it. I only ask for him to call. Ive tried for over and hour

 

[AzureAngel]

Oh. Yeah. If he's seeing someone else... here's what you do.

Castrate him again.

Yeah.

Or get him hard and hack off his Jimjo. If I'm not mistaken, he might just bled to death.

 

[skitch]

this castration thing is giving me the creeps

but she's right

skitch

 

[alildevilish]

I thought my problem

was being imature over him spilling my personal secret to the girl he was semi seeing when we wernt seeing each other for a week or two. I was hoping Id figure out how to fix it. Now my hearts breaking cuz I think hes avoiding me

 

[lilfrk]

Why is your boyfriend having dates with other girls? Is this something you agreed upon?

I'm missing something here I think.

 

[alildevilish]

it

could me be missing the point?

 

[nasty]

Well, he still seems like he's acting like a damn child about it. I mean, he wants to be honest with you,and, when you ask him about something, he gives you the silent treatment. Sounds middleschollish to me,(well, maybe Elementary.)

 

[alexandraaah]

Okay, I'm not as smart as the average bear and it seems we're having some..hmm...communication issues. So, I have a few yes/no questions, so I understand the situation fully, okay?


1) Is this man your boyfriend, and if yes, how long have you been together?

2) Who is this other woman? Did they go out on a date? Do they email?

3) When you say, "He showed me the email" what are you referring to? Why?

4) Why are you trying to call a man who totally broke your trust?

It sounds like he should be calling you, sweets. If he's not, please take all of AA's advice.

 

[AzureAngel]

If he's not, please take all of AA's advice.

Don't forget the castration part. No anesthesia.

 

[alildevilish]

me

Okay, I'm not as smart as the average bear and it seems we're having some..hmm...communication issues. So, I have a few yes/no questions, so I understand the situation fully, okay?


1) Is this man your boyfriend, and if yes, how long have you been together? yes and on and off for a few months

2) Who is this other woman? Did they go out on a date? Do they email? a girl he told me was his friend at first. Yes. They used to but now I have no clue. dont have access to his email

3) When you say, "He showed me the email" what are you referring to? Why? He showed me a email she sent him

4) Why are you trying to call a man who totally broke your trust?
I wanted to talk to him about it to see if he cares

It sounds like he should be calling you, sweets. If he's not, please take all of AA's advice.

 

[penguindance]

 

[lilfrk]

Re: it

could me be missing the point?

I don't know you or the whole situation so I can't really say. But it certainly doesn't sound like the most stable relationship by any means. Just from what little bit you've posted here he sounds like an asshole. You guys have a fight and sorta break up for a week and already he has a new "girlfriend" that he's "just dating". I question his motives bigtime.

And as for spilling your secret well it's just wrong. He had no business telling that other girl anything about you. I think he's just looking for ways to piss you off so you will call it all off and he won't have to. Then he can say "well she broke up with me" and move on to this other girl.

 

[alildevilish]

maybe I wont have to

Don't call him. Then announce to anyone who might answer your telephone that you aren't taking HIS calls. See how it makes him feel. Oh yeah...and go find someone else to see behind HIS back.

I should him this site and he knows I post here. He could be reading this as we speak!

 

[alexandraaah]

To say this guy sounds like a dud is an understatement.

Take it from someone who has historically notorious bad taste in men.

Lose him.

 

[AzureAngel]

Devilish, are you looking at your answers? Good heavens.

This guy has a relationship with someone else. You don't know what it is and you don't trust him enough to believe that it's an innocent thing. He hurt your feelings and broke your trust... and now he won't take your calls. Does he care? Yes, about HIMSELF. And his nuts.

So, seeing as you can't take himself away from him, you need to take his nuts. RAWR.

CASTRATION NOW

 

[AzureAngel]

If you do remove his nuts, I take no responsibility

 

[alildevilish]

I wonder

why some guys dont tell you whats on their minds. And dump girls in emails. I never know now. I could get an email any minute?