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[intrestedlooker]

I am a 54 year old male possibly Bi. I live in the Abilene Tx area, I got courious about bisexuality homosexuality and bacsilly cock sucking. I have been ribbed forever about it,so I put adds on Craigs list and every site that I could think of saying I was willing and wanted to suck till commpletion,. I even let it be known that I would like to be the pivot person in a circle jerk or gang bang, no positive results very few takers. Is this the result of the area I live in or is it that men are so afraid of being labled that they will not say I will? Are men basiclly afraid of sex and being called a slut?

 

[texharley]

I am a 54 year old male possibly Bi. I live in the Abilene Tx area, I got courious about bisexuality homosexuality and bacsilly cock sucking. I have been ribbed forever about it,so I put adds on Craigs list and every site that I could think of saying I was willing and wanted to suck till commpletion,. I even let it be known that I would like to be the pivot person in a circle jerk or gang bang, no positive results very few takers. Is this the result of the area I live in or is it that men are so afraid of being labled that they will not say I will? Are men basiclly afraid of sex and being called a slut?

It could be the area you live in. I don't know how true it is but I heard on TV news that Craigs list is being investigated for sex ads. I have attended some XXX movies where is is real easy to experience MM sex but you never know who you are sucking.

 

[horsie_gurl]

Why do you want to advertise on Craig's list? I think that would be the absolute last place I would go for sex. Wouldn't it be safer to even go to a social place with other gay men and actually meet someone so you know more than nothing. That would be safer than craig's list. Even safer would be to find someone you trust and know would be understanding for your first time.

But thats just my opinion.

 

[Etoile]

Have you tried the 220 Club?

 

[iswallowloads]

You just have to be patient. You could cruise local hot spots, but that's not very safe. Have you tried squirt.org? It's not perfect, but you'll probably find a lot of men in your position, and it provides the best screening process IMO.

 

[Etoile]

I'm confused; how is Squirt any safer than CL or meeting a guy in a bar? (220 Club is Abilene's only gay bar, BTW.) What added screening is there on Squirt that other methods don't have? Seems to me it's essential to wear protection with ANY of these sources...you can't trust anybody more than anybody else.

 

[iswallowloads]

I'm confused; how is Squirt any safer than CL or meeting a guy in a bar? (220 Club is Abilene's only gay bar, BTW.) What added screening is there on Squirt that other methods don't have? Seems to me it's essential to wear protection with ANY of these sources...you can't trust anybody more than anybody else.

Well, for one squirt is a membership site, so it has e-mail and chat. Secondly, it has a feature called a 'scorecard' (stupid name, but I didn't choose it), where people can leave comments about their experiences with you. It's also anonymous, until you choose to give out info to other members.

I followed three simple rules and had some very good experiences. I didn't even consider a guy that didn't have pictures, I always met for coffee at least once before doing anything, and I never gave out my number or address until I was ready to have some fun. If a guy doesn't want to go along with that, he's not worth my time.

I tried CL three times. None of which turned out well. The bar scene has it's place, but I personally wouldn't go home with someone I just met in a bar. And I'm a big guy that's had self defense training. Plus, we all know the effects alcohol has on judgement (yours and the other person).

Like I said, squirt's not perfect, but you have ample more opportunity to find someone you can trust. You just need a little patience.

 

[Etoile]

Well, for one squirt is a membership site, so it has e-mail and chat. Secondly, it has a feature called a 'scorecard' (stupid name, but I didn't choose it), where people can leave comments about their experiences with you. It's also anonymous, until you choose to give out info to other members.

I followed three simple rules and had some very good experiences. I didn't even consider a guy that didn't have pictures, I always met for coffee at least once before doing anything, and I never gave out my number or address until I was ready to have some fun. If a guy doesn't want to go along with that, he's not worth my time.

I tried CL three times. None of which turned out well. The bar scene has it's place, but I personally wouldn't go home with someone I just met in a bar. And I'm a big guy that's had self defense training. Plus, we all know the effects alcohol has on judgement (yours and the other person).

Like I said, squirt's not perfect, but you have ample more opportunity to find someone you can trust. You just need a little patience.

WOW!! It has changed a lot from the last time I looked at it, then. Last time I saw squirt I don't think they had membership or anything like that. Good for them! Glad to hear it.

 

[iswallowloads]

Still not perfect, but I don't think the site owners can do anything about that. My biggest problem has been with guys that don't read my profile and hit me up for things I'm not into. Or the ones that just want a quick hookup, and can't take no for an answer.

 

[alaskabibear]

I am a 54 year old male possibly Bi. I live in the Abilene Tx area, I got courious about bisexuality homosexuality and bacsilly cock sucking. I have been ribbed forever about it,so I put adds on Craigs list and every site that I could think of saying I was willing and wanted to suck till commpletion,. I even let it be known that I would like to be the pivot person in a circle jerk or gang bang, no positive results very few takers. Is this the result of the area I live in or is it that men are so afraid of being labled that they will not say I will? Are men basiclly afraid of sex and being called a slut?

At first I thought you were a "bi-curious" guy who wanted to find a local buddy or two. But after reading your past posts, I understand that you are interested in something far removed from that!

If you really want to be involved in black-on-white gang bangs of you and your girlfriend, I would have to say that; Yes, your problem is that you live in Abilene, TX.

If you really want to try and fulfill this thing, I'd say you should do a craigslist ad in Dallas. The kind of people you're looking for is what craigslist is famous for and you should be able to find plenty of takers in Dallas. Dallas is just a couple of hours from Abilene, so just do an ad saying that you have a white woman, you have a room, etc..give the date, make arrangements how to meet your "guests" and go to the big city.

(I guess you know this, but for my own peace I do feel obligated to add; You do know that you have gone over the edge with your sexual obsession- si, comprende? The game you propose to play is fraught with many dangers as I'm sure you know...sometimes fantasy is best left as fantasy...)

 

[Etoile]

At first I thought you were a "bi-curious" guy who wanted to find a local buddy or two. But after reading your past posts, I understand that you are interested in something far removed from that!

If you really want to be involved in black-on-white gang bangs of you and your girlfriend, I would have to say that; Yes, your problem is that you live in Abilene, TX.

If you really want to try and fulfill this thing, I'd say you should do a craigslist ad in Dallas. The kind of people you're looking for is what craigslist is famous for and you should be able to find plenty of takers in Dallas. Dallas is just a couple of hours from Abilene, so just do an ad saying that you have a white woman, you have a room, etc..give the date, make arrangements how to meet your "guests" and go to the big city.

(I guess you know this, but for my own peace I do feel obligated to add; You do know that you have gone over the edge with your sexual obsession- si, comprende? The game you propose to play is fraught with many dangers as I'm sure you know...sometimes fantasy is best left as fantasy...)

WHOA. Nice catch. Yeah, starting to look like all talk no action here. Been at this since last summer!