Male anal fantasies (recieving)

ca||um said:
I'm not gay, but I like anal play on myself
Okay, I'm not a guy, but liking ass play doesn't make you gay.

ca||um said:
I'm quite young, still a virgin. Younger than my registration says.
I didn't see any info on your profile, but you DO need to be 18 to post here, so if you're not 18, come back when you are.
 
it all depends on what you call "normal", as you suggest. :> i don't think a lot of straight guys are into it, but that's b/c they're getting hung up on trying to stick a label on it. you clearly don't suffer from that problem, so if i were you, i wouldn't worry about it.

as to broaching the topic w/ women in the future: don't stress it. at some point, someone will want to return the favor if you've expressed an interest in doing it to her. :>

ed
 
ca||um said:
It's not just ass play, it's opinions on the thoughts of being fucked by a woman. I'm not questioning my sexuality but I was wondering if this is normal ...maybe just an experimental stage? meh, maybe nothing is 'normal' :)

One fear is announcing this to future girlfriends, I have a 'sort of' girlfriend now, it's hard to explain but she's fine with it and even likes the idea of ass play though I haven't shared the wanting to be fucked fantasy.

and yes, I'm over 18 (just :p) but I added that because I picked a random year in rush of wanting to pust this topic.

IMO, it's perfectly normal. My suggestion is not to hook up with girls that aren't open to your fantasies. There are plenty of decent women who are and in the long run I think you would regret not being with one of them. Just MO, mind you.
 
ca||um said:
It's not just ass play, it's opinions on the thoughts of being fucked by a woman. I'm not questioning my sexuality but I was wondering if this is normal ...maybe just an experimental stage? meh, maybe nothing is 'normal' :)

One fear is announcing this to future girlfriends, I have a 'sort of' girlfriend now, it's hard to explain but she's fine with it and even likes the idea of ass play though I haven't shared the wanting to be fucked fantasy.

and yes, I'm over 18 (just :p) but I added that because I picked a random year in rush of wanting to pust this topic.

Hi!

Like Silverwhisper says, don't get hungup on all the labels ...yeah, they have their use but are very limiting. I'm straight as it gets, but I love my girls to fuck my ass with a strap-on, I like the "filled" feeling, the way it feels when she rubs in and out of my anal rings, the way it strokes across my prostate. And just the idea of it all! hehehe!

In my experience, anyone- girl or boy, who is in touch with their body ends up enjoying ass play of some sort because it just feels good! And if you are not sure if your girl (or boy!) is in to it, you can talk about it, or just gently rub and play with their asshole when you are fucking and they are really hot, ...believe me, you will be able to tell if they like it!!!! you don't have to make a big deal about it, no big announcement necessary... if they do not like it, just cool it... but this has never happened to me...

On the other hand if they get all hot and say "Ooooh..fuck my ass!"...well, I am sure you can take it from there! Read up on it, and pay attention to being clean about it, don't go from ass to pussy without changing condoms and cleaning etc... but you know that..

Also, just remember even if they like ass play... they may not like ass fucking.. it can be too intense for some people. Best thing anyone can do for their sex life is talk about your needs! If you all are old enough to do this stuff, you are old enough to talk about it with each other..

So yeah, straight guy have fantasy and desire... I know a lot that do!

angelicminx is right on, so if you like this, it is worth it to find a girl that can be open and likes it too!
And if you run into the right girl, and you have never experienced it... the first time she surprises you and licks and kisses your asshole, and maybe even put her tongue in there, will really blow your mind!
 
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ca||um said:
It's not just ass play, it's opinions on the thoughts of being fucked by a woman. I'm not questioning my sexuality but I was wondering if this is normal ...maybe just an experimental stage? meh, maybe nothing is 'normal' :)

One fear is announcing this to future girlfriends, I have a 'sort of' girlfriend now, it's hard to explain but she's fine with it and even likes the idea of ass play though I haven't shared the wanting to be fucked fantasy.
Reminds me all to myself... Young, male, virgin... and liking things in the ass! :D

It was in fact my girl, who first mentioned anal-play, which I am quite glad for, because it spares me to first touch this topic... :D She tried herself, and liked it very much, and after I told her how it feels to me she definately whants to stick her fingers in me, once the fun started... ; )
 
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