Male looking to explore BDSM with female...

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Hi everyone,

So this is my first post ever! :)

I've been reading stories on this site for years and I've always found them really hot and easily more pleasurable then most pornography available on the net. I've rarely hit the boards but there are sooo many people here I HAD to join!!! Lately, I've been coming out of my shell a little more and I am very willing to explore my deeper side of my sexuality... the side I rarely let anyone ever know about! This may be a long shot but I'm trying to find someone who will want to play with me, hopefully in person one day. I'm unsure of how this is suppose to go but I figure I'll just tell everyone a little bit about myself and see where it goes from there:

I'm a 26 year old Caucasian male, 5,10, 175lbs, unmarried, clean, unattached and I take very good care of my body. I exercise all the time and I've been told I'm really a good looking guy but I can let you be the judge of that ;) I'm also very attentive. There are so many fantasies that I want to explore and I really feel that for the most part I'm a sub at heart BUT I do enjoy being dominant in the rarest of times. Regardless, I'm looking to explore both realms with someone if possible. I've made a little list of things that I would WANT to explore with someone and some fantasies but I am not limited to them:

LIKES:
- Cunnilingus (The submissive side of me just LOVES to get down on my knees and treat a women right! I'm getting more and more talented but I would love to have a teacher or dictator for this ;) I also have deep fantasies about serving a woman this way while she does something nonchalant... watching TV, reading the newspaper, eating dinner, strange I know... and then just carrying on with the day.)

- Light Spanking (A little pain is very intoxicating.)

- Dirty Talk

- Teasing & Denial (Again, and I know I'm not a lone but submissively I love to be teased and toyed with but I've never had my limits really pushed. I do like to tease others as well.)

- Bondage

- Face Dildos/Cock Sheath (Something I've never ever done, BUT I'm very interested in trying. I guess these could fall under 'teasing' too. Maybe it's a strong desire to be used but it would be extremely hot to have someone sit on my face and basically just 'fuck' it! Even more so to fuck a fake cock wrapped around my own. I've always wondered how long and hard I could go.)

- Cock Cage (This is a tough one for me but that thought of it gets me really excited!)

- Cock Rings

- Humiliation (Earning rewards: i.e. to get some oral attention or sex I would have to wear something humiliating or painful, put up with teasing for a specific time period, give 3 to get 1, be spanked, shave public hair, or any other specific little orders.)

- Collars/Leash/Puppy Play

- Sensory Play

- Flesh Light (There's something about a woman holding a vagina in the palm of her hand that gives her so much power!)

- Food Play


...but again with the right person I could go other ways as well. :devil:

Anyway I hope I'm not going about this in the wrong way but I thought I'd post this personal ad and I know it may be a long shot to find a woman that matches with me but it couldn't hurt could it? Blindly throwing out my deepest fantasies on the internet to some strangers? Probably not ;)

I'd obviously be willing to meet in person, but exchanging photos and talking over LIT is cool too. I'm going to be new to most of this so keep that in mind if you are looking... maybe that's part of the rush?

Is there anyone out there?
 
Awwwwwwwwww now this is a really sweet well written ad and deserves a bit of attention... Good job...
 
Not very good... actually you're the only person to inquire :eek:

I realize guys don't get much response around here so I'm not offended. I made a profile over @ fetlife.com under the same name with some photos... It's going slow there too! I guess it's just going to take some time to find someone who matches...

I like that you thought my ad was good and love the profile picture! :D
 
Not very good... actually you're the only person to inquire :eek:

I realize guys don't get much response around here so I'm not offended. I made a profile over @ fetlife.com under the same name with some photos... It's going slow there too! I guess it's just going to take some time to find someone who matches...

I like that you thought my ad was good and love the profile picture! :D

Keep it up with fetlife. join groups around you area. make some friends.
 
Female looking to explore BDXM with male

Hi Canadian!

This is my first post on Lit, although I, like you, have been reading the stories forever. Your personal sounds very titillating to me, and we seem to share the same desires. ....too bad you are not the Dominant as I am the Submissive. I am just out of a 1-1/2 year online relationship with another very young man like yourself (did I mention that I am a Cougar??) that taught me who I really was, but never knew. Will probably be seeing you on the boards as I am in search of a man to take control of me and put me in my place. Good luck on your journey. :rose:
 
Well patience is a virtue, or so somebody says...

;) I will...

Hi Canadian!

This is my first post on Lit, although I, like you, have been reading the stories forever. Your personal sounds very titillating to me, and we seem to share the same desires. ....too bad you are not the Dominant as I am the Submissive. I am just out of a 1-1/2 year online relationship with another very young man like yourself (did I mention that I am a Cougar??) that taught me who I really was, but never knew. Will probably be seeing you on the boards as I am in search of a man to take control of me and put me in my place. Good luck on your journey. :rose:

Bella_Donna,

Good to hear from you and I appreciate you being "titillated" lol. Nothing wrong with a cougar hun, and it IS too bad we don't match on this but I look forward to seeing you around.

Thanks and good luck to you too!
 
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