LifeIsJazz81
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- Jun 18, 2015
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Hi everyone,
I'm a 33-year-old software developer from the Toronto area. I'm married with a four-year-old, but there are some parts of the marriage, especially the sex, that have always been disappointing. I'm not going to go into detail on a public forum, but I'm a very open person and would talk about this one-on-one. I'm not leaving, mostly for my son's sake, and my way of dealing with problems I can't solve is to discretely look for someone online, rather than remain unhappy.
I'm hoping to find someone with whom I can talk regularly and form a good personal connection, with online sex being a part of that. The only traits I'm looking for is someone who is fairly available and is intelligent and adventurous. I'm comfortable with females of any body type or ethnicity. Age only matters to me in the sense that you're 18 or older and that we can find ways to relate; that can be harder, but isn't impossible, the bigger the gap in our ages, so I'm not going to stick to a fixed age range. I'm married, as I said; your relationship status doesn't matter to me as long as you're comfortable with my situation (and perhaps in a similar situation yourself; that does give us an extra way in which to connect, right off the bat).
I'm in the EST time zone, and am available on and off during the workday (usually just for conversation, but I do work from home one day a week) and from 11:00 PM onwards almost every night. If you're able to be around in similar hours to me, where you're from doesn't matter.
Here's a bit more about me. I'm on the heavy side, so if that's not your preference in body type, no problem. I have a very active and creative mind and love trying and experiencing new things. I write software for a living and sometimes work on my own projects on the side. My soul is music, though. I'm a keyboard player, playing many styles of music from jazz and funk to rock and pop, and I listen to a lot more than I play and always have a song going in my head (and if my coworkers are lucky, it stays there; if not, I'll often be tapping to the beat on my desk). I'm currently looking for the last two members in a jazz band I've formed and I'm learning to write and arrange music in that capacity. I play a lot of video games, read a fair bit, and spend a few hours each week at the gym.
If I sound interesting, let's talk! I will be slow to respond during the workday because I don't visit Lit on the work network. I get e-mail notifications of new private messages, though, so I can respond, it's just not as quick as visiting Lit and replying from my computer.
I'm a 33-year-old software developer from the Toronto area. I'm married with a four-year-old, but there are some parts of the marriage, especially the sex, that have always been disappointing. I'm not going to go into detail on a public forum, but I'm a very open person and would talk about this one-on-one. I'm not leaving, mostly for my son's sake, and my way of dealing with problems I can't solve is to discretely look for someone online, rather than remain unhappy.
I'm hoping to find someone with whom I can talk regularly and form a good personal connection, with online sex being a part of that. The only traits I'm looking for is someone who is fairly available and is intelligent and adventurous. I'm comfortable with females of any body type or ethnicity. Age only matters to me in the sense that you're 18 or older and that we can find ways to relate; that can be harder, but isn't impossible, the bigger the gap in our ages, so I'm not going to stick to a fixed age range. I'm married, as I said; your relationship status doesn't matter to me as long as you're comfortable with my situation (and perhaps in a similar situation yourself; that does give us an extra way in which to connect, right off the bat).
I'm in the EST time zone, and am available on and off during the workday (usually just for conversation, but I do work from home one day a week) and from 11:00 PM onwards almost every night. If you're able to be around in similar hours to me, where you're from doesn't matter.
Here's a bit more about me. I'm on the heavy side, so if that's not your preference in body type, no problem. I have a very active and creative mind and love trying and experiencing new things. I write software for a living and sometimes work on my own projects on the side. My soul is music, though. I'm a keyboard player, playing many styles of music from jazz and funk to rock and pop, and I listen to a lot more than I play and always have a song going in my head (and if my coworkers are lucky, it stays there; if not, I'll often be tapping to the beat on my desk). I'm currently looking for the last two members in a jazz band I've formed and I'm learning to write and arrange music in that capacity. I play a lot of video games, read a fair bit, and spend a few hours each week at the gym.
If I sound interesting, let's talk! I will be slow to respond during the workday because I don't visit Lit on the work network. I get e-mail notifications of new private messages, though, so I can respond, it's just not as quick as visiting Lit and replying from my computer.
