a12barblues
Virgin
- Joined
- May 5, 2014
- Posts
- 10
As the title states, I am actively looking for a female submissive. Age and experience level are not important; I enjoy introducing newbies into the lifestyle as well as those that have been around the block. No matter the level of experience you will be trained how to please me. This ad is more about the intangible needs. We all have our kinks, spanking, bondage, humiliation, etc, and while sharing kinks is important, to me BDSM is much more mental. It is about the feeling of dominance and the feeling of submission. These feelings are expressed and explored with these activities, but at the core it's about feeling ones part in a particular way that's important. I want a submissive that is my sexual play thing, my fuck toy to use for my, and her, pleasure. I have experience with Daddy/baby girl relationships and have enjoyed that, as I do enjoy guiding and advising those that submit to me, but the sexual submission must be at the core for me. I want to spend my day feeling, and knowing, there is a woman who, even when we're not talking, is spending her day feeling the weight, comfort, and excitement, of my control over her. I want her to feel like she is a toy for me to use, that every minute of her day is in some way focused on pleasing me, and I want this feeling to excite her and drive her lust and obedience for me. I want to explore her sexuality and kinks as well as mine. She should spend periods of her day craving the next time I will use her, whether it be a session or a simple task. I also want her to view me as a close friend, someone she trusts and can confide in about anything and everything, and me to her.
Feeling that way for someone has a lot to do with chemistry, so let me say a few words about me and my personality. I'm in my late 20s and am average height and build; and average penis size for those women out there who want a really big dick; you might want to look elsewhere if that's important. I'm smart, and have a good, usually sarcastic, sense of humor. I'm not a fan of shorthand, even in text messages. I am particular about the way things are done, but think things should be done a certain way because that’s objectively the best method, not because I am partial. I pay attention to detail and can be forward and to the point. I can have high expectations, but I also have a need to give exception when it's warranted. I prefer the intent of a law or rule as opposed to the letter. I love the blues, the music style not the hockey team, but the team ain't bad either. I've been called sweet and caring, as well as demanding and controlling. I want my submissives to feel cared for, respected and valued. Submission is a gift that should always be treated with care and respect. I want to have a conversation with my submissive about her submission, I want to understand what she wants and needs from her submission and her Dom. I do not believe a submissive is worth less, or not a good submissive, if she has a limit on doing x, y, or z. I believe controlling a submissive is very similar to my experience in managing different personalities and opinions: everyone is unique and has their own triggers, buttons, and ways of learning and expressing themselves. The trick for the Dom, or person in charge, is to understand those unique traits and apply pressure and emphasis where it is most needed: some people respond better to stern authoritarianism, some like to talk things out, other's need to be guided or encouraged. Getting to know someone and what drives them to follow my instructions is half the fun for me.
I'm going to mention a few specific kinks here: bondage, spanking, pain play, anal, orgasm control, tease and denial, verbal humiliation. Just to throw this out there, there is nothing sexier to me than a woman whom craves my attention or who I've put in a place of such deep arousal that the only thing she can think about is me and doing whatever she's told for her orgasm. I am open to any kinks you may have, while these are my preferred ways of expressing my control you may have yours and to me the expression isn't as important as the feeling.
If all of this interests you please go ahead and send me a PM and I look forward to talking with you.
Feeling that way for someone has a lot to do with chemistry, so let me say a few words about me and my personality. I'm in my late 20s and am average height and build; and average penis size for those women out there who want a really big dick; you might want to look elsewhere if that's important. I'm smart, and have a good, usually sarcastic, sense of humor. I'm not a fan of shorthand, even in text messages. I am particular about the way things are done, but think things should be done a certain way because that’s objectively the best method, not because I am partial. I pay attention to detail and can be forward and to the point. I can have high expectations, but I also have a need to give exception when it's warranted. I prefer the intent of a law or rule as opposed to the letter. I love the blues, the music style not the hockey team, but the team ain't bad either. I've been called sweet and caring, as well as demanding and controlling. I want my submissives to feel cared for, respected and valued. Submission is a gift that should always be treated with care and respect. I want to have a conversation with my submissive about her submission, I want to understand what she wants and needs from her submission and her Dom. I do not believe a submissive is worth less, or not a good submissive, if she has a limit on doing x, y, or z. I believe controlling a submissive is very similar to my experience in managing different personalities and opinions: everyone is unique and has their own triggers, buttons, and ways of learning and expressing themselves. The trick for the Dom, or person in charge, is to understand those unique traits and apply pressure and emphasis where it is most needed: some people respond better to stern authoritarianism, some like to talk things out, other's need to be guided or encouraged. Getting to know someone and what drives them to follow my instructions is half the fun for me.
I'm going to mention a few specific kinks here: bondage, spanking, pain play, anal, orgasm control, tease and denial, verbal humiliation. Just to throw this out there, there is nothing sexier to me than a woman whom craves my attention or who I've put in a place of such deep arousal that the only thing she can think about is me and doing whatever she's told for her orgasm. I am open to any kinks you may have, while these are my preferred ways of expressing my control you may have yours and to me the expression isn't as important as the feeling.
If all of this interests you please go ahead and send me a PM and I look forward to talking with you.
