Good evening. My husband and I have been exploring this bdsm relationship for some time. I have been having a problem lately with the amount of noise that I have been making when we are having fun (I am not so sure how to describe it). I really love to find a way that we can still keep this going but I cannot be so loud. Thanks in advance for all of the advise.
Making too much noise
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Daddy2mylilgirl
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A gag of some sorts?
Kurokami
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Well, are you the dominant or submissive party in the relationship? If you're the sub, you could always have your dom order you to keep silent, and punish you whenever you get too loud. I dunno, might make it more fun.
Or yes, I hear gags are also good.
Or yes, I hear gags are also good.
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Gags are always an option.
Stella_Omega
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That's what they are for!
Be aware though that there are very few gags that can make you absolutely silent. Most of them will muffle the high notes at least, and definitely garble your speech-- but as long as your larynx is working you can make sounds.
Be aware though that there are very few gags that can make you absolutely silent. Most of them will muffle the high notes at least, and definitely garble your speech-- but as long as your larynx is working you can make sounds.
the captians wench
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Kind of depends who you are trying to keep the noise down for.
One trick I've experienced in the past for nosey neighbors is to turn the radio or TV up not loud enough to get called on for that, but loud enough to muffle the sound of the whacks. This of course doesn't work as well for kids though.
One trick I've experienced in the past for nosey neighbors is to turn the radio or TV up not loud enough to get called on for that, but loud enough to muffle the sound of the whacks. This of course doesn't work as well for kids though.
Gags are so much fun. They could be a simple as a hand over the mouth or a bite to the lip. Biting is my favorite: muffle and eat the "screams." Two birds one stone technique?
Do you have a fetish for certain types of clothing? Those items can work to great effect also.
Gags can also be used as a punishment during a session. Even though the hubs likes the gag, he's not so fond of it if he's been mansplaining all day, muwahaha.
Do you have a fetish for certain types of clothing? Those items can work to great effect also.
Gags can also be used as a punishment during a session. Even though the hubs likes the gag, he's not so fond of it if he's been mansplaining all day, muwahaha.
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Is the problem you making too much noise or too much noise leaving your play space? Adding light sound proofing to a room isn't very difficult if the problem is noise leaving.
I wanted to thank you for all of your kind advise. I am the sub first of all. The problem is that I get too loud even with the tv noise trying to drown me out. I really cannot control how loud I do get (I am hearing impaired). We do have a gag (more like a silacone shaped like a plug not the ball kind). The gag we have is not working. I am wondering about other types of gags. Thank you guys again for all of your help with this. I do appreciate it.
Stella_Omega
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Maybe something like these? http://www.stockroom.com/Muzzles-C215.aspx (shop around, find a better price if you need to-- or improvise)
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knot_sweet
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I have found that fabric muffles sound better than other materials. Try rolling a dense cotton into a ball and using that. Make sure that there aren't any parts of the fabric that can get loose and get caught in your throat.
Alternatively, breathe out right before the stroke lands. Can't make much noise when you haven't got any breathe to do it with.
Alternatively, breathe out right before the stroke lands. Can't make much noise when you haven't got any breathe to do it with.
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My suggestion? Bite the ever loving hell out of a pillow or something when you need that catharsis of noise. It's voluntary so it's not as obvious as "gag her" - maybe you could get a phallic or cloth gag and bite that, but it really does help keep the noise down when you have that outlet, in my experience.
I've fucked a VERY noisy fucker in an office/studio space with way too thin walls - as long as there's something soft to chew on, we're good.
I've fucked a VERY noisy fucker in an office/studio space with way too thin walls - as long as there's something soft to chew on, we're good.
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I second the pillow/fabric notion. It's really the only thing that will muffle noise very well...
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Seconding this advice. It's sound.
eastern sun
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I have screamed into pillows, towels, clothing, with kids asleep in the next room and it's been ok. And, as Netzach pointed out, biting helps.
The pillow definitely helps. I did bite down her when I felt the need to. My husband was definitely proud that I was able to keep the noise down. Thank you all for the kind advise. It looks as if this will continue in the direction that I have been hoping for a long time. Thank you guys so very much.
