Malich
Avuncular Curmudgeon
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Male Dom / Sadist (40) - Thurrock UK - seeks F sub / masochist for long term RL.
So, it’s been a while since I wrote one of these things so excuse me if this comes off a bit formal and, perhaps, a bit demanding... But I’m a Dom so what more do you expect?
I’ve been single for a year now and am in a position, physically and mentally where I am ready (beyond ready perhaps) to find someone new.
So, before I get to what I’m looking for, let me say what I offer. I’m not wealthy, but I am financially independent. I’m educated and currently actually back in education getting an MSc to further myself and my career. I’m single (divorced about 5 years ago and single from the one relationship between then and now) with no kids (though not adverse to having them at all) and a single, old, grumpy cat (I want a dog but being single and working it’s not fair on them until I can either take them to work, share the doggy duties with someone or can afford doggy day care). I’m experienced, caring, and willing to put the needs of a potential partner equal to / above my own in most matters because this is a relationship, not a business transaction.
What I’m not is Christian Grey (thank gods), Brad Pitt (or your chosen piece of celebrity fluff) or Batman (shame). But I’m open, honest and willing to learn what you like as much as I expect you to learn what I enjoy. I’m a geek, a gamer (tabletop, RPG and PC) though not to the exclusion of everything else in life but it’s a big part of who I am and that’s something that’s not going to change.
And what am I looking for? Well... A female sub with strong masochist tendencies, mid 20’s to mid 30’s (ish) within easy reach of me, say an hour’s drive or so. Someone independent in their life but looking to share something more with me. Don’t care if you’re barrister or a barista, as long as you’re doing something that brings you a bit of financial independence.
I’m not looking just for someone to meet up with from time to time to get my rocks off with, I’m looking for someone who’s going to want to spend time with me, maybe grow into a long term, loving relationship... whom I can get my rocks off with!
I’m not looking for a superstar / model (though if you are one don’t think it rules you out) but I am looking for someone I feel attracted to physically and mentally (As I hope you are too).
So, if you’re somewhere within shouting distance of Thurrock (I drive and live close to a railway station) and you might be interested in seeing what happens, then drop me a message or find me on chat!
Mal
So, it’s been a while since I wrote one of these things so excuse me if this comes off a bit formal and, perhaps, a bit demanding... But I’m a Dom so what more do you expect?
I’ve been single for a year now and am in a position, physically and mentally where I am ready (beyond ready perhaps) to find someone new.
So, before I get to what I’m looking for, let me say what I offer. I’m not wealthy, but I am financially independent. I’m educated and currently actually back in education getting an MSc to further myself and my career. I’m single (divorced about 5 years ago and single from the one relationship between then and now) with no kids (though not adverse to having them at all) and a single, old, grumpy cat (I want a dog but being single and working it’s not fair on them until I can either take them to work, share the doggy duties with someone or can afford doggy day care). I’m experienced, caring, and willing to put the needs of a potential partner equal to / above my own in most matters because this is a relationship, not a business transaction.
What I’m not is Christian Grey (thank gods), Brad Pitt (or your chosen piece of celebrity fluff) or Batman (shame). But I’m open, honest and willing to learn what you like as much as I expect you to learn what I enjoy. I’m a geek, a gamer (tabletop, RPG and PC) though not to the exclusion of everything else in life but it’s a big part of who I am and that’s something that’s not going to change.
And what am I looking for? Well... A female sub with strong masochist tendencies, mid 20’s to mid 30’s (ish) within easy reach of me, say an hour’s drive or so. Someone independent in their life but looking to share something more with me. Don’t care if you’re barrister or a barista, as long as you’re doing something that brings you a bit of financial independence.
I’m not looking just for someone to meet up with from time to time to get my rocks off with, I’m looking for someone who’s going to want to spend time with me, maybe grow into a long term, loving relationship... whom I can get my rocks off with!
I’m not looking for a superstar / model (though if you are one don’t think it rules you out) but I am looking for someone I feel attracted to physically and mentally (As I hope you are too).
So, if you’re somewhere within shouting distance of Thurrock (I drive and live close to a railway station) and you might be interested in seeing what happens, then drop me a message or find me on chat!
Mal
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