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I think you misunderstood Melody Lane.
She meant you should look for this thread:
http://forum.eliterotica.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000097.html
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My advice would be to let gravity do the work. Try and refrain from thrusting from the hips if you're on top; make love with your whole body.
Did you try just lying on your back with your girlfriend doing the work for herself on top?
Did you try just lying on your back with your girlfriend doing the work for herself on top?
If you are familier with Masters and Johnson, the sex researchers who wrote a couple of books in the sixties, they had a treatment for premature ejaculation.You need to get your girlfriend to help, but it can be fixed.
It's called the "squeeze technique". When you are about to cum to fast, you withdraw and your partner takes your penis and firmly squeezes it just behind the head until the urge to cum passes. Do this repeatedly, lasting as long as you can. The idea is to train yourself, just like a runner trains for a race.
I know that for some people it works, but not for all. Good luck.
It's called the "squeeze technique". When you are about to cum to fast, you withdraw and your partner takes your penis and firmly squeezes it just behind the head until the urge to cum passes. Do this repeatedly, lasting as long as you can. The idea is to train yourself, just like a runner trains for a race.
I know that for some people it works, but not for all. Good luck.
Oddly enough, neither in these replies nor in the earlier thread on this subject, no one even mentioned that creams, such as Prolong, are available that when applied to the glans of the penis, desensitize it for a time.
Not great for long-term use, I think, but as a means for training a guy -- which is absolutely possible. All sex starts in the mind, but when sensations in the penis are extreme the mind goes right along with that. But the mind CAN control events, and with the help of a retardent the mind can learn to extend the experience.
Sounds like you guys have already made progress on a solution (no pun intended), but this might help, too.
Incidentally, you mentioned that you don't excite him prior to intercourse, but I notice you say he usually goes down on you to pleasure you before he enters you. When I do that, it sure stimulates ME and I'm sure it does him, as well. So I'd suggest trying the cream before he even gives you oral pleasure to help keep him calm during that very exciting experience.
Not great for long-term use, I think, but as a means for training a guy -- which is absolutely possible. All sex starts in the mind, but when sensations in the penis are extreme the mind goes right along with that. But the mind CAN control events, and with the help of a retardent the mind can learn to extend the experience.
Sounds like you guys have already made progress on a solution (no pun intended), but this might help, too.
Incidentally, you mentioned that you don't excite him prior to intercourse, but I notice you say he usually goes down on you to pleasure you before he enters you. When I do that, it sure stimulates ME and I'm sure it does him, as well. So I'd suggest trying the cream before he even gives you oral pleasure to help keep him calm during that very exciting experience.
>"Incidentally, you mentioned that you don't excite him prior to intercourse, but I notice you say he usually goes down on you to pleasure you before he enters you. When I do that, it sure stimulates ME and I'm sure it does him, as well. So I'd suggest trying the cream before he even gives you oral pleasure to help keep him calm during that very exciting experience."
Tinman, who the hell are you talking to?
Tinman, who the hell are you talking to?
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Sorry, Matt -- and you others, too. I got two different threads mixed up ... musta been buzzed by Delila's newest pics she emailed me about. A similar problem was described by a lady in another forum, and I wrote my reply offline (in Notepad). Of course, the point is still valid, even tho directed to the wrong questioner. I'll have to be more careful.
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I have heard (never actually tried) that there is a "button" in the man's perenium that when pushed just prior to orgasm will stop the orgasm and prolong the sexual experience. Perhaps this is something you can research and try?
Or there is always the stop and go method. Sex in one position until you feel the urge to climax and then perhaps a little oral...or you stop and let her whisper an erotic tale in your ear, then back to sex in another position. Sometimes the anticipation makes it sweeter!
~Southern~
Or there is always the stop and go method. Sex in one position until you feel the urge to climax and then perhaps a little oral...or you stop and let her whisper an erotic tale in your ear, then back to sex in another position. Sometimes the anticipation makes it sweeter!
~Southern~
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Stone~
Might not be able to locate the "button" in question...but we could sure have a hell of a lot of fun trying. Practice, practice, practice!
Havocman~
Always nice to have someone agree with me...doesnt happen very often!!
~Southern~
Might not be able to locate the "button" in question...but we could sure have a hell of a lot of fun trying. Practice, practice, practice!
Havocman~
Always nice to have someone agree with me...doesnt happen very often!!
~Southern~
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While all of these suggestions are valid, and BTW Southern I like your idea best, sometimes you may find it easier to make your brain THINK of something else other than the exquisite feeling of flesh entering upon flesh...if you feel yourself starting to get TOO worked up, force yourself to occupy your mind on a different subject...
Do multiplication tables to 12 in your head i.e. 1x1=1, 1x2=2, 1x3=3, etc. until you reach 1x12=12 then move up to 2x1=2, you get the idea. This method usually works best however with her on top, where not much concentration is required by you...see if you can reach 12x12=144, harder than you might think with a wildly bucking woman on your member...lol...if you get that far and still don't wanna cum, just do what I do...
Try to remember the complete line-up, batting order, and avgs. of the 1982 St. Louis Cardinals.....
Okay that one was a joke, but good luck anyway Stone's Throw
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Do multiplication tables to 12 in your head i.e. 1x1=1, 1x2=2, 1x3=3, etc. until you reach 1x12=12 then move up to 2x1=2, you get the idea. This method usually works best however with her on top, where not much concentration is required by you...see if you can reach 12x12=144, harder than you might think with a wildly bucking woman on your member...lol...if you get that far and still don't wanna cum, just do what I do...
Try to remember the complete line-up, batting order, and avgs. of the 1982 St. Louis Cardinals.....
Okay that one was a joke, but good luck anyway Stone's Throw
Havoc
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Ya know tinman, with all that description, I still don't have a fundamental understanding of how all this works. Maybe someone could give me a "hands on" demonstration??
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~Southern~
Wink,
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No one seems to have mentioned breathing here. Eastern teachings emphasize that breath control is the key to controlling climax and release of the ejaculate.
When I first read of that, I thought I'd give it a try, cause like Stone'sThrow I like to focus on all the feelings of the act and don't care for desensitizing creams and multiplication tables.
Well, I was amazed at the result. It DOES work, but takes a little practice. It works like this: Fom the start of foreplay, the male must breath deeply. We guys tend to hold our breaths to heighten the pleausre of penetration and thrusting. You have to keep breathing, deeply, taking in lots of oxygen. There's probably some physiological explanation that I don't know about, but somehow all the oxygen in the blood does slow down the excitement without decreasing the pleasure. It also provides more energy for continuing the act.
The trick, though, is to REMEMBER to breathe. It's easy to forget, hold it in, and go like thunder to "get there" when what we really want is to go longer, enjoy the pleasure, and not to worry, "getting there" will follow when we want.
When I first read of that, I thought I'd give it a try, cause like Stone'sThrow I like to focus on all the feelings of the act and don't care for desensitizing creams and multiplication tables.
Well, I was amazed at the result. It DOES work, but takes a little practice. It works like this: Fom the start of foreplay, the male must breath deeply. We guys tend to hold our breaths to heighten the pleausre of penetration and thrusting. You have to keep breathing, deeply, taking in lots of oxygen. There's probably some physiological explanation that I don't know about, but somehow all the oxygen in the blood does slow down the excitement without decreasing the pleasure. It also provides more energy for continuing the act.
The trick, though, is to REMEMBER to breathe. It's easy to forget, hold it in, and go like thunder to "get there" when what we really want is to go longer, enjoy the pleasure, and not to worry, "getting there" will follow when we want.
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But how did you know what your mother...
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