HereAgain714
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My partner has a low sex drive and I'm trying to understand/accept that this is where we are. We are in our 30's and both fit/healthy. However, he's chronically stressed and on medications that are known to affect libido. Getting physically aroused is easy for him and he shows a clear interest in me, but emotionally/mentally he doesn't feel the interest in sex. We usually have sex a few times per week but I notice the more we try, the less he seems to be into it or I think it stresses him out to perform.
If I say anything about his stress or medications, he gets defensive and says I need to stop getting my hopes up that this will change. He has expressed in counseling that he's feeling a lot of shame... I'm struggling with what to do and how to approach things. Any advice?
*I do love him and I don't want to change our situation. I just want to improve our sexual connection and I'm curious about other thoughts out there from men/women that have made this work for them.
If I say anything about his stress or medications, he gets defensive and says I need to stop getting my hopes up that this will change. He has expressed in counseling that he's feeling a lot of shame... I'm struggling with what to do and how to approach things. Any advice?
*I do love him and I don't want to change our situation. I just want to improve our sexual connection and I'm curious about other thoughts out there from men/women that have made this work for them.