Hi Lit,
30s, fit, professional, Caucasian male and occasional peruse-er of the lit personals here, in a low sex marriage and looking for a bit more stimulation. I have a little sub/dom experience but this would be my first since getting hitched. In the past I've done the sort of "wannabe cuckold" zero-masturbation or orgasms scenario, ritualized and routine masturbation scenario, a little feminization, some pain stuff, some vibrator induced forced-orgasm stuff, and so on, but all only at a fairly vanilla level.
To date, as a sub, I've always been pretty specific, probably too specific, about the scenario I was looking for. In part, I contribute this as one of the reason's I've never had the chance to enjoy a sub/dom relationship in the longer term (I have had several which lasted a decent while, but not quite what you would call long). Now, I feel like I ought to leave the scenario and style up to my future master/mistress (i.e. you!). What I can say is that I prefer being given set boundaries and parameters for what I can and can't do (the basic rule-set for serving you(ex: lots of masturbation, no masturbation, must wear this, can't wear that, must eat this, can't eat that, may not view any female nudity, forced viewing of nude females, etc..., you get the idea; again, whatever rule(s) will be up to you!)), and that I respond best to task-based and reward-based regimentation which you can use to train and domesticate me into your preferred variety of sub. Also, and I thinks this goes for most but I can't handle a 180 degree change of course right off the bat! I've tried the full-commitment no masturbation for 1/2/3 months from the start of the relationship-style scenario in the past, and it was just too hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Whichever direction you'd like to take me in, and it's up to you, I would just say that I respond much better to starting smaller with more frequent masturbation rewards to get me hooked as your sub.
I'm looking for someone who enjoys the dom/sub mental aspect of the relationship who is looking to *train* a sub, very hopefully, for the long term if we click (read: not just having me jack off once to your favorite 5 minutes of porn), who is willing to allow for a measure of privacy and understands and respects the fact that I'm a working professional (it goes without saying that I will respect you and your situation as well), who doesn't mind correspondence via email(zxq9 at protonmail dot com). No, my wife will not be involved or aware. Just for clarification, so long as you are of legal age and have a firm grasp of the Master/Mistress and sub mentality (important), I don't mind where you're from or if you're male or female.
Sorry for the novel, and I hope to hear back from you soon.
30s, fit, professional, Caucasian male and occasional peruse-er of the lit personals here, in a low sex marriage and looking for a bit more stimulation. I have a little sub/dom experience but this would be my first since getting hitched. In the past I've done the sort of "wannabe cuckold" zero-masturbation or orgasms scenario, ritualized and routine masturbation scenario, a little feminization, some pain stuff, some vibrator induced forced-orgasm stuff, and so on, but all only at a fairly vanilla level.
To date, as a sub, I've always been pretty specific, probably too specific, about the scenario I was looking for. In part, I contribute this as one of the reason's I've never had the chance to enjoy a sub/dom relationship in the longer term (I have had several which lasted a decent while, but not quite what you would call long). Now, I feel like I ought to leave the scenario and style up to my future master/mistress (i.e. you!). What I can say is that I prefer being given set boundaries and parameters for what I can and can't do (the basic rule-set for serving you(ex: lots of masturbation, no masturbation, must wear this, can't wear that, must eat this, can't eat that, may not view any female nudity, forced viewing of nude females, etc..., you get the idea; again, whatever rule(s) will be up to you!)), and that I respond best to task-based and reward-based regimentation which you can use to train and domesticate me into your preferred variety of sub. Also, and I thinks this goes for most but I can't handle a 180 degree change of course right off the bat! I've tried the full-commitment no masturbation for 1/2/3 months from the start of the relationship-style scenario in the past, and it was just too hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Whichever direction you'd like to take me in, and it's up to you, I would just say that I respond much better to starting smaller with more frequent masturbation rewards to get me hooked as your sub.
I'm looking for someone who enjoys the dom/sub mental aspect of the relationship who is looking to *train* a sub, very hopefully, for the long term if we click (read: not just having me jack off once to your favorite 5 minutes of porn), who is willing to allow for a measure of privacy and understands and respects the fact that I'm a working professional (it goes without saying that I will respect you and your situation as well), who doesn't mind correspondence via email(zxq9 at protonmail dot com). No, my wife will not be involved or aware. Just for clarification, so long as you are of legal age and have a firm grasp of the Master/Mistress and sub mentality (important), I don't mind where you're from or if you're male or female.
Sorry for the novel, and I hope to hear back from you soon.
