ShellShell
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- Apr 17, 2012
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A little bit about me:
I am a MWF, age 47, living in eastern Iowa. I am confident, adventurous, and intelligent both in life and in bed. I'm 5'4", blonde hair, average build (with a few extra pounds after 3 kids), and in excellent health. I have 2 college degrees in science/engineering and have many hobbies and interests. I walk, bike, garden, sew, read gobs of fiction and non-fiction, play recreational volleyball and softball, and enjoy a cold beer on a hot day or wine with dinner.
I will be meeting my college boyfriend Mike in June. We have been emailing each other for a few years. It was all pretty platonic until we started playing on-line Scrabble. He started making comments that were very sexual in nature, and I responded. One thing led to another, and we exchanged NSFW photos and have had phone sex a few times. If this didn't signal his intentions, the fact that he made a hotel reservation for us when he's in the area sure did! He told me that what he wanted to do with me couldn't be done during dinner at a public restaurant. Well, I have been pretty much creaming my panties non-stop! I need practice!!
We were sexually active in college, but that was a long time ago. I think I look really good for my age (I HATE that qualifier), BUT I've gained some weight, and of course I've aged in other ways. My husband isn't interested in anything other than straight missionary position, and he doesn't know anything about Mike, so that's why I am posting here.
I want Mike to remember me as I was (physically), but appreciate my wisdom and maturity too. Yes, I want it both ways!! Anyway, I have been practicing some techniques on my own (below), but I need a male partner to take it to the next level. I haven't been with anyone but my husband for almost 20 years, and I need someone who will give me honest advice and feedback.
Here's what I've been working on:
Vaginal: Kegel exercises; working to strengthen and control vaginal wall contractions
Anal: Experimenting with different lubes and a small butt plug
Oral: Practicing deep throating a dildo
I need further practice in order to perfect my "skills". Also, I have been reading about prostate massage and how it's used to increase and intensify a man's orgasm, and I am anxious to try it out.
Well, if you are still reading, you must be interested, or at least curious. Here's what I am looking for in a volunteer (not in any particular order, as I am writing this stream-of-consciousness style and doing only minimal editing) :
"Requirements"
Male. (duh)
Intelligent and Discreet. Must be able to carry on a discussion that involves more than grunting, moaning, and yelling, "I'm gonna CUMMMMMM!" Since I am married, I don't want this shared with all your buddies. This has to be between me and you only.
Clean shaven, both face and genital area. I am going to go down on you, and I don't want a mouthful of pubes.
Well-groomed and clean. Kind of goes without saying, but we all know what happens when you assume.
Non-smoker. I don't like licking ashtrays.
Disease-free. Condoms will hinder the sensations that I am trying to create.
Natural and Strong Erections. Able to "Get it Up" without the aid of medications, pumps, or whatever else is out there.
Able to travel to my location and host at a nice hotel. Must spend at least 18 hours with me. I am not into "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" or sex in your vehicle.
If mutually agreeable, we could meet regularly for mutual enjoyment. Of course things like time and distance and cost will be factors, but I am open to the idea of a continuing relationship.
I am clean shaven (with a small landing strip), disease free, non smoker, and well groomed. Again, maybe it's stating the obvious. But if I expect you to conform to my wishes, I should adhere to them myself. It's only fair.
What Does NOT matter:
Your age (but you must be over 21). However, I prefer a man from my generation (age 40+) or older, since we will have many of the same cultural touchstones.
Race/Color/Creed/Religion. Just don't try to "save" me or talk about Jesus or God. I'm an atheist after growing up Catholic.
Cock size. Too small or too big will be a problem, but anything in the very large and nebulous "average" range is perfect. More important than length or circumference is how you use your tool!
Bonuses:
Likes going down on a female, like sucking breasts and playing with nipples. Knows how to stimulate a clit to the edge of orgasm - can read a woman's nonverbal signals and responds to suggestions.
Good kisser
Anal. Not afraid of giving and receiving anal stimulation (my finger in your rectum, massaging your prostate; you using your finger in my ass.)
Has had a vasectomy. (I am extremely fertile. I had my last child at age 45 w/o any medical or surgical assistance.)
Control. Can control your orgasms and can wait for me. Can hold still while I ride you.
Vocal. Can talk sexy and dirty but not crude. Moaning and heavy breathing while you are cumming is an incredible turn on!
Ok... if you've made it this far, maybe you are still interested. I have a feeling I'll get gazillions of emails (not to be cocky, but the M/F ratioon this site favors women). There's no way to say this without sounding like an uppity bitch, but I don't want to spend a lot of time weeding out men who aren't serious and who dont meet my basic requirements.
So...if you are interested, reply to this thread, and tell me why you would be the best choice for me. Include your age and any other vital statistics you think are important. I am attaching a couple of photos to this post, so you can get an idea of what I look like. If you're not attracted to me physically, or if from what I've written you think that we'd be incompatible, please don't bother. I want to be with someone who is genuinely attracted to my personality and body, and that can't be faked. Also, send a photo of yourself and an email address via private message, and include any info that you aren't comfortable with sharing in the public forum.
No photo or no age, I won't reply. Sorry. However, if you can't attach a photo here (can't figure out the sizing requirements or or just technically illiterate), explain why, and I may get back to you if the rest of your reply is interesting.
