Male Bi-Virgin here...

[BrendaAnn]

Hi, I'm new here. It's pretty great so far poking around the website.

I have a question though for those who have been where I am. Especially if you are a woman and can encourage me, I'd be grateful. Just let me know I'm not crazy!

I have never been "with" a man. But have desperately wanted to over the years. I'm 43, and have been bi-curious I suppose. Like alot of people, I had "played doctor" in a sense, with a neighbor. Which I think has been the catalyst for my fantasy all these years. I masturbate, and fantasize about being naked in bed with a man. And him letting me play with his cock and do what ever I wanted with it. Which would of course include riding it till it shot cum deep inside me. But, I'm way to chicken to meet someone. I don't know how it works, How you meet a man, and get over the shyness of getting naked with him. I'm afraid once I did, i wouldn't be good ad sucking him. But I'd want to try it. And if he wanted me to wear lacy panties, oh my! *whew*

Any advice? How do I get over being nervous, and get started?

Like other men, I have fantasized about sharing my wife with another man, and watching him enjoy every inch of her little body with his tongue, fingers and hard cock sliding in and out of her little red haired pussy and filling it with cum, which I would want to lick off her pussy after he pulled out. But, fantasies are a funny thing. Frustrating to say the least. She would have nothing to do with that idea, sadly. I have suspected that if she ran into her high school sweet heart, that she was intimate with quite a bit, that she might be willing to relive a memory with him.

Anyway, am I alone, am I crazy?
Thoughts?

Thanks, "Brenda"

 

[bazatheman]

Hi Brenda

Well what i would say is fantasies are what they are until you do them,but what you want to do may be too much too quick.

can i ask does your wife have any idea about your sexual preferences ?
i ask this because to go anywhere with your desires she has to know what you want.
what i suggest is to go slowly and work with her on her boundaries (maybe have a play with a dildo and add the lacy panties as a extra later)

its hard to enter into a 3rd person sex session due to jelousy of one partner or the other but if both of you feel comfortable try meeting others for soft swapping (where you can watch or just touch without full sex) and then go further as you both feel comfortable.

sorry i am not a woman telling you this but the acceptance should be with your wife not the girls on here.

on the other hand if you find a woman on here to tell you its all good and it helps with your fanasy ... enjoy... baz