Male Seduction

[up_all_night]

How do you attract a man if you are already married but want to have a male fling? Where do you go? And what relaxes the butt best for anal sex?

 

[fgarvb1]

I tell you people time and time again...DON'T LEAVE THE FUCKTARD GATE OPEN!

But NOOOOOOO!

 

[silverwhisper]

up all night, you'd do well to post this in the playground (subforum of lit personals). most how to regulars do not respond positively to efforts at engaging in adultery.

ed

 

[up_all_night]

So, um.. that's a negative then wise guy, all seerer and person with all knowledge of everything ever. Because, don't fucking criticise just because you feel you know all about something that someone else might not be so clever about. I'm sure there is something you don't know everything about and could be chastished for, so, unless you have something positive to say...SHUT THE FUCK UP.

 

[silverwhisper]

if you think that's judgmental, you're a fucking moron who has no place on teh internets!!!111

twit.

ed

 

[up_all_night]

EH? Speak english please

 

[silverwhisper]

do yourself a favor and re-post your thread here, up all night. the folks there are a lot more receptive to the kind of conversation you're after.

i apologize for my original response: i thought you were replying to me, but i see that probably isn't the case. sorry about that!

ed

 

[up_all_night]

my comments were aimed at the first How do you attract a man if you are already married but want to have a male fling? Where do you go? And what relaxes the butt best for anal sex?erson to reply, the fgary person, not a very nice welcome

 

[silverwhisper]

yeah, i see that now. :>

as to anal: really, the best thing you can do to prep for anal sex is to start masturbating anally, to become accustomed to it, and definitely use lube. i suggest reading this thread, btw.

i may not like what you're doing, but: 1) there's no sense getting injured doing it and 2) i don't know squat about your situation.

ed

 

[up_all_night]

silverwhisper, I was not having any gripe at you/ It was at the first reply, garysomething. I posted a perfectly sound question so I thought, being new to the site, and was responded with by a foul and negative comment. If this is not the place for such questions then so be it, I will go else where. But if I am responded to with negativity I will give it back. Sorry, but that's the way it is. Again, no gripe with you. Thanks.

 

[silverwhisper]

no big deal: as i said, i misread.

having said that, i'll confess i'm kinda curious what your situation is. if you aren't comfortable discussing it, that's quite all right, too.

ed

 

[up_all_night]

Apologies. You say you don't like what I'm doing? Well, what am I doing? Using this website, like we and many others are doing. I ask a question, out of curiosity, that is all. Yes I have an interest in this area but I'm just asking, that is all

 

[up_all_night]

Man, you keep posting your replies before I answer the first question- it sounds like I'm giving out to you all the time! Hell, no. I'd like to discuss, perhaps offline sometime?

 

[silverwhisper]

up all night queried:
how do you attract a man if you are already married but want to have a male fling? where do you go? and what relaxes the butt best for anal sex?

when someone with only 2 previous posts puts a question like this up, this means a few things to me:

1. this is someone about whom i know nothing.
2. because this is being asked by someone i do not know, i cannot safely assume this is a hypothetical question.

like i said, i don't know squat about your situation. there are cases where to be perfectly honest, i think that infidelity actually is the proper course of action. indeed, good two friends of mine were in such a situation earlier this year.

having said that: on this discussion forum, that's far and away the less common case.

neither i, nor anyone else who reads this thread, has any way of knowing.



heh...i just read your follow-up reply: sorry about that. :>

ed

 

[up_all_night]

here we go again! you sound like a nice person I could chat with. Could you lend an ear anytime?

 

[silverwhisper]

if you like you can send me a private message.

alternately, you could simply post it as a thread, but i imagine you might not be quite comfortable with that.

ed

 

[fgarvb1]

Don't hand me that bullshit, You are a fucking Troll.

You posted this thread on the general board too.

 

[up_all_night]

So, as a new user, am I supposed to know what threads I can / cannot use? If I am misdirecting my comments then please, let me know, but with less aggression please.

 

[Eilan]

GLBT board?

 

[up_all_night]

I'm a new user. Why the negativity?

 

[fgarvb1]

OK. I decided to give this Guy a chance here in case I made a mistake, and at this point it look like I might have...

My apologies sir.

I didn't realize you were serious.

 

[emap]

You meet guys to have an affair with in the same place you find guys to have singles sex with, bars and clubs.

No seriously, 90% of the people at a club are there to try and score, the rest are working, just broke up with someone, or is happily attached and out with friends.

If you want to meet a guy for sex, go to a club, wear as little as possible and be legal and get your hiney out onto the dance floor. The only things that change are if you happen to be a guy looking for guys for sex or a woman looking for guys for sex, mostly that just changes where you go of course.