Making Women Come Before Intercourse

[Foolhen]

I find it a big turn-on to make a woman come before I have sex with her. Part of it is the tease and the enjoyment of watching her writhe and squirm with pleasure until her pussy starts pulsing on my fingers or my tongue. Denying her the cock she wants inside her so badly until she had come for me. I also love how we are both completely focused on her and there is little distraction from my own physical stimulation. Finally, I really love entering her pussy while it's still tight and extra sensitive from her orgasm. At first it's a bit overwhelming, but then she adjusts and it turns to pleasure again until she has another orgasm while I'm pumping her full of come.

What do other men and women think of this?

 

[Dave88ITA]

I completely agree, I love the feeling

 

[Solsurfer]

Always give my wife multiple orgasms before I enter her. Which ever method she’d like. Fingers, toy, oral, or any combo. It gets us both fired up for the main event. Plus I want to make sure she gets her’s before I get mine.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

My late husband always made sure I came first...
Usually by giving me amazing oral!!!!

 

[Sgts19]

I'd say 90% of the time I get her off with my tongue before fucking. We usually start out with both of us performing oral on each other. I love to get her right to the edge stop fuck then right back down between her legs to put her over the top. She'd divorce me if I didn't go down on her.
She hardly comes from penetration...with me anyways and usually only one orgasm...with me anyways. Are they better than me? Is it because we've been married since 1800? It does get rather ho hum after that many years. Who knows who cares as long as she has a good time

 

[Dave88ITA]

My late husband always made sure I came first...
Usually by giving me amazing oral!!!!

I need a lady to sit on my face so much...

 

[CX726577]

Similar to above! My wife loves to cum a bunch before I finish her off. A nicely paced variety and she may cum 10-12 times first. As mentioned watching her writhing around cumming like mad isn't bad at all!

 

[Mu5tang]

My wife's clit becomes extremely sensitive after making her cum orally. It can't be touched for a couple minutes. She considers it a 1 and done, climactic event.

She has a very tiny pussy. Cumming causes her to spasm, clamping down hard, as it pulses through her body. Her legs lock up uncontrollably. If fucking her and she cums from clit stimulation, it is an amazing feeling.

If fucking her after making her cum orally... She cannot be fucked from behind at the start... no balls slapping her sensitive clit for a couple minutes.

 

[MaturemaninVA931393]

My late husband always made sure I came first...
Usually by giving me amazing oral!!!!

I can't tell who ws luckier...you or your husband.

 

[jchtlit]

Always give my wife multiple orgasms before I enter her. Which ever method she’d like. Fingers, toy, oral, or any combo. It gets us both fired up for the main event. Plus I want to make sure she gets her’s before I get mine.

I have been doing that for years with GF's and the wife.
Have been told by many women that I am an exception to the majority of their lovers.

 

[Solsurfer]

I have been doing that for years with GF's and the wife.
Have been told by many women that I am an exception to the majority of their lovers.

That just seems crazy to me. Why would you not want to make your lover happy and get them off?? That’s a win win for the both of you. Seems selfish to get your’s and call it good. Lol! No way. That’s not right.

 

[LadyJen7]

My wife's clit becomes extremely sensitive after making her cum orally. It can't be touched for a couple minutes. She considers it a 1 and done, climactic event.

She has a very tiny pussy. Cumming causes her to spasm, clamping down hard, as it pulses through her body. Her legs lock up uncontrollably. If fucking her and she cums from clit stimulation, it is an amazing feeling.

If fucking her after making her cum orally... She cannot be fucked from behind at the start... no balls slapping her sensitive clit for a couple minutes.

Hmmm.... I think we know each other. Sounds VERY familiar.

 

[Britva415]

I talk about this with my partners, and a few of them have said they don't necessarily mind coming before I do, but they don't want me to just stop once I get off. Sometimes THEY want to roll over and fall asleep after coming. And sometimes they don't want to come before fucking.

So my policy is "she comes first and last," if she wants, whichever she wants, one or the other or both. Communication is key.

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

What do other men and women think of this?

I have a difficult orgasm, much harder than most women I have ever been with.

So, I defaulted to pleasing them in bed with foreplay.

Oral, fingers, toys, more oral. Whatever she needed to feel like someone was making love to her.

I did that and only that for pretty much 99 percent of my sexual experience for the past 24 years.

So, I know a thing or two about licking pussy and fingering. And holding a dildo or a vibrator.

Anyway.... after 30 minutes to an hour of that, and she's had a few orgasms, and her sounds and vocalizations and moans have gotten me really really aroused, then we have intercourse.

And it's the sounds she makes. That unlocks my orgasm.

I can't cum unless she's been moaning for a long time. That's so hot.

And then I can when she's cum on my face a few times.

This is what I have to do, I'm not doing it out of some chivalrous impulse that says ladies' first.

No, it's because if we started with me, her jaw would get sore, or I would get too tired to continue, and then neither of us would be in the mood.

We start with her because 100 percent of the time, she can cum faster than me.

I know the stereotype especially with men who are inexperienced is that they cum in 5 minutes or less.

Nope, not me,

My first time, I didn't have an orgasm, at all. Fucked for hours.

It's NOT a fun thing for me. My partners had fun, but I just get sad after a while because most women can't cum just from penetration alone anyway.

So we do foreplay. Almost the whole time. Then we fuck like craaaaazy

Then it doesn't take nearly as long for me.