I've been with two guys many times over the years, even three a few times.
The trick is to relax and not get all anxious and uptight. You need to really just get into it and love the moment. Maybe a couple of beers will help you ease into it. I'm a bottom, and I vastly prefer being topped--both orally and anally. It's fun and it's a super turn on, especially if things get a little kinky. I really get turned on when people watch, which has happened maybe five or six times. Feeling slutty and a little dirty and that makes me incredibly hot.
The trick is to relax and not get all anxious and uptight. You need to really just get into it and love the moment. Maybe a couple of beers will help you ease into it. I'm a bottom, and I vastly prefer being topped--both orally and anally. It's fun and it's a super turn on, especially if things get a little kinky. I really get turned on when people watch, which has happened maybe five or six times. Feeling slutty and a little dirty and that makes me incredibly hot.