Thanks for reading!
ShellShell
I am a MWF, age 47, living in eastern Iowa. I am confident, adventurous, and intelligent both in life and in bed. I'm 5'4", blonde hair, average build (with a few extra pounds after 3 kids), and in excellent health. I have 2 college degrees in science/engineering and have many hobbies and interests. I walk, bike, garden, sew, read gobs of fiction and non-fiction, play recreational volleyball and softball, and enjoy a cold beer on a hot day or wine with dinner.
I will be meeting my college boyfriend Mike in June. We have been emailing each other for a few years. It was all pretty platonic until we started playing on-line Scrabble. He started making comments that were very sexual in nature, and I responded. One thing led to another, and we exchanged NSFW photos and have had phone sex a few times. If this didn't signal his intentions, the fact that he made a hotel reservation for us when he's in the area sure did! He told me that what he wanted to do with me couldn't be done during dinner at a public restaurant. Well, I have been pretty much creaming my panties non-stop! I need practice!!
We were sexually active in college, but that was a long time ago. I think I look really good for my age (I HATE that qualifier), BUT I've gained some weight, and of course I've aged in other ways. My husband isn't interested in anything other than straight missionary position, and he doesn't know anything about Mike, so that's why I am posting here.
I want Mike to remember me as I was (physically), but appreciate my wisdom and maturity too. Yes, I want it both ways!! Anyway, I have been practicing some techniques on my own (below), but I need a male partner to take it to the next level. I haven't been with anyone but my husband for almost 20 years, and I need someone who will give me honest advice and feedback.
Here's what I've been working on:
Vaginal: Kegel exercises; working to strengthen and control vaginal wall contractions
Anal: Experimenting with different lubes and a small butt plug
Oral: Practicing deep throating a dildo
I need further practice in order to perfect my "skills". Also, I have been reading about prostate massage and how it's used to increase and intensify a man's orgasm, and I am anxious to try it out.
Well, if you are still reading, you must be interested, or at least curious. Here's what I am looking for in a volunteer (not in any particular order, as I am writing this stream-of-consciousness style and doing only minimal editing) :
"Requirements"
Male. (duh)
Intelligent and Discreet. Must be able to carry on a discussion that involves more than grunting, moaning, and yelling, "I'm gonna CUMMMMMM!" Since I am married, I don't want this shared with all your buddies. This has to be between me and you only.
Clean shaven, both face and genital area. I am going to go down on you, and I don't want a mouthful of pubes.
Well-groomed and clean. Kind of goes without saying, but we all know what happens when you assume.
Non-smoker. I don't like licking ashtrays.
Disease-free. Condoms will hinder the sensations that I am trying to create.
Natural and Strong Erections. Able to "Get it Up" without the aid of medications, pumps, or whatever else is out there.
Able to travel to my location and host at a nice hotel. Must spend at least 18 hours with me. I am not into "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" or sex in your vehicle.
If mutually agreeable, we could meet regularly for mutual enjoyment. Of course things like time and distance and cost will be factors, but I am open to the idea of a continuing relationship.
I am clean shaven (with a small landing strip), disease free, non smoker, and well groomed. Again, maybe it's stating the obvious. But if I expect you to conform to my wishes, I should adhere to them myself. It's only fair.
What Does NOT matter:
Your age (but you must be over 21). However, I prefer a man from my generation (age 40+) or older, since we will have many of the same cultural touchstones.
Race/Color/Creed/Religion. Just don't try to "save" me or talk about Jesus or God. I'm an atheist after growing up Catholic.
Cock size. Too small or too big will be a problem, but anything in the very large and nebulous "average" range is perfect. More important than length or circumference is how you use your tool!
Bonuses:
Likes going down on a female, like sucking breasts and playing with nipples. Knows how to stimulate a clit to the edge of orgasm - can read a woman's nonverbal signals and responds to suggestions.
Good kisser
Anal. Not afraid of giving and receiving anal stimulation (my finger in your rectum, massaging your prostate; you using your finger in my ass.)
Has had a vasectomy. (I am extremely fertile. I had my last child at age 45 w/o any medical or surgical assistance.)
Control. Can control your orgasms and can wait for me. Can hold still while I ride you.
Vocal. Can talk sexy and dirty but not crude. Moaning and heavy breathing while you are cumming is an incredible turn on!
Ok... if you've made it this far, maybe you are still interested. I have a feeling I'll get gazillions of emails (not to be cocky, but the M/F ratioon this site favors women). There's no way to say this without sounding like an uppity bitch, but I don't want to spend a lot of time weeding out men who aren't serious and who dont meet my basic requirements.
So...if you are interested, reply to this thread, and tell me why you would be the best choice for me. Include your age and any other vital statistics you think are important. I am attaching a couple of photos to this post, so you can get an idea of what I look like. If you're not attracted to me physically, or if from what I've written you think that we'd be incompatible, please don't bother. I want to be with someone who is genuinely attracted to my personality and body, and that can't be faked. Also, send a photo of yourself and an email address via private message, and include any info that you aren't comfortable with sharing in the public forum.
No photo or no age, I won't reply. Sorry. However, if you can't attach a photo here (can't figure out the sizing requirements or or just technically illiterate), explain why, and I may get back to you if the rest of your reply is interesting.
Thanks for reading!
ShellShell
