Man not cumming during sex

[AnnyMouse28]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

 

[FL30]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

rarely

but there could be outside factors that are influencing him - job, debts, long work hours, drugs, alcohol, school/projects, etc

 

[jackieblue808]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

I've been practicing that for years. It keeps my energy and horniness high

 

[Saint_Ann]

Does he also lose his erection like the last thread you started?

 

[FGB]

Well for me not THAT uncommon.

However to due to an operation I had...well I am not going in that for the fourth or fifth time.

I'm satisfied after a couple of hours anyway, because of way things work present day.

If I stay focused and hammer on it I can cum in fifteen or twenty minutes usually.

Round two might take a while. Three cialis makes for a four hour Fuckathon...

Too much work!

 

[KeithD]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

So, is that you again, TooShyGirl?

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Does he also lose his erection like the last thread you started?

This is the first thread I've ever started or posted to.

 

[Saint_Ann]

This is the first thread I've ever started or posted to.

Sure it is.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Sure it is.

Guess it will be my last too. I thought this would be a safe place to discuss these types of things but I guess not.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Guess it will be my last too. I thought this would be a safe place to discuss these types of things but I guess not.

I dont know what to tell you. Depends on what you mean by safe.

 

[rae121452]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

if he doesn't cum, he's not into you, just doing his duty. move on.

 

[toeskr]

Does he also lose his erection like the last thread you started?

Good catch.

 

[toeskr]

Guess it will be my last too. I thought this would be a safe place to discuss these types of things but I guess not.

When chipbutty gets done bitching, whining, reporting, pretending to ignore and pulls her tongue out of manus ass...

it will be a safe place. Just be patient.

 

[Conager]

It's called anorgasmia. It is more common in women than men. I am anorgasmic at times. Doesn't mean I did not thoroughly enjoy myself.

Women do tend to take it personally, but they should not, any more than a man should take it personally when a woman does not reach orgasm. It happens.

It's more common as men age.

It is sometimes caused by meds, specifically SSRI's (Selective Serotonin reuptake inhibitors like Prozac, paxil, and so on..anti-depressants) SSRI's are sometimes prescribed to help men with the opposite problem, pre-ejaculation where they reach orgasm more quickly than desired. (By her! Ha!)

If we are talking a young, healthy male, no legal or illegal substances, the most likely cause is idiosyncratic masturbatory practices. His penis has gotten used to his masturbation and finds actual intercourse (or other activity) unable to trigger the cascade of hormones and electrical impulses that we all recognize as an orgasm.

Take two aspirin and call me in the morning.

- Dr. Conager

 

[luvemboth]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

The first time I'm with a woman, it's not uncommon at all. It takes me quite a while (for better or worse) on any given encounter, but the first is usually a marathon where either one or both of us are worn out.

 

[KimGordon67]

The guys I have sex with now are in their 50s. This happens a lot, both with my previous BF and the guy I'm seeing now. And no, they're not 'doing their duty', and they are totally into me (or they're exceptionally good liars, although why someone would continue to tell that lie over years is beyond me). In some cases, they've finally realised that the fun bit is the sex, not the cumming. In both of the recent cases, they've been incredibly attentive lovers, and just enjoy making me cum. I stressed about it when it first happened, as you would, assuming it was something I was doing wrong, but now I just go with it. If it means you can have sex for hours, then yay!

 

[dolf]

The last guy I was with never finished during intercourse. How common is it for a man to not cum during sex?

My first thought was, Who cares?

But yeah, just like women, some men don't O that way. Sometimes it's meds, age, stress, booze, tiredness, medical issues or overstimulation, and sometimes it's just how they roll. It doesn't matter. Men aren't machines, and they don't all pop on demand to soothe our egos.

Maybe he needs to finish by hand, or maybe he'd rather roll over and go to sleep. No pressure, guys. You do you.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

My first thought was, Who cares?.

The only reason it was even an issue is because he made a point of telling me I am the only woman he's ever had that "issue" with. Other than that it is a non issue for me, especially as a woman who has never had an orgasm through sex.

 

[dolf]

The only reason it was even an issue is because he made a point of telling me I am the only woman he's ever had that "issue" with. Other than that it is a non issue for me, especially as a woman who has never had an orgasm through sex.

If he needed to make a point of putting it on you, I'd bet money that it's not the first time.

 

[RoryN]

If he needed to make a point of putting it on you, I'd bet money that it's not the first time.

Uh yeah. ^^^This.

 

[mixedcoupledavao]

It's called anorgasmia. It is more common in women than men. I am anorgasmic at times. Doesn't mean I did not thoroughly enjoy myself.

also see " delayed ejaculation"

 

[rockcasbah]

Or...Some of you just aren’t attractive enough.

 

[stickygirl]

The only reason it was even an issue is because he made a point of telling me I am the only woman he's ever had that "issue" with. Other than that it is a non issue for me, especially as a woman who has never had an orgasm through sex.

Maybe he's read too many Cosmo articles explaining that women don't have to orgasm to enjoy sex and feels he needs to show empathy by doing the same? Or maybe he's claiming that to cover up for being tired/unable? It's not your job to fix him but you should leave the door open if he wants to talk about it some more.

That'll be 5c

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/75/c1/ba/75c1baa4db9286d62ba88267b375e6c3.jpg

 

[stickygirl]

Or...Some of you just aren’t attractive enough.

I've heard you've got fussy sperm. Is it a democratic process? Do they flip votes? Do they ban bus rides to polling station for the black ones? Do you have one blue ball and one red one?

 

[rockcasbah]

Just sayin’.... if you partner doesn’t cum, it might be because of you.