freedom1212
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Hey all, have recently become interested in trying out solo anal play as a guy but no idea anything about it. Any pointers?
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Start small, take your time to warm up, lube. If you are just getting started no need to get toys just yet. Clip your fingernails and start with the pinky finger.
I take a warm bath and play around the area while relaxing. Use this time and focus on the sensations. This will help prep for insertion. If in the water I use some coconut oil, natural and doesn't wash away too quickly.
I highly recommend researching in prostate massage. My favorite device is the aneros Helix.
Happy exploring
I take a warm bath and play around the area while relaxing. Use this time and focus on the sensations. This will help prep for insertion. If in the water I use some coconut oil, natural and doesn't wash away too quickly.
I highly recommend researching in prostate massage. My favorite device is the aneros Helix.
Happy exploring
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Find some kind of butt plug, small and thin is what I would recommend. Lots of lube as well. I'm looking for a butt plug trainer kit, so I can increase the size of the toy I use.
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Get yourself an anal douche. Use warm soapy water to clean yourself out. I do it a
2 or 3 times after I have a bowel movement. And do start small take your time and in no time you will work yourself up to where you want to be. It should not be uncomfortable.
2 or 3 times after I have a bowel movement. And do start small take your time and in no time you will work yourself up to where you want to be. It should not be uncomfortable.
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There are a number of ways to go about this. Lots more men are interested in anal play than would ever admit it. There are three reasons why anal play is pleasurable
The most important thing to get is lubricant. Lube can make the whole thing quite easy and painless. A water-based lube is the best all-rounder because it can be used in conjunction with silicon and latex without problem.
Using lube and a finger can be the easiest way to get to know yourself. You can try using your little finger, but that's not going to be much fun even for a beginner. A well-lubed middle finger should be easy enough.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but shit comes out of your ass. The truth is that there isn't that much of it. You could use disposable latex gloves for hygiene if you want. You could use a douche to wash yourself out, but that can feel odd (though some people like it). If you use a toy, clean it afterwards (dedicated sex toy cleaners are quite handy).
Don't use any toy that could be pulled completely inside of you (like a vibrator without a flared or curved base). It's incredibly difficult to get out once it's in. Butt plugs and beads focus on the sphincter muscles. A good all-rounder is a prostate massager as you can touch all the good places. A prostate toy is curved, so you can stimulate the organ easily.
The prostate feels like a firm plum pushed against the front wall of the rectum between your naval and your cock. It's about 5 cm (2") inside. You can use a finger to make a come-hither gesture to tickle it, or a curved toy. There are health benefits to doing this. Some men can come just by doing this. Others can come quite powerfully if they masturbate while stimulating the prostate.
Anal play is a great thing to share with a long-term partner as it shows a willingness to trust someone.
You can PM me if you want more advice. I promise it won't be weird.
- the sphincter muscles have lots of nerve endings.
- the prostate, which has nerve endings and is part of a man's internal sex organs, can be stimulated,
- the idea of it, the taboo, the dirtiness, can be a turn on.
The most important thing to get is lubricant. Lube can make the whole thing quite easy and painless. A water-based lube is the best all-rounder because it can be used in conjunction with silicon and latex without problem.
Using lube and a finger can be the easiest way to get to know yourself. You can try using your little finger, but that's not going to be much fun even for a beginner. A well-lubed middle finger should be easy enough.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but shit comes out of your ass. The truth is that there isn't that much of it. You could use disposable latex gloves for hygiene if you want. You could use a douche to wash yourself out, but that can feel odd (though some people like it). If you use a toy, clean it afterwards (dedicated sex toy cleaners are quite handy).
Don't use any toy that could be pulled completely inside of you (like a vibrator without a flared or curved base). It's incredibly difficult to get out once it's in. Butt plugs and beads focus on the sphincter muscles. A good all-rounder is a prostate massager as you can touch all the good places. A prostate toy is curved, so you can stimulate the organ easily.
The prostate feels like a firm plum pushed against the front wall of the rectum between your naval and your cock. It's about 5 cm (2") inside. You can use a finger to make a come-hither gesture to tickle it, or a curved toy. There are health benefits to doing this. Some men can come just by doing this. Others can come quite powerfully if they masturbate while stimulating the prostate.
Anal play is a great thing to share with a long-term partner as it shows a willingness to trust someone.
You can PM me if you want more advice. I promise it won't be weird.